THEcuckold

I am, thank you.  Feel free to ask me anything you want about our lifestyle.

how long has she been fucking others and how did you get her to start

Sorry for the delayed response, time2win.

Not exactly sure how long it's been, but at least a few years.  I confessed my fantasy of watching her fuck another man, about 10 years ago.  It scared the hell out of me to admit it.  Luckily, her response was not what I expected.  I was expecting disgust, condemnation along with a request for divorce.  She was shocked, but, to my surprise, she laughed and found it very intriguing as well.

Her initial response was "oh no, I could never do that.  Are you looking for permission for yourself. Are you feeling guilty for something you have done, etc."

I denied the last two and tried to explain that all of my fantasies involved her with other men.  Nevertheless, over the next several years, she would bring up my fantasy.  That told me she was curious, if not interested, in taking our relationship in that direction.

She finally did.  It was the ice breaker we needed.  Now, she is a full blown vixen.

If you want to know more, let me know.  It has been a great experience for her and I, but it has bad sides along with the good sides.  As the man (cuckold) you really need to have a lot of self confidence and be emotionally strong.