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☝When the Cuckold Is Not Into Humiliation

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In our relationship, the husband is not the prototypical small penis, humiliation type cuckold. He is a blend of the generous, competitive, and voyeur cuckold! The wife is not a slut, not a one night stand type of girl, or a femdom hotwife. She is very selective, prefers long term "friends with benefits" relationships, and likes to tease her husband with her conquests, but has no interest in humiliating him. 

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I guess it depends on your own definition of what cuckolding is.

I think it's a definite form of cuckolding. For example, the first time my wife had sex with another man during our marriage, she seduced one of my best friends, and took him to our bedroom, and had sex with him in our bed. If that's not cuckolding, I don't know what is. Since then, many years later, of the seven men she has seduced and taken as lovers, five of them were (still are) very good friends of mine. Only two of her conquests were men she met outside of our circle of friends. I didn't suggest them, she picked them herself, and she later admitted that her fucking my friends was more exciting for her, and she knew it would test me, and my willingness to give her complete control in her own sexuality, and who she chooses to sleep with. 

She has also admitted that at least three of her lovers fuck better, and two of them are better equipped. One other lover is far better than me at oral sex. While she claims sexually, I'm very satisfying, I'm not her best in any catagory. There have also been long periods, where one of her lover's would recieve far more sexual attention from from her, than she was giving me. She chooses if I'm allowed to be with her, when she goes out with a lover. When one of her long distance lovers comes to town to see her, she has made it clear that during those visits, she is sexually exclusive to him. I'm completely cut off during those periods. 

We don't play at hardcore humiliation, simply because we're not into it, and we both find the more subtle aspects, like picking a lover over me, teasing me about his prowess, stamina, and/or better endowment, and watching her higher level of passion with a lover, quite humiliating enough. There is nothing sexier or more humliatiing to me, than to watch her take her lover's cock in her mouth or pussy, while looking straight at me with a playfully defiant look on her face. 

We may not have the kind of cuckolding relationship that is played out in bad porn or Letters to Penthouse, and we don't play around with extended periods of denial or forced chastity, but it is certainly moved beyond a simple Hotwife relationship. At least that's how we see it!

 

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I'm not into humiliation at all, neither my wife is into humiliating me. Any attempt would lead to a definite disengagement with the guy.

The guy should have total respect to us - after all, I am the one who is offering his wife and my wife is the one offering herself to him. He wouldn't be here if we did not allow (otherwise it would be r a p e right??)

Having said that, I can see a bit of myself in those categories except for The Generous Cuckold Husband and Cuckold Husbands and their "Slut Wives" and the closest ones to me are The Cuckold Voyeur and The Giving Cuckold Husband.

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Well we're in more the hotwife, slutwife area, the only ones that have ever been humiliated were some asshole how tried the humiliation crap, because they had bigger dicks it turned my wife off, and I ended up throwing the asshole out of the hotel room naked. Then again I'm 6'1" 250 and work construction, and worked as a bouncer in some redneck bars for 10yrs. Even the guys that played nice were amazed that I could make Deb squirt when their bigger cocks couldn't.  Oh and when I threw the assholes out into the hallway, their clothes went out the window. You don't fuck with an old bikers slut and get by with it.

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Whenever I talk to cucks, real or wannabe's, I always ask them why they want another man to have sex with their wives and have had a total range of responses ranging from the really submissive "doormat" type who claims not to be worthy of sex with his wife who should only be pleasured by "real" men through to the type who regards his wife as a hot wife who is free to enjoy her sexuality.

However I would say that most want to watch their wife having sex, to treat her as their personal porn star and are willing to accept (or perhaps believe that they have to) behaving submissively as the price to pay to get this - "Yes, tie me in a chair in the corner, but make sure that it's somewhere that I can watch". With some it also gives them an excuse to try out some of their fantasies e.g. cleaning their wife afterwards 

My belief is that the event should give some form of pleasure to all involved, which for the cuck may be a simple as knowing that his wife has had great sex (hopefully) or for the truly submissive cuck that he has been given my some form of "pain" (mental anguish, humiliation) which is what he craves

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Well said! I could not phrase it better than you.

The closest ones to me are The Cuckold Voyeur and The Giving Cuckold Husband.

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Agreed there Enigma, this should give pleasure to ALL involved.   For me it satisfied the need inside me to know she was being fucked by someone far better than me.  It also gave me that pain and anguish that come from handing over my wife entirely to someone else for his pleasure.  As he was divorced, there was always the possibility that he could whisk her off her feet and take her away from me, which I really did not want to happen, I endured the risk to gain the pleasure of knowing that they were enjoying each other in bed so much.   I would have loved to be able to watch them, but she excluded me from their relationship entirely.   Being tied up and forced to watch? Oh YES please!   Cleaning up after he had left, or when she returned from his place was wonderful to be able to do.

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totally agree , and its not about a massive cock, its about that feeling with the 1st meeting , everyone feeling the electricity of the meet, the building of trust, enjoying company, everyone limits respected , having the wife dressed to please  requesting hubby to prepare his wife for the cock to come, ensuring that everyone is ok with everything ,

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Absolutely, just because I want her to be fucked by someone else, does NOT mean I don't love her.  It's because I love her that I want her to enjoy herself in bed with someone else who can satisfy her.   Respect please.

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Not about the size at all, the size of the cock comes much behind

 

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Folks....There is some interesting reading on this thread. Some great comments from a wide variety of cuckold husbands...and a few hotwives...giving their particular viewpoints.

Upon reading this it seems like one thing can be said....each and every cuckold husband/hotwife/bull relationship is unique. The cuck hub/hotwife/bull relationship is just like any good, working relationship....requires time, understanding, respect, good chemisty and what I consider the most important quality....TRUST.

Really interesting comments posted here everyone....great insights to esch of your unique situations.

Thanks much for sharing your thoughts!

Happy New Year...best wishes to all for a wonderful 2019!

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Totally agree, as a bull or as a cuck, i believe it is much more than about humiliation, at least for me. It is about exploring your boundaries, your fantasies, having a healthy open relationship and having a wonderful time.

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