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On 5/22/2019 at 4:07 PM, pflash99 said:

You simply have to figure out a way to breach the subject.  Her reactions can vary.  It could upset her, she could be indifferent, she could laugh.  If you're lucky, she could show interest immediately, but that would be rare.

Expect her to be suspicious of your motives.  She may wonder if you're feeling guilty for something you have done or looking for permission for yourself.

Either way, expect her to be against the idea, at least at first.  However, breaching the subject with her will definitely plant a seed of thought in her mind.  If she gets upset by the idea, don't push it.  Allow that seed of thought to grow in her mind.

My wife and I started early in our relationship.  We were in our early 20's and in college.  It's rare for couples to start at an early age like us and be successful.  So, I consider ourselves to be very lucky.  But, we have many, many friends that started later in life as you are.  Most of them offered the idea but didn't actually take t he first step until a few years later.  Yep, it took that long for the seed to grow.  So patience, on your part, is vital.

Keep this in mind, though.  If your wife does agree, there may be no turning back.  Wives that decide to try it, often start off reluctant, then love it.  When you give freedom t areo a person, they usually don't want to give it up, lol

All this excellent advice is welcomed but in it's entirety appears overwhelming and fraught with a huge downside if the wheels fall off.

So enter ( Plan B ).......

In February 2020 my Wife and her best Friend  ( who has been a Widow now for 14 years ) have booked a 5 week  Cruise featuring Europe, UK and Scotland. Her best Friend knows that I have not been a faithful Husband over the years but she has never told my Wife. 

Sneaky I know  but over the past 12-18 months the Wife's best Friend has had a few "Relationships" but other than sex they have amounted to nothing. I plan to ask her if she could encourage my Wife to participate in everything that may come their way on the 5 week Cruise even if it means telling my Wife about the "Affairs" I have had and now it is her turn to have her own fun and forget that she is married. Take her Wedding ring off for 5 weeks!!!

When they return I will ask her best Friend if the "plan" has worked and if it did then over the next few weeks I will slowly extract all of the juicy details. My Wife will be dumbfounded when she sees that I a not mad or jealous about what happened but super excited.

I will ask her to tell me everything about the Men she met and what they did......how much better were they than me.....how much bigger their Cocks were than mine and how did it feel to be in the arms of a REAL MAN and not a short (5ft 5 ins ) overweight, balding pathetic man like me.

That then will be the start of our Cuckold Lifestyle for many years to come.

2 hours ago, steptoe said:

 

My Goodness so much to absorb and think about now.......maybe even forget about this fetish I have 🙂

What if it did go all wrong for both of us........

Your experience and wise words paint a clear Picture that this outcome is a real risk to both of us.

I am maybe better as a "Closet Cuck" and have my hand as my best Friend.

1 hour ago, pflash99 said:

Believe me, you're not alone.  But as SandL stated, the beauty of it is that you both get to benefit from the freedom you give your wife.

If you have been fantasizing about this for years, then you will probably enjoy it and handle it very well, if it happens.  However, some guys have been known to change their minds when their fantasies become reality, lol.

You sound a lot like me.  I love knowing my wife is getting sex from better men than me.  You would think that would drive a guy into a jealous fit, but it doesn't.  I get extreme arousal from another man making my wife squeal and squirm in ways I cannot.  Watching is best, but just knowing it's happening arouses me as well.  So, my wife is allowed to spend time with her bf as much and as often as she wants.  

I'm not bad at sex, but I am very submissive with an average size cock.  My wife, however, loves rough sex, big cocks, and very dominant men.  So, yes, my wife is addicted to alpha men with big cocks.

Of all the other men my wife has had since we've been together, it hasn't affected the love and intimacy that she and I have always shared.  We hold hands when we walk together, we still kiss very passionately and truly enjoy each other's conversation.

We still have fun sex and she will even give me blow jobs, but she knows I prefer her to have the majority of her sex with her bf.  She and I have sex probably twice a month on average, but she has sex almost every day with her bf or bf's.

Her ideal Alpha Man....I would love a description of him in explicit detail.

I want my Wife who has never been with another Man to read your full story.

Thankyou so much.

1 hour ago, pflash99 said:

Believe me, you're not alone.  But as SandL stated, the beauty of it is that you both get to benefit from the freedom you give your wife.

If you have been fantasizing about this for years, then you will probably enjoy it and handle it very well, if it happens.  However, some guys have been known to change their minds when their fantasies become reality, lol.

You sound a lot like me.  I love knowing my wife is getting sex from better men than me.  You would think that would drive a guy into a jealous fit, but it doesn't.  I get extreme arousal from another man making my wife squeal and squirm in ways I cannot.  Watching is best, but just knowing it's happening arouses me as well.  So, my wife is allowed to spend time with her bf as much and as often as she wants.  

I'm not bad at sex, but I am very submissive with an average size cock.  My wife, however, loves rough sex, big cocks, and very dominant men.  So, yes, my wife is addicted to alpha men with big cocks.

Of all the other men my wife has had since we've been together, it hasn't affected the love and intimacy that she and I have always shared.  We hold hands when we walk together, we still kiss very passionately and truly enjoy each other's conversation.

We still have fun sex and she will even give me blow jobs, but she knows I prefer her to have the majority of her sex with her bf.  She and I have sex probably twice a month on average, but she has sex almost every day with her bf or bf's.

30 minutes ago, SandL said:

Freedom is a good thing. Enjoying that freedom for the benefit of both is even better! Learning to know when and to what degreee you can enjoy your freedom in ways that are healthy for both is the best! 

It's not about me or my freedom I want my Wife to experience sex with a "real Man".

She has missed out on so much and if giving her  freedom gets her addicted to bigger Alpha Men then I will be over the Moon.

8 hours ago, pflash99 said:

You simply have to figure out a way to breach the subject.  Her reactions can vary.  It could upset her, she could be indifferent, she could laugh.  If you're lucky, she could show interest immediately, but that would be rare.

Expect her to be suspicious of your motives.  She may wonder if you're feeling guilty for something you have done or looking for permission for yourself.

Either way, expect her to be against the idea, at least at first.  However, breaching the subject with her will definitely plant a seed of thought in her mind.  If she gets upset by the idea, don't push it.  Allow that seed of thought to grow in her mind.

My wife and I started early in our relationship.  We were in our early 20's and in college.  It's rare for couples to start at an early age like us and be successful.  So, I consider ourselves to be very lucky.  But, we have many, many friends that started later in life as you are.  Most of them offered the idea but didn't actually take the first step until a few years later.  Yep, it took that long for the seed to grow.  So patience, on your part, is vital.

Keep this in mind, though.  If your wife does agree, there may be no turning back.  Wives that decide to try it, often start off reluctant, then love it.  When you give freedom to a person, they usually don't want to give it up, lol

Thankyou pflash99.....for this excellent advice.

How do I educate my Wife of 32 years about the benefits of cuckolding?

She has only ever been with me.....Short stature 5ft 5ins, 4 inches, now overweight and balding.

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On 11/17/2018 at 8:37 PM, Hornyformilfs said:

Wanna fill her with my meat...

OMG I would love to give her one

On ‎12‎/‎12‎/‎2014 at 8:04 PM, jaggu008 said:

 

• His cock is much bigger than yours. To be honest, I prefer it to yours. 

   

• I get hornier for him than I do for you.                        

 

I plan to start going to him when I need sex.

 

He’s all I think about some days.                                  

 

I’m sorry that you don’t like me being gone so much, but I’m not stopping.                                

 

He can fuck me any time he wants.                            

 

I’m sorry if you want me to stay, but I’m going over to his place again tonight.                               

 

I love you, but he satisfies me.

 

I don’t love him, but I do think I’m getting feelings for him.                     

 

I’m sorry I didn’t come home last night. He wanted me to stay over.                             

 

He has stopped using condoms. I’m good with that.

 

You do realize that he could get me pregnant, don’t you?                        

 

The thought of getting pregnant with him doesn’t bother me. I really like him.       

 

He doesn’t want me to fuck you at all this week. I told him I felt the same way.                     

 

I’m going to spend the night with him whether you like it or not.                                    

 

I’m still your wife, but this is his pussy.

 

Before sex in front of hubby - Watch how he fucks me. This is how I like it.                               

 

During sex - I love his cock much better than yours!                                                           

 

During sex - This is the best fuck I’ve ever had.

 

During sex - Watch and learn from him.                                        

 

During sex - He’s already lasted ten times longer than you do.                        

 

During sex - I would do anything he says right now.

 

After sex - That was the best I ever had.                                       

 

After sex - I don’t think my pussy has ever felt this good.                           

 

After sex - You never shot a load this big in me.     

 

After sex - I wonder if he got me pregnant.

 

He is a real Man not like you