MarkB

Yes that's right perhaps but in fact I really don't like it and would like to feel the power of my wife

As many cuckolds I have sonetimes phantasies to get forced by my wife to bi.

I am complete not interested to have bi sex but the phantasy my wife holds me, force me to open my mouth is exciting.

One time I told my wife if she likes I have bi sex she should be straight and make me bi. She answered with a heart and wrote me perhaps it would be exciting for her to watch this. 

Somebody got forced here to bisex by his wife? Who had the idea and why it happened?

On 10/25/2021 at 7:34 PM, Unsure said:

 My boyfriend and I have been together over 11 years now. I knew nothing of his cuckold fantasy till 3 years into our relationship. I also found out about his porn addiction shortly after. He asked me to try it and said if I decided not to, it would probably end up being the end of us. Losing him was and still is the last thing I want to happen. He told me "all" about it and how much he enjoys the denial and buildup to being with me again. So, I agreed, but with some stipulations he agreed to. I found out later, he was watching porn and getting himself off every chance he got, even while doing his cuckold stuff. He literally waits for me to leave to do so. I struggle with this pretty bad. I even confronted him and was told he watches cuckold videos and imagines me in them. He said it's kindling for his buildup. Not if he's getting off! Am I wrong?

We are now in our 50s and he has admitted to starting to get ED and feeling himself aging out. He made me a promise, which I feel he never had any intentions of keeping, to have our time before this happens. He is now saying cuckold is a part of who he is and stay on board or find someone else. I don't feel this is fair with the way he has been.

I also struggle with him wanting me to be "friends" with the bulls. We agreed at the beginning not to be. We tried it and both know it doesn't work. He's also pushing me to perform other certain things he agreed to me not doing.

Any insight, advice or answers will be greatly appreciated.

I am a cuckold, too. The situation you are both in is really difficult I think. You cannot stop him being a cuckold. If he is a cuckold he will stay. His desire makes your relationship out of balance, that's the fact.

If you think you can discuss points with him it's the wrong way. You need to take the power complete and show the direction. This means with consequences for him if he doesn't agree or doesn't do what you told. He needs you to be hard and straight.

Perhaps you will think he will suffer and starts to argue, but he will get calm if you don't jump in his argumentation rounds

My wife had sex with 5 different men.

In two weeks she likes I drive her to her lover and wait in the car while she gets fucked

Hi, 

I am 52 years old Cuckold with 46 years old wife, living in europe. I hope my english is understandable enough. Reason why i am writing here is that in my language it is more difficult to find people to discuss.

To me....since 5 years i share my wife. At the begin we searched both the man but now she searched and only she tells the rules for it. For example I have to drive her next time to get fucked.

The sexuality between of us is complete different. I am dominant and straight and she is submissive. She knows that it is good for me to get cucked and she is dominant or straight to me by fucking other men. In fact this always makes doubts in my brain, that she is only doing it for me.

At the one side i have the arguments that she knew by begin i like to share her and it was exciting for her to do it. Other argument she likes it is that she told me she likes to fuck other men and she doesn't like we stop this.

The argument for the doubts are that the cuckold side is submissive and shd told she loves my dominant side.

Any cuckold or hotwife in a similar situation to give a advice how to handle the situation?