By and large this was the experience. I am aware of sites online where there are female dommes who collect "paypigs" and demand tributes and large sums of cash as part of a humiliation trade off. This did not seem like that although there may have been a humiliation accept involved. It was more that he had a job to do to stay useful to his wife. He could contribute in the cock department (extremely small) and his wife considered him terrible in bed, however she considered him a good earner and therefore he was useful from a wallet perspective, which was incredibly entertaining to me. It morphed the more we spent time together that it excited him further that it wasn't only his wife making these decisions but later myself as the bull.