I am really shy and was always embarrassed about my fetish, kink, or whatever you want to call it so I had no desire to meet her lovers, I even find it quite hard to discuss things on here with likeminded people who can't see me . I would prefer her to come home afterwards and tease me senseless about what had happened with in depth descriptions. We had various ways of doing this to keep it different. She only had two or three different lovers over the years and none of them knew I was aware, She would have let me know if we'd met one while out, but this never happened.