You need a wife who is willing for it to be effective, you can use subliminal techniques but they will have varying degrees of success depending on the participants.
Do any of you guys have a willing wife?
Firstly I hypnotise her and help her to explore her subconscious mind for any repressed and depraved fantasies, I then help her to perform and visualise them in her mind and help her to plan her real life realisation of this fantasy.