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On ‎8‎/‎27‎/‎2019 at 5:05 AM, SandL said:

Thanks Cat! I would love to talk more sometime

It would be my pleasure :)

1 hour ago, Naughty Nicki said:

 

3 hours ago, SandL said:

“Yes” and “Hopefully” not Yes and No

What I mean by “yes and hopefully” and not “yes and no” is that there is a definite upside to this lifestyle but there are other sides to it that need to be protected. 

The YES: From my experience, our marriage was solid and fulfilling in every possible way — except sex. My husband is my very best friend .. he’s the best “person” I’ve ever met — hands down. He has always put me first and always sought to make sure I’m happy and feel safe. No matter what I was feeling I could always talk to him and he would help. I hope he would say the same, but I’m not sure he would. But the one thing I didn’t feel I could bring up to him was how unsatisfied i was sexually. I enjoyed our sex ... but in the back of my mind, there was a growing seed of frustration. I guess he would be considered average in size .. he was my first so I dont’ have a lot to compare him to .. but I was not getting what i wanted ... and my want for more was growing desperate. But I just didn’t feel like I could tell him. I didn’t give him enough credit. I have a post about what I did .. and you can read it there .. but the short of it was that i put matters into my own hands. I confessed and we were able to reconcile .. and then we started to share. In the end, he understood my frustration ... and just as I should have expected ... he wanted to help make sure I was being fulfilled. That led us to a cuckold arrangement.                                     Once that started and took all its twists and turns (the cuckold relationship never stays stagnant) we grew to be so much closer. I didn’t realize it at the time, but before i was able to freely get the kind of sex he couldn't physically provide, i was starting to harbor bitterness toward him. That was now gone  and with it all the walls that could have stood between us were torn down. Our intimacy was better. And the sex between us was better. Not because he got better or somehow magically grew a bigger cock ... it was something else. Before becoming my cuckold, i was dependent on him for satisfying me (outside of taking care of myself). He couldn’t. And so sex with him was frustrating on many levels. I was wanting him to be and do what he wasn’t built for or had the nature for. That was a pressure that I put on him that wasn’t fair. But once he became my cuckold — that pressure was removed. Now our sex was more about loving each other and sharing that with one another. For him its still a physical pleasure ... and there are certain physical things i like about sex with him ... but its more emotional for me. And now that he was free of the burden to please me ... i felt free to just enjoy our sex. So we grew closer sexually too. 

But there is a “hopefully” too. 

The HOPEFULLY: The pitfall to finally feeling free gave us a confidence about our marriage that we weren’t ready for. Not me, especially. Sex is such a powerful thing that it can start to dominate other areas of your life .. including the non-sexual sides to your marriage. We didn’t take the time to protect that as well as we should have. As I said earlier, a cuckold relationship is never stagnant ... you might even begin to think that there are no boundaries that can’t be broken through. That’s not true. We all have certain personality traits. Some of us are dominant ... some of us are more submissive. Males can be one or the other .. females can be one or the other. I’m sure there truly are people who can be both ... but not us. We tried to venture outside of our “lanes” and neither of us could really handle it ... which eventually just built more walls that need to be torn down. But we’re getting there. 

All in all, I say that this lifestyle can truly bring a husband and wife closer together ... but as in everything, the husband and wife need to be true to themselves and who they are and feel free to be who they are ... and the ongoing emotional ups and downs need to be taken seriously and above all .. the marriage needs to be the number one priority. 

That’s my thoughts on it .. 

L 

 

 

I almost thought someone wrote our story lol. You must be our doppelgangers   We had very much the same thing going on but we made our way through it, but after almost 14 years in the cuckold lifestyle we're still "working on it" and that will never change. Our differences were ironed out by lots of talk and a lot of give and take. Now when one of us has an issue going on inside we don't brew it up to the point of explosion anymore, we pour a drink, sit down and calmly discuss the issue at hand without bringing up any stress levels in either of us (this includes my boyfriend). You described it all so very well, keep up the good work and keep on working on your communications, that's so critical in this lifestyle.   Cat

On ‎6‎/‎9‎/‎2019 at 2:39 AM, lifeslayer696 said:

Yes, I feel for that. I don't like the term either, even if I used it in my post and use it elsewhere too. The sturdiness in refusing to reflect on this matters is precisely what I'm advocating against.

I hate the term "bull", if my boyfriend is a bull then that would make me a cow. So needless to say that word is never used around here if my boys wish to keep their hangers lol

Nice videos but we believe that if the cuckold is allowed to fuck his wife, he's the only one who should be wearing a condom, not her lover. His sperm should be allowed to settle deep inside of her to make him truly his.

Yes yes yes. I'm sure if I hadn't convinced Cathy to find a lover/boyfriend almost 14 years ago we wouldn't be together now. My little pud wasn't doing it for her and I knew it. Once she started dating other men our marriage became so much stronger. She been dating her current boyfriend for over a year and she's very much in love with him and I'm happy too. I haven't had sex with her in over 8 years but I'm still very happy to have clean-up duties and helping her select her sexy outfits for her weekend dates with him. She usually goes to his house on weekends but sometimes he stays with us and I sleep in the guest room. I never tire of the hot sounds of them having sex above my room  

He's a really good guy and he treats her well. Having an almost 10 inch thick cock also makes her happy lol.

20 minutes ago, Cucklove said:

I thing so IF she wants it! At my age, I have no desire to father any more children, I already have six  shop is CLOSED!!! But at her age if she wants to I'd be down with it, I think it would be hot!

That's terrific! Please let us all know if this could be happening, very exciting for sure   Hopefully you'll be involved, like guiding his cock into her before leaving them to mate.

6 hours ago, Cucklove said:

Hello, I go by cucklove, because I love being a cuckold, on the age thing, I think that is up to you! I'm 59, 60 in July,  my hot fiancee is 29, we are going into a cuckold marriage, happily, and willingly. But in my case, her young age, beauty&freakiness, we will have no.problem finding BBC for her! I wish you well on your happy adventures!

Would you let a lover give her/you a child? That would be so perfect for a Cuckold marriage to a young fertile wife.

As long as my wife has a boyfriend I am cut off but I'm happy with that as long as she's happy with his cock. I get to clean her though, so there's at least that lol.

8 minutes ago, efd1989 said:

I am guessing VERY soon she is going to have Toms baby.

That would be the perfect thing to happen. We wish we had been in this lifestyle near when we were married. We've both talked about it and we agreed that a boyfriend/lover giving us a baby or two would have been so perfect!

On ‎1‎/‎18‎/‎2019 at 4:10 PM, secondjag said:

To make recent post on the string, I had no choice but to download Chrome which did work.  Seriously don't like Chrome and it is pretty annoying.

See? I was right! LOL. Kidding, glad you got it going. Google Chrome can be a PITA but it works  

Hey folks, just a quick FYI. A friend who is a computer tech told me that many websites aren't loading or working properly on Internet Explorer because it's not being supported anymore as of 2012. As the technology in websites change Internet Explorer isn't changing or improving to keep up with these sites. I'm not sure if this is what's happening to all of you but if you are using Internet Explorer (not Microsoft Edge in Windows 10) you might want to try using Google Chrome instead then test it here.

Cheers

I've done that to my cucky several times, and one time it was with a fellow from his work that he didn't care for. I met him at his staff Christmas party and hit it off. I didn't know my husband didn't like him until the fellow told me about it. He was fucking me for about three weeks when my husband found out. He wasn't too happy but the little growth in his pants told me that he liked it more than he let on. When I pointed it out he was a little embarassed but he told me it was a turn-on to know that his rival was fucking me bareback. We dated for about 6 months before he had to move from the area. During that time they made up their differences and became friends. My cucky would greet him at the door with a beer and we'd go up to our bedroom for hours of sex while my husband watched TV (and masturbated with the TV muted, listening to us fuck) lol.

1 hour ago, kokhard said:

What is a gusset ?

It's the soft part of a pair of panties in the crotch that covers over top of the pussy.

On ‎6‎/‎25‎/‎2017 at 9:52 AM, icelord0807 said:

That's totally me only I have a MUCH smaller cock :)

On ‎11‎/‎5‎/‎2018 at 7:19 AM, joelhwood said:

I hope you're not making your wife suffer with this little thing lol. Does she have a boyfriend to take care of her needs now?

On ‎8‎/‎3‎/‎2017 at 5:40 PM, cuckinct said:

at least he entered you. not like me sometimes where I can barely get the tip in before I cum.

When my cucky was still "attempting" to fuck me he was much the same. He's only 3 inches hard and just at the point where he touched my labia with his little pud he would suddenly squirt all over and he was done. This happened pretty well every time for several years until he finally convinced me to find a boyfriend and cut him off. I would get him to lick me clean then get me off with his tongue, which is the only thing he's quite good at in sex  

On ‎6‎/‎6‎/‎2018 at 11:56 AM, leone55 said:

there's any female VIP?

My cucky and I share this account but I created the account. So I guess you could say I'm a VIP (Very Important Pussy) LOL  

On ‎10‎/‎26‎/‎2015 at 9:00 AM, Louise said:

You lucky devil, I love my hubby cleaning up my mess.

Oh me too, me toooooo :)   My cucky is a very good cleaner-upper lol

On ‎5‎/‎24‎/‎2016 at 3:34 PM, calicolombia69 said:

Despite 16 yrs of cuckolding me, if she hasn't had sex for a week or two, my wife is always slightly hesitant to tell me what happened.  I feel she is always apprehensive I may change my mind.  So when she sees my typical reaction again, both my mouth and my dick, she is comfortable and gets renewed energy to pursue yet another sexual adventure .  Mind you I have also learned to be careful and react the same way regardless of whether she has a boyfriend or it is just me for the month.  Lest she feel that I only desire here when there is a third person in our life

We've been in the lifestyle for 13 years and my cucky has been cut off sex for 8 of those years (for reasons of lack of length and his asking to be cut off). I agree with you that the loving can't stop, we need to know you love us as much or more than you did when you married us. I love him more than anything in the world and I tell him so all the time but I also admit to loving my boyfriend, just not quite in the same way but still enough to have all the passion that makes it all worthwhile. I always check with him to see if he doesn't want me spending a weekend with my boyfriend or if he doesn't mind at all, it's always nice to be asked. As you, he's always treated me (and love me) the same way all the time, whether I'm getting laid that night or if I haven't had sex for several weeks. A lady needs to know she's loved at all times so there's no feelings of angst or loss of love/attachment to or by our husband. Yes this is all about us having the best sex lives we can, but we can't forget that it's for our husband's enjoyment too, and without total support from both parties it just won't work out and trouble will soon ensue. My cucky loves to hear about my evenings and even see photos/videos if I've taken some for him. We work together on this so we're both happy  

I (cuck) would be sooooo happy to have a pretty girl with a hot cock to play with and fuck me often. It's one of my ultimate fantasies

I'm just curious, is this posted from another country outside of North America? I've never heard of the words or terms "spin" and "spun" when referring to cum or sperm. Or were they typo's? Just curious if it's another sexual term I'm not aware of yet  

On ‎9‎/‎14‎/‎2018 at 9:14 AM, Hotrail4u said:

WHY DO I FEEL LIKE THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM

Hotrail4U. I'm not positive but it could be that everyone is getting a bad feeling from you because you type everything in Capital letters which means that you're yelling. Drop it to regular type so you don't look like you're trying to intimidate everyone. Just an FYI and my own thoughts on it. Cheers

The thought of my wife being impregnated by an alpha male is intoxicating. I'd be soooo happy

I wish my wife would allow her boyfriend to move in with us and totally take over as alpha male. I no longer fuck her or have any kind of sex anyway, so it would be perfect.

Ours shows our location. Would be nice to chat/meet with others in British Columbia. Hot Canadian Hotwife and Cuckold here