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There's a lot on twitter.  I don't post much here anymore because the stuff comes up when you do a Google search.

11 minutes ago, athlete951 said:

Three regulars.  That's pretty impressive.  I am sure she doesn't lack for attention, let alone when the one night stands are added.

I am curious what you two look for when meeting guys.  Are their certain physical attributes?  Personality aspects?  Do you prefer guys with experience with couples?

Nothing specific. a sense of humor. Somebody not too pushy and hung up on themselves. She's a nurse so the "I have this nurse fantasy" is right out.

Frankly, I don't know what the obsession is that everyone has with British television.

On 6/18/2021 at 4:54 AM, athlete951 said:

That's great to hear.  What a lot of outsiders will not understand is how bedroom fun can have such a positive impact on the rest of a marriage.  I think the biggest is actually improved communication.  If a couple is going to successfully enjoy the lifestyle, they have to learn how to express their own feelings and desires to their partner's, while also learning to listen and accept their partner's in return.  It's wonderful.

You mentioned that your wife has a regular lover. Have you two generally preferred regulars since joining the lifestyle or has it been a mix of short and long-term?

My first two experiences with couples were long-term, so they certainly biased me.  While one night stands can be fun, there's really no comparison for me.  Long-term allows you to build trust and comfort, which allows you to explore so much more.  The sex just keeps getting better with time.

My wife has 3 guys she sees fairly regularly. She does like the familiarity of it.  There's not of that initial awkwardness. She does still like the one and done guys too.  Because, even with the regulars, you can fall into a routine. there's just something really exciting about meeting a new guy for sex.  For both of us really. 

On 6/14/2021 at 8:58 AM, athlete951 said:

Do you find that the experiences rub off on other parts of your marriage as well?  For example, when she's been with a good partner, is she in a good mood for the next couple of days?  Less stressed?  Etc?

Of course.  She's glowing for the next few days.

I love watching my wife put on a porn show for me.  I like knowing that she gets satisficed in ways that I really can't.  Not that I can't but, it's not the same. For example, she likes to be spanked. Some guys really leave marks but, i can't.  She came home after a date once and needed a spanking because "He made cummies where he wasn't supposed to". I started out spanking but, we both just ended up laughing.  It's things like that.

She's entitled to as many orgasms as she can get.  When we have sex, I cum once and that's it.  She has a regular that can cum 3 or 4 times. She really likes that.

I like to help her get ready for a date.  Picking out her outfit. Brushing her hair, shaving her.  Giving her the "Lick test" to make sure she's nice and smooth.  It's like I'm wrapping my most precious gift and giving it to someone. When she comes home a mess, I know he appreciated it.

For us, it started out with her cheating with an ex for about a month. She ended up telling me about it.  I was devastated by it but oddly turned on.  I didn't know it was a "thing" at the time. Knowing that there were times where she was laying in bed next to me after just being fucked by him. Was his cum leaking out of her pussy as I was holding her?  Were there times when I had gone down on her just after she fucked him? Was I kissing the mouth that just had his cock in it? It was such a flood of mixed feelings.

Is it a "date" they're  they're going out to dinner or, are they just fucking?

when is this going to happen?

Hello, welcome. What type of experiences have you had?  I think that will better help to tailor the advice.  No sense telling you what chastity device to use if that's not what you're into.

"boogity boogity boogity let's go racing !!!"

My wife used to have sex chats with guys during the day while ai was at work. She'd leave her creamy panties under my pillow when I got home from work.

I like shaved. And I like shaving her.  From a psychological perspective, we're preparing her pussy to be fucked by someone else.

 

Here is my wife home after a date.

They both have their appeal.  Seeing her come home with cum on her face is an instant turn on. Tasting that saltiness on her lips.  But, NOT seeing it on her face is a turn on too. The anticipation of reaching down and feeling that warm sticky mess.  Tasting her juices mixed with his cum.  I don't know how I would decide which is better.

I think there's many levels to this. We call ourselves "Cuckold lite" but there aren't any cuckold lite groups out there. She fucks others but I'm not in a cage or anything and her and I have more sex than we ever did before. It's tough to put a label on a moving target.

I got 100 but the test should have an "I've already done" option.

Not every wife "Makes" their husband clean her. Some do it willingly because it it such a turn on for her and, in turn, a turn on for him.