We are a newbe cpl looking to try this at least once where my fiancee gets laid in front of me. So far all we get is , "how big are you", "what does she look like", "if you want to try this you have to be bi (male half, I am not)", "clean her out" "lets see her pic" and so on and it repeats for 99.9% of guys. Is anyone f-ing real?