My girlfriend of almost 14 months is a barmaid.
I'd heard the stereotypes about barmaids being targets for drunk and horny guys, and to be honest, got off on it sometimes, other times the thought weirded me out
Anyway, my friends and I went to her work to watch a football match on Tuesday night. All was fairly normal until a group of guys came in, they were visiting from England for some reason
Whenever my girlfriend or other barmaids would clear their table, hands would be up their skirts, having a good feel, all of the girls just seemed to accept it, we couldn't hear what was being said, as it was a fairly busy bar
At one point a guy had his hand up my girlfriends skirt close to a minute, either rubbing, or maybe, fingering her, she had her back to me and was leaning on back of his chair letting him go at it
Afterwards I asked her about it, all I got in response was "it's a pub, things like that happen" she said it was annoying, but she and two others in particular were always keen to go over to their table
II've never felt the need to stick my hand up a barmaids skirt.
Do you think it's a case of me just not understanding how much some barmaids let guys get away with, or just her letting guys get her off, and trying to justify it to herself?