L’s_Husband

1 hour ago, SandL said:

Ummmmmm When I moved to Charlotte, I thought...wowzers! Charlotte is huge! Then I visited Washington DC and realized Charlotte isn’t that big.  

Just playing 💋 💋 

Classy 

Steve

Funny. 

Steve

I’ll be busy all day anyway. I might be going to lunch with some guys to THE restaurant. You know which one I’m talking about. I wonder who our server will be. Enjoy. 

Steve

That was you not me. So I guess I didn’t realize it. 

Steve

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

Yes we are  Are you trying to get me a date 😂 So weeeeeet! ❤️ 

No. I was just saying where we’re from. Don’t read too much into it. 

Steve

We’re in NC

32 minutes ago, Seductive Thoughts said:

Agree 100% with original poster's quote, although I find it hard to imagine that Immanuel Kant. The quote is also attributed to Eric Anderson https://is.gd/flmJQ0

Over the years, I've written a number of wives who confess on forums to desiring affairs, or to responding to the interest of suitors, etc.

I find it fascinating that despite sometimes immense pressure, wives are increasingly willing to explore outside their marriage relationship. I applaud that development. I hope for the day when affairs can be discussed as casually as we would the weather. Sexuality is no less a part of life.

The quote is Anderson’s but stems, I think, from an aspect of Kant’s philosophy which says “treat humanity as an end not merely as a means”.

Meaning, people should be treated as an end in and of themselves and not merely as a means to someone else’s end. 

If I apply this to sexuality and sexual preferences themselves that are stigmatized...groups of people are stigmatized as a means to the end that sexuality and sexual preferences must fit within a certain construct to please or make comfortable the people who are doing the stigmatizing.

Those who carry the stigma are used as a means to another’s end and are not, themselves, being seen or valued as an end. If they were treated and valued as an end, they would have the freedom to seek pleasure free of the stigma. 

Interestingly, Kant would never have applied this to sexuality though...to him, “masturbation was worse than r********.” 

Nutshell: yes it was Anderson’s quote...I saw it as a takeoff of Kant’s philosophy...and substantially, we agree. 

Steve

That’s even stranger. Our chickens are free range. 

I repeat. Game over. I’ll be home within the hour. 

Steve

1 minute ago, SandL said:

Oh I think you did. Let me see if I can make out the label..... 😂 

Game over. I’ll be home soon. 

Steve

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

Hey babe...my phone must not be working.  But you got a package today in the mail. Do you want me to take a picture of it so you can see what it is??? 😂 

Just being helpful. 

Oh and if I haven’t told you...you really do own the KEY to my ❤️ 

😂 hurry home!!!!!!!! 

That’s strange. I didn’t order anything. Return to sender, please. 

Steve

11 minutes ago, 🎉🎊LilNickysPlayhouse🎊🎉 said:

I am,   but.......   I think you’ll enjoy it.  

The important question is: will I enjoy it ha

Steve

Just now, SandL said:

Ohhhhhh right! I forgot 😂 As I remember it, you get to make me do whatever you want for the rest of this week. Why is that again???? I forget. 

You’re hilarious

Steve

Just now, SandL said:

Awwwwwwww the dynamic duo???? I love that! Tell us more about your thoughts about this dynamic duo?????? 😍 

I’ll leave that to your imagination. Remember? I don’t have one of those lol

Steve

3 minutes ago, 🎉🎊LilNickysPlayhouse🎊🎉 said:

And why is that ??? 

I’m sure you know the answer to that...but I’ll just say it leads to certain comments from the dynamic duo of you and my wife. Ha

Steve

I could take it or leave it 

Steve

This is why I don’t make my own posts. Ha

Steve

No comment

Steve

We’re doing it how we do it. So how could it be wrong?

Steve

3 minutes ago, SandL said:

What if I just shared it for 15 minutes and then deleted that comment???????????? 

Nope

Steve

7 minutes ago, SandL said:

See anything you like??? I do! Can I share??? 

I don’t know what you’d “share” so since the unknown is a bit scary....................NO 

Steve

Just now, SandL said:

Hey! I’m trying to write a story over here!!!!!!!!! 😂 

Please continue.....  

You’re adorable 

Steve

Well, if I wanted to see what L would do I could be more “open” and say..........

ha 

Steve 

Just now, 🎉🎊LilNickysPlayhouse🎊🎉 said:

Sooooooo playing with me wouldn’t 🥺😥

Not at all what I meant. But also, not sure how I should answer that ha

Steve

Ha. No offense intended. Just being clear. 

Steve

2 minutes ago, SandL said:

I’ll admit it that sex and talking about sex and playing with you and that others can read it turns me on. Can you? 

Sex + talking about sex + playing with you = 3

Steve