Hi, introducing us a bit. Im 34, wife is 39, stay at home mom of 2, formely worked as a secretary. For us this cuckold thing it has being a long and very interesting process. We got married almost 8 years ago, have always had a very good relationship in general.
Im 5 years younger than my wife so there has always being that feeling of her sometimes treating me like an older son, although she always has said she doesnt. So, despite our very good relationship in general, the sex part was just "ok", before me she had only another guy. In the third year of marriage i started to think she wasnt being fully satisfied, or was just bored with our sexlife, so i started suggesting trying new things, maybe some soft swinger stuff, but she was not into it at all, saying she was not that kind of woman, that she could not be with another man besides me, even more, that she could not have sex with a man she does not love, so that was a big no, i tried bringing the subject back but the answer was always the same.
Eventually i stopped telling her about it, and like 3 months after that she asked me if i told her about that kind of experiences with some sort of knowlegde about it, i told her i just looked for some info and read about people experiences about it. She asked me to tell her what i have found, then i told her all i knew until that moment, about the different experiences some people and marriages have in private, that it doesnt have to be the big orgy porno thing, that most times it's quite simple but erotic stuff what brings people to that kind of experiences. She looked interested in all i was saying, until that point i didnt know if she was looking for general culture about that kind of stuff or if she was really interested in at least trying something. So, i asked her what she wanted to know, or more like why she wanted to know about that, and then it shocked me with some sincere words. She told me that our relationship was very fulfilling but the sex part was not as complete as she might wanted to be. She told me than in sex she has always being passive, and that she feels and thinks that i am the same way, so thats why our sexlife is literally like that "passive". After a while she told me that she was thinking about what i suggested to her, and that at first she just said no because she has always being quite conservative, catholic raised kind of thinking, but that eventually she started to think that maybe in the right way experiences like that could be a good complement to our marriage.
At that point we didnt know exactly where we were going, but we knew we were going to experience something more as a couple or try to at least. So, eventually we started contacting swinger couples that lived close enough thanx to a place we found initially online. Our first experiences were mostly "watching" other couples, that was very interested and we really got excited watching another couple get into it, but when everything changed was one day that we saw a couple in which the hub was quite dom and the wife was very sub, that day we were watching them and i noticed my wife was really surprised and captured by what she was looking. In those experiences we mostly did oral on each other while watching the other couple, not much of talking but after that day i asked her what happened, or why she looked different. She reminded me what she told me time before about us being passive, he told me, that guy ISNT at all, and he was even older than her, what she said next was hard but started the way of me taking my place in what it is our marriage now, she said, he is quite active, taking charge of things, making sure that woman had what she needed, he is very mature and at least 10 years older than me, he is NOTHING like you. I was really surprised with those words, and her being so sincere right to my eyes. In that moment i knew for the first time what we needed, for sure what my wife needed, so our next experience was with that couple, he dommed both, his wife and mine, that was the fist time she had sex with another man right in front of me, the experience was quite erotic because in some way his wife was showing her how to be sub to him, and in many ways he showed her what was her place.
Since that we have had many experiences for almost 4 years now, with different people in different places and situations. I hope you liked my words here being completely open about it, we keep in general a low profile. Please tell me what you think about it and if you want to chat or know more just ask, it is good to have a place where people can talk about this subjects in a mature and positive way.
Added a pic so you get an idea of us.
