First, I hope this weekend worked out well for the both of you. But yes, I think you are missing a LOT. It sounds as if you are trying to top from the bottom and making the experience more about you than her. This seems to move this from less of a cuckold fantasy to more of a dominant fantasy where you are basically whoring her out to who you decide. From this viewpoint, I am sure it is easy to realize why she might be hesitant or resistant. Consider what HER fantasy is as well and how does this play for her. My wife for example has only once told me she was with someone else and she did so in a laughingly way to allow her deniability. If I were able to convict her on circumstantial evidence though, it would be overwhelming. Her fantasy is not to cuck me, she prefers to cheat. Though some would crucify this, I have to accept that she accepts me for my cuck fantasy, and if she prefers to fuck others without me knowing....well, I am still a cuck. Is this man the one for her? My preference for my wife would a black man in which we do not already know, that would likely be in and out of our lives fairly quickly. When I asked her about the man that I think fucked her, her response was "do you really think I would fuck him?", I reasoned from her viewpoint that it was ideal. She knew him from childhood, so there was a reasonable amount of trust, for confidentiality and health risks. He was married with kids of his own, so there was no threat of a long term relationship, just a good fuck buddy. And with his job, there was ample opportunity for them to get together when it was convenient for the two of them. She never did deny fucking him, and there were even times I know they tried to spend the night together as well... If you want to discuss these further, you can email me at [email protected].

The first and only time that I have ever talked to a guy about fucking me wife was about 8 years ago. We had gotten a call at the house and the voice on the other end asked if my wife (by name) was there. I asked who was calling and he told me it was none of my business and told me to put her on the phone. I of course was not going to hand the phone over to my wife and told him she wasn't home. "I know she's not...she's here with my dick in her mouth." To say I was shocked would be putting it mildly, but with my wife in the next room I knew it wasn't true. "She's got a tight fucking pussy too." DAMN! At this point I was pretty sure that it was a young black boy bored at home..unfortunately my wife walked in the room and asked me who was on the phone. Apparently your boyfriend I told her. She of course wanted me to hang up right away...but I wanted the call to go on! I told him that his call was inappropriate and hung up on. He called right back. "Don't ever fucking hang up on me again!" I am pretty sure that I was hard at this point, and my wife kept telling me to hang up again while I was being berated by this kid. One of my kids looked at the called ID and told me they knew who it was....he was all of 13 and was showing that he was definitely going to be a bull in the future. I continued to talk with him for a while longer, listening to him verbally abuse me and tell me how many times he had fucked my wife in the past and that there wasn't a thing I could do about it before I reminded him that people have called ID and that I knew his mothers name. Though he had already called me back several times before when I hung up, this time he didn't call back. I had often wished that I would have kept his name as he would be about 20 now...and would probably be tons of fun to talk to on the phone again...