let me explain a little better. I am Italian and Sicilian and in my culture and brought the old school way and i am old school and this kind of thing usually got people well in the hospital or worse so bear with me as i try to understand this way of living and it goes against the way the old Italians brought us up to be well different than what i read in this story and now i see what the old timers were talking about, i know this much i am not a beta male nor a cuckold . to be that in my time was was noting to be proud of and really shameful back in the day plus i was married nearly 40 yrs ago and never knew people actually lived this way