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[BigEddie24]

Hey all! I'm Eddie a 40 year old married guy from Texas. My wife and I have been in the community for about 10 years now. It has been some great experiences and some not so great. I would love to share the good and bad with interested husbands. Maybe learn from each others experiences. 

[danum]

On 10/4/2024 at 10:59 PM, butty78 said:

Hey bud glad I found you.im very excited with this life style but my wife is too conservative.bud I can sleep thinking her with other man .so I've been planning give her something strong to sleep her and bring someone.touch her and jerk of together.what u think

please dont. so many things can go wrong. 

the problem here is that you are too focussed on satisfying your lust. that is all you are thinking about, with no thought given to her.

 

i succeeded in convincing my wife so i thought i would try and help you out, fulfilling your dreams of cuckolding. this is when you are the cuckold wannabe.

first, the impt question is whether she is able to fantasise. this is never an easy question to answer as it involves many factors. most impt of which is whether she IS ABLE to at the very least, fantasise with you about being a hotwife. THIS IS KEY.

if she has not, then it is a harder hill to climb.

 

1. there are some things that you must first learn - patience and persistence. these are your tools to help you achieve this.

2. never push her. you must be very very patient in getting your fantasy to be a reality. always let her think she is in control of it. this means that if she does not want to talk or fantasise anymore, stop. respect her wishes. start again another time. but be persistent. she will give in eventually.

this is a slow and steady process and your Mrs MUST always have the feeling that she is in control. ALWAYS! This reassures her that should she want to stop, IT WILL BE STOPPED. only then will she trust you.

3. AGAIN REMEMBER that the focus here is your wife. not you and what you desire her to do for you (please understand this as they will learn the truth).

this was one of the methods i used on my wife......

my wife loves to suck cock. she really loves it as she can go for an hour or more just sucking on one. and you will only enjoy having your cock sucked IF the person sucking enjoys what she is doing. i should know this as im her hubby. she loves to swallow too. and not the porn you watch type where they spit it out! she love to taste it and swallow (i suppose this was the thing that turned me bi too as i loved watching her do it so much that i too got hooked).

so during my convincing her to join a swing party, i bought a vibrator and when she was sucking my cock, i used the vibrator on her. now when she sucks she is in heaven and then applying the vibe on her pussy was the ultimate for her. i used that moment to fantasise that it was a mutual friends. an american guy that we knew (she is partial to orang putih). this method me a great deal in convincing her that another cock or cocks would be great in our sex life. so i did this time and time again. this was the persistent part. as long as she likes sex, half the battle is won.

about 4th month - the reluctance soon gave way. and she began to allow me to talk to her about a third person.

about 8th month - then i began to ask her things. and she answered!! with this i knew i was doing the right things.

10th month - while having sex SHE asked for the vibrator.

after a year of some hard work she finally agreed to join in a swing party. and the rest is history. this was the patience part.she enjoyed herself at the party. and it was  enjoyable to watch her too.

so keep plugging at it. always remember that the focus is on her. not you.

we began with swinging, then moved gradually (as my cuckold side began to emerge) to threesomes and finally cuckolding. this is something i really enjoy. i especially watching the action up close (like in fucklicking) as it is so intoxicating.

as i noted, patience, persistence, and non-pushy.

secondly, compliment her dressing, her beauty, her sexiness. and do it truthfully. women can tell if you are bull-shitting or theres something behind the compliments.

send her flowers, chocolates at her workplace. let her feel proud in front of her friends, family. this is an entire package of things you need to do. men are different. we only want 1 thing. with women it takes many things. and your heart.

i did all these things to convince, cajole and encourage my wife. it took me more than a year before she agreed to join me in a swing party. happiest moment of my life.

 

hope this helps.

 

dan

[danum]

On 9/15/2024 at 4:07 AM, BigEddie24 said:

Hey all! I'm Eddie a 40 year old married guy from Texas. My wife and I have been in the community for about 10 years now. It has been some great experiences and some not so great. I would love to share the good and bad with interested husbands. Maybe learn from each others experiences. 

hi ed,

im dan. that woulod be great. lets do share. PM me and we will get started.

cheers

[shadnaster]

On 9/14/2024 at 4:07 PM, BigEddie24 said:

Hey all! I'm Eddie a 40 year old married guy from Texas. My wife and I have been in the community for about 10 years now. It has been some great experiences and some not so great. I would love to share the good and bad with interested husbands. Maybe learn from each others experiences. 

I'd love to chat

[Guest]

Hi Eddie

Some great advice here and agree with you 100%. Happy to chat with regards to experiences and the real cuckold lifestyle.

Regards

Kyloe 

[danum]

PM me directly guys, and we will get started.