Thats pretty much what my husband says, hes says it excite him to watch but so far hes alwasy joined in a bit and we havent tried full cuck just 3some.
I think i get that part of it, i guess its like watching live porn and I think of it the same as when he gets a new car, loves to show it of and let his friends have a go, kinda a "look what i have" type thing. Is this accurate or am i well of the ball.
I still cant get my head round him wanting me to go out on my own with him sat at home watching eastenders lol