DeeDee

CB, I am not in the pictures above, but I am in these pictures . . .

When you say, "felt and acted" does that mean you are no longer with him?

To me a man who can share his wife with other men is a man among men.

Very Cool!

BB, Our lifestyle is how we live. I have several regular lovers that I have sex with as often as I can. My husband loves that I am, what he calls, easy. I love sex more than most everything else. We have had men live with us, and I have two steady boyfriends that I have been dating for about 5 years now. For the last 8 years we have gone to the adult theater literally every Friday night. We also don't hide who we are, from anyone. My mother-in-law, when I first started dating my husband, told me that my husband was a bit on the submissive side and had very little experience with women. She also told me that my husband had dated mostly guys growing up. She even warned me of his small penis, which I already knew about. My mother-in-law even told me that my husband's best friend, who I found out later had fathered my husband's second child, had sex with the few girls my husband dated in high school, while my husband was dating them. Within a couple of weeks of dating my now husband, he had two of his co-workers over for me to have sex with, and one of them eventually lived with us for almost a year. When the weather permits, I dress very "slutty." I want men to know that although I am married, that I am still available, sexually. Often times, when we go out, I wear one of my husband's tank tops as a dress, heels and nothing else. That way I am easily accessable. Both me and my husband like me to be that way. I wouldn't say all, or many, bulls are arrogant. Some are, but most aren't. Most bulls are very appreciative and are happy to be able to be with me. And they often tell my husband that he is a very lucky man to have a wife who loves sex as much as I do. The arrogant men are rarely asked back, unless they are really, really good lovers. One of my lovers is very arrogant and thinks he is God's gift to women. I will say that he is an amazing lover, so much so that he has been with me, two of my best friends, my sister and two of her friends. He knows he is good looking, is an amazing lover, is well sized, and women want him. So, I guess he has the right to be a bit arrogant. I do like lovers who can be more than just lovers. One of my lovers is our mechanic, another is our plumber, another is helping us build an addition to our house. I like lovers who can be lovers as well as good friends. Me and my husband have gone camping and invited some of my lovers to go with us. We have a huge tent and all of my lovers know that they can have me whenever they want me. A good majority of my lovers are well educated. There are the few lovers that I see that are not what I would consider smart, but they are great lovers. One lover that I very much enjoy being with, sexually, is as dumb as a box of rocks, but he has always made me orgasm and he is a very good lover. It took me a long time to be able to take all of this lover's cock, but once I was able to, sex with us was WOW! The one thing about my not so smart lover is that he is a hard worker. He has helped us pull up stumps. He has also helped mine and my husband's daughters when they were stranded. He may not be very smart, but that not so smart lover has a heart of gold and would give the shirt off his back to help a friend. He has even gone hunting and brought us back enough food to fill our outdoor block freezer. We have gone to the mountains to find large rocks to use in our yard to decorate with. Some of these rocks are really heavy. My not so smart lover has never had a problem helping out and doing most of the lifting that me and my husband couldn't do. So, lovers don't always have to be college grads. Many of my lovers have gone camping and boating with us. Some of them have also gone on vacation with us. Two of them went to Hawaii with us last summer. Earlier this summer me, my husband and four of my lovers went to Las Vegas together. We had a blast. The four lovers who went to Las Vegas with us are all very much Alpha men, but they have gang banged me together several times and see each other as equals. They also respect my husband, which is important. The man I consider my "other husband" I have known for over 25 years. He is a country boy all the way. He and his wife have been very close friends of mine for years. My "other husband's" wife doesn't know that me and her husband are lovers, or boyfriend and girlfriend, but we keep it that way so not to hurt her. Every chance my "other husband" has, he either comes to our house or has me drive to his house. He lives an hour away from us, but he is worth the drive. My "other husband's" best friend, who lives about amile away from my "other husband," is another lover of mine, but my "other husband" doesn't know that I have sex with his best friend. I have thought it best that he doesn't know. My "other husband" has bragged to his best friend that he has sex with me, with my husband's consent, but his best friend has kept our secret that he and I are also lovers. My "other husband's" best friend's wife is a very sweet lady. She gave me permission to have sex with her husband years ago. She has a medical condition that makes it impossible for her to please her husband like I can. So, she actually appreciates when her husband and I can get together and please each other. My "other husband" can have a bit of an ego at times, but I love him as much as I do my husband. Now that I think about it, my "other husband" is a cuckold, too, seeing as how his best friend has had sex with me for years without his knowledge. I think that there are some "Bulls" have earned the right to be a bit arrogant. If a man has a nice sized cock, knows how to use it and has had a lot of experience pleasing women, and done so well, then he has kind of earned the right to be a bit big headed. I do see this one DOM. who is very aggressive. He is a very muscular Mexican man. When I get with him I know that he is going to get what he wants with me. He has that kind of personality. He knows that he makes me squirt every time we have intercourse, and he knows that I love how he makes me feel when I am with him. This DOM tells me what to do, and I like that. I really don't like men who ask if they can do something with me. I prefer men who take charge and take what they want because I am normally more than willing to give them what they want. I get with this DOM a couple times a week. And we have gotten together a couple times a week for the last three years. When I get with this DOM, he tells me what he is going to do with me, and it usually includes deep, rough anal sex and me deepthroating him to the point that I gag and almost throw up. He likes to use me. And with him that is what I like and expect. With my husband's best friend, who is also the father of my husband's , and who is also a co-worker of my husband's, he likes to chew and suck really hard on my clit. I will admit that it is sometimes a bit painful, but I endure it because he is a very good lover. My husband's best friend still has sex with my husband's ex-wife as well as me. He has also been with several of my husband's and his ex-wife's friend's wives. He is very popular at the sex parties we go to and at the swinger motel we go to. So, I guess he has a right to be a bit arrogant as well. I don't think that a new "Bull" has a right to be arrogant unless he is an amazing lover, or has been highly recomended by several other women who have been sexual with him and bragged about his abilities. I believe that a man who is given the opportunity to be with another man's wife should be appreciative. At least if they want to be invited back. All men are different. And not all men are created equally. If a man can prove that he has made several women orgasm, has a nice size cock and can prove his abilities, then he has a right to feel that he has more to offer than some other men. And therefore has earned the right to be a bit arrogant, otherwise, no, that is not what I think most cuckold couples look for in a "Bull." As a woman, I know there are times when I want men to be very aggressive and rough with me. Then there are other times when I want a man to make love to me slowly and for hours. There are times when I want to man to have a huge cock. Then there are other times that 8 inches is good enough. What me and my husband look for in a "Bull" changes from time to time. When we have looked for men to live with us and be my lovers, we have looked for Black Men. Over all though, what I look for in a lover is some intelligence, a sense of humor, the ability to be a friend as well as a lover and I prefer men who have a lot of sexual experience. I prefer to be sexual with men who have been sexual with several other women before me. I don't ever want to have to teach someone how to fuck me, or how to make me feel good.

We are in Denver, Colorado

Captainblack . . . as far as how to answer, "So Dee Dee do you enjoy this fucking other men because of the passion and control they bring that your husband does not?" I have to say that I like men who are take charge and take me and do what they want with me. On occasion I do like very rough sex, and other men can provide this where my husband can't. I like that other men are aggressive and will make the first move. If I want sex with my husband, I have to bring it up and practically beg for it. With other men I don't have to get them hard. My husband takes forever to get hard, and even then, he rarely gets completely hard. I like sex with other men because it is always exciting. My husband is very limited in experience and is very predictable. I also like that other men get me to orgasm, whereas my husband never has. I enjoy sex with other men because I love men. I love men who are muscular and dominant. I like men who have a lot of experience. I like men who are willing to do for and with me what my husband can't. I love my husband with all my heart, but he and I both know that my body is made for sex and other men. My husband and I go to an adult theater on Friday nights, and sometimes, on other nights, if we don't have men to the house, we go to a swinger motel about 5 minutes from our house. My husband knows and likes that I like a lot of variety, sexually. And I do! I guess the biggest reason I like fucking other men is because they are what I wish my husband was or could be, sexually. I often find myself fantasizing that the other men are my husband, and that it is my husband who is pleasing me the way they do. Since my husband has such a small penis and is not an alpha in any way, I am glad he likes me to have sex with other men. And I like having other men almost as often as my husband wants me to.

brumbull, I don't like to hhhhhhhhh my husband, but he asked me years ago to make mention to people, that he has a small penis. He has this pride thing with having the smallest penis I have ever had. My husband likes me to tell men that I need them because my husband is too small to satisfy me. When I am with men, and my husband is watching, I tell my husband how big the men's cocks are, although it is pretty obvious. He likes to hear me tell him that I love that they have such big cocks. It excits him. We are very open about our lifestyle. Very few people who know us don't know about our lifestyle. Since my husband has never got me off, I usually tell him, when we have intercourse, to call someone who can, or I have him use my big dildo in me while I use my vibrator. When he uses the dildo in me, I tell my husband how good it feels to be filled and stretched, like all the other men do to me. I have never called my husband a wimp or told him that he deosn't satsify me, although he is the only man I have never had an orgasm with. And I guess I do hhhhhhhhh my husband when I let other men DP me. My husband's penis is too small for him to be able to do that. I don't let other men DP me to hhhhhhhhh my husband. I do it with other men because I like how it feels. My husband likes me to take pictures of him standing next to my lovers to see how much bigger their cocks are compared to his. And when I look at the pictures, I see that my husband really is very, very tiny compared to my lovers. Why he likes that I am not sure. We don't even have to be in a sexual situation for my husband to want me to tell others that he has a tiny penis. He just likes other people to know. When I have sex with other men, I do tell my husband that I wish that he could cum as much as my lovers do. I like men who cum a lot, and my husband definitely deosn't cum much at all. Other men talk dirty to me when they have sex with me, and I like that. I have tried to get my husband to do that, too, but he has never been very good at it. I do tell him that I like it when other men talk dirty to me. I guess I also hhhhhhhhh my husband when I tell my lovers, right in front of my husband, that I love it that they go deep, because my husband can't. I have never called my husband a wimp, but I have told him that I like men who have a lot of muscles. Well, just the other day, when I was out with my husband at the grocery store, I saw a guy who filled out his pants really well, and was quite muscular. I told my husband that I wanted to be with him, and he said to go for it. So, I approached this guy. I told this other guy that I couldn't help but notice how well he filled out the front of his pants. This guy asked if my husband was my husband, and I told him yes. This guy asked me for my hand, then he put my hand to his crotch. Once my hand was around this other guy's cock, he said, "It's all me, and it is ready for the taking." This guy we met in the grocery store was very much an Alpha, which my husband isn't. The guy from the grocery store looked at my husband, and then kissed me. This Alpha knew what he was doing, and I liked it. This guy from the grocery store asked me what my husband's name was and I told him. He called my husband to us and asked my husband if he liked seeing his wife taken by a real man. My husband admitted that he did. Then the guy from the grocery store stated to my husband, "I bet you don't have much between your legs." I told the grocery store guy that my husband is 3 1/2" when he is fully erect.The grocery store guy laughed and said he was twice that when he is soft. The grocery store guy took my husband's hand and put it to his crotch, like he had done mine. He then asked my husband, "I have a feeling you want to see your wife take what I have. Am I right?" My husband nodded yes. Then the grocery store guy kissed me again and asked me if I wanted him to fuck me. I told him that I did. The grocery store guy asked me for our address and we gave it to him. We all stood in line. The line we got in was manned by the store manager, who we have known for yrs. As we were standing in line, the grocery store guy was fondling me and kissing me. The store manager knew that this guy wasn't my husband and just smiled. When we got to paying for our groceries, the manager asked if we found everything alright. The grocery store guy told her that he had found more than he'd expected to. The grocery store guy told the manager that we were together, and so were our groceries. My husband looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. I figured that if this guy was going to fuck me, in front of my husband, the least we could do was pay for his groceries. And my husband paid for ours and the grocery store guy's groceries. I guess that was a bit humiliating for my husband, although I hadn't planned it. When we got to our house, I asked the grocery store guy how often he played. He just told me to take off my clothes, which I did. The grocery store guy, for ease, we will call him , JIm. Jim had my husband put in our refridgerator and freezer the things of his that had to be put away. While my husband was putting away the groceries, Jim told me to get on my knees and suck him. Jim pulled out his very large, very fat cock. Immediately I called to my husband and told him he had to see Jim's cock. When my husband walked out of the kitchen and saw Jim's cock, all he could say was WOW! I told Jim that I wasn't sure I could get all of him in my mouth. Jim told me that he doubted I ever had that problem with my husband. I had to admit to him that I never had. There again, without meaning to, I humiliated my husband. I did my best to get Jim's cock in my mouth, but to no avail. Jim told us that maybe we both needed to try, together. I knew then that Jim was experienced in this type of lifestyle. Jim told my husband to be a "good husband" and help his wife out. So, both me and my husband were sucking and licking Jim's cock. After a while, Jim asked where the bedroom was. We both led Jim to our bedroom, where Jim had my husband undress. When my husband was completely undressed, Jim looked at my husband's penis and told my husband that it was a good thing that I had approached him in the grocery store, or I may have had to pretend that I liked what my husband had. I didn't do the humiliating that time, but I didn't say anything either. Jim had me get on the bed and he got between my legs. As he did, Jim instructed my husband to spread my pussy for him, and he did. As he put the head of his cock to my vaginal entrance, Jim told my husband to watch how much his cock was going to stretch my pussy. My husband watched as Jim worked his cock into me, and I will admit that he did stretch me, a lot. Once Jim was almost all inside of me, he asked me who's cock I preferred, his or my husband's. I told Jim that he was a lot bigger. Jim asked again who's cock I preferred. I admitted that he felt better in me than my husband did. I didn't say that to hhhhhhhhh my husband. I said so because it was the truth. While Jim and I were going at it, my phone rang. My best friend was calling me, and my husband told me that it was her calling. Jim told my husband to answer the phone. and he did. My best friend, Michelle, asked if she could talk to me, and my husband told her that I was with someone and that she would have to call back. Jim told my husband to give me the phone, and he did. I tried to talk with Michelle, but it wasn't easy. Jim kept ramming his cock into me and making my scream and moan. Michelle knew what was going on. She asked if she should call back, but Jim told me to put the phone on speaker, and I did. That kind of humiliated me, but Michelle knowing that my husband was there while another man fucked me had to be humiliating for my husband, too No fault of mine. While I was trying to talk to Michelle, Jim got me to cum harder than anyone had in some time. And Michelle got to hear it all. I dropped the phone and Jim told my husband to talk to Michelle. I heard Michelle ask if I was alright, and my husbsnd told her that the guy I was with had made me orgasm, big time. Michelle asked if she knew the guy, and my husband told Michelle that we had just met him at the grocery store. I heard Michelle say, "Damn, Ray! Isn't that your job?" My husband had to admit to Michelle that that was what we had other men to the house for. He also admitted to Michelle that he had never gotten me off. Michelle then asked if I could hear her. I said that I could. Then Michelle asked if we were home. I told her that we were. Michelle then told me not to go anywhere because she and I needed to talk. Then Michelle hung up. Michelle lives 3 blocks from us and was at our house in just a couple minutes. When Michelle knocked on the door, Jim told my husband to answer it. And he did. I heard Michelle and my husband talking, and then Michelle was standing in my room saying that she had to meet this guy who did for me what my husband couldn't or wouldn't do. Jim got off the bed and put out his hand to Michelle. Michelle couldn't stop looking at Jim's cock. My husband was still naked as well. Michelle looked at Jim's cock, then at my husband's penis. Michelle had never seen my husband naked before that day, and she told my husband, "Now I can see why Dee likes other men. You don't have anything to offer her, in the sex department." My husband had always been interested and had always wanted to fuck Michelle, but he knew that he would never get the chance, or even if he did if it would be worth her while. Now he knew. When Michelle looked back to Jim, he pulled her top over her head and then her bra. All Michelle could say was. "Uh." Jim then had Michelle's shorts and panties off in seconds. Michelle looked at me and asked if I was alright with this. I was still exhausted and told her that I was exhausted, and that it was her turn. My husband got to watch Jim pound Michelle like he had done to and with me. Jim hadn't cum yet, but my husband had. I guess it had to be humiliating for my husband to desire Michelle, but instead of getting to be with her, he got to watch a complete stranger do both me and Michelle. And my husband got to see both me and Michelle orgasm, hard, with Jim. Michelle came twice with Jim. When Jim was ready to cum he called to my husband and came in my husband's mouth and all over his face. As my husband was standing there with Jim's cum all over his face, Michelle asked me if my husband was bi. I told her that he was. Then Michelle said, "I guess we all got what we wanted." Jim ended up fucking me and Michelle again, and my husband having already cum couldn't get hard again. So, My husband watched as Jim got both me and Michelle off again before he left. It wasn't until I started this reply that I realized how often I hhhhhhhhh my husband, or how often he is humiliated. When it is a part of your every day life, you don't seem to realize it. Now I have to think about how often I really do hhhhhhhhh my husband. He has never said anything about it. I know he likes me to tell other people that he has a small penis, but I have always done that. Looking around our house, I can count 19 pitures we have hanging on our walls of me hugging other men and kissing them. My husband loves to take pictures of me with men, either before or after, or while I am having sex with them. I have always just thought of the pictures we have hanging up of me with hugging and kissing other men as just pictures of me with men I enjoyed being with. Now that I think about it, when other people see the pictures hanging on our walls, they must think whatever about my husband, and they are probably right. Wow! Now I have a lot to think about.

My husband is very submissive. We have been together for 8 yrs and in those 8 yrs I have had sex with more men than I can count. I love agressive men. I like men who take what they want. That is important to me, and women in general. I like men who will make the first move. To me, a man who will approach a woman, knowing she is married, is a DOM. I prefer men like that. When a man wants my husband to watch as he takes me, even better. To me and my husband, it has been the other men who have made our marriage as strong, and special, as it is today.

I have been with my husband for 8 yrs, married to him for 3. My husband loves watching me have sex with other men much more than having sex with me, himself. My husband is 3 1/2" long when he is erect and as thick as an old silver dollar. My husband has a small penis and is bi. I know part of what turns him on about me having sex with other men is being able to see the other men's much bigger cocks. I also know that he likes seeing other men take control. We go to an adult theater on Friday nights where we let any guy who wants to do what they want with me, sexually. I think it is the fact that I give up any control that turns him on at the theater. My husband also spends countless hours on craigslist looking for men to come to the house and play with me. He spends a lot of time trying to make sure I have a lot of sex, and so he can watch. My husband prefers to see me gang bangeded, and for men to cum in me. I admit that I like that, too, but my husband wants that more often than I do. My husband also says that he prefers to see me with Black Men. I admit that I do very much enjoy sex with Black Men, but when I want rough sex, I want Mexican men. When we go to the adult theater I usually have sex with Mexican and white men, and sometimes with Black Men, if they are there. At the swinger motel we go to, I usually have sex with Black Men first, then white men. When we have men to the house it is usually Black Men and Mexican men. My husband likes seeing me do anal with Black Men, and I like that, too. My husband says he doesn't know why it turns him on so much. It just does. White men are usually more cautious and gentle, where as Black Men and Mexican men are more rough with me, which I like sometimes. My husband also likes going down on me after other men have cum in me. As a matter of fact, after other men cum in me is when he enjoys intercourse with me the most. My husband is a complete gentleman. He is white and has a very small penis. So, I can understand why he feels that I need other men for sex, and I will agree with that. I have also never orgasmed with my husband, whereas I have with most other men. So, I can see why my husband wants me to have sex with other men, and I like that they do get me off when he can't. I also like being DP'd. Because my husband's penis is so small, he can never be part of a DP, and that makes sense to me why he wants me to do so with other men. My husband is submissive, has a small penis and doesn't cum very much at all. I think that is why he loves seeing me with other men, and wants me to do so as often as possible. I love sex. So, having sex with other men is something that I enjoy and desire often. I just want to know what motivates other men to want their wives to have sex with other men, and why it is so important for your wife to have sex with other men.

When you say, "she just dont seem to want to n I rly want it." What do you mean?

WAcuck. . .What exactly do you mean?

I say let your wife know of your desire and see where it goes from there. Communication is key.

If you have done this before, why are you having such a hard time doing it again.

You leaving her alone while you change is very trusting of the new men. They may claim to be bi, but from experience, we've had guys show up saying that the were bi and turned out not to want to play with or allow my husband to play with them. My advice is to allow her to control the situation or at least let her give up control to whom she wishes. When we go to the adult theater I am blindfolded as well. I lean over a seat and the men either put their cocks in my mouth or my ass or pussy. My husband watches everything. He is my security. I give control to all of the men who I have sex with, but I also know that my husband is in even more control over the men. My husband may be a cuckold, but he is the only one I really trust, the other men are just great sex.

My husband says that he feels most loved by me when I have sex with other men. Does your wife having sex with other men make you feel loved by your wife? The picture shows how my husband likes to be loved most by me

My husband is almost always there when I have other men. He is the one on the left.