STLcouple82

I guess it depends on your own definition of what cuckolding is. I think it's a definite form of cuckolding. For example, the first time my wife had sex with another man during our marriage, she seduced one of my best friends, and took him to our bedroom, and had sex with him in our bed. If that's not cuckolding, I don't know what is. Since then, many years later, of the seven men she has seduced and taken as lovers, five of them were (still are) very good friends of mine. Only two of her conquests were men she met outside of our circle of friends. I didn't suggest them, she picked them herself, and she later admitted that her fucking my friends was more exciting for her, and she knew it would test me, and my willingness to give her complete control in her own sexuality, and who she chooses to sleep with. She has also admitted that at least three of her lovers fuck better, and two of them are better equipped. One other lover is far better than me at oral sex. While she claims sexually, I'm very satisfying, I'm not her best in any catagory. There have also been long periods, where one of her lover's would recieve far more sexual attention from from her, than she was giving me. She chooses if I'm allowed to be with her, when she goes out with a lover. When one of her long distance lovers comes to town to see her, she has made it clear that during those visits, she is sexually exclusive to him. I'm completely cut off during those periods. We don't play at hardcore humiliation, simply because we're not into it, and we both find the more subtle aspects, like picking a lover over me, teasing me about his prowess, stamina, and/or better endowment, and watching her higher level of passion with a lover, quite humiliating enough. There is nothing sexier or more humliatiing to me, than to watch her take her lover's cock in her mouth or pussy, while looking straight at me with a playfully defiant look on her face. We may not have the kind of cuckolding relationship that is played out in bad porn or Letters to Penthouse, and we don't play around with extended periods of denial or forced chastity, but it is certainly moved beyond a simple Hotwife relationship. At least that's how we see it!

In our relationship, the husband is not the prototypical small penis, humiliation type cuckold. He is a blend of the generous, competitive, and voyeur cuckold! The wife is not a slut, not a one night stand type of girl, or a femdom hotwife. She is very selective, prefers long term "friends with benefits" relationships, and likes to tease her husband with her conquests, but has no interest in humiliating him.