RobJohnson

On 4/20/2018 at 1:52 PM, Dicky9222 said:

I have a few different metal devices 

Those balls look full in this one. When was the last time you were allowed to cum? 

On 4/13/2018 at 2:39 AM, small cock said:

Cb6000s, I could use to have an "xs" model, lol. It's a little hard to get used to, but when you get comfortable in it, you kind of don't want to take it off. 

Can’t you get a smaller one? There looks to too much room in there for your tiny todger.

I love the cages, there is just so much involved in the use of them that they should be used more widely.

The locking of them and your partner having the key is sending such a strong message both physically and mentally to the wearer.

But also the wife, it suddenly becomes apparent that the caged cock has absolutely no use for it, she will never be bothered with it so she can focus totally elsewhere.

The bulls seeing a caged cock to, just shows him where he stands and that the caged husband will never feature.

I personally like the girly pink one. Just adds to the whole picture, a nice feminine colour that is just right for the husband.

I knew of a guy who had his cage removed by his wife for sexual purposes once a quarter. Just a quarterly wank for health reasons to make sure his cock would still function.

I think it’s good for the wearer. He knows exactly where he stands, he won’t be any bother to his wife and so it makes the whole situation much easier for everyone. Everyone is a winner in this situation.

Just on the pictures on here, the cocks are so small that they aren’t of any use to any of their wives anyway. It only helps take any thought away from the situation, so it is obviously beneficial for all concerned.

Respect to the wearers, each and every one of you. You deserve praise for doing the right thing. You know what is right for your wife and so credit for ensuring she won’t be bothered by your inadequate little penises. You are serving your wives the right and proper way.

My view is that if either your wife or her black lover requested you to suck his cock, then it is up to do as they request.

It may not be what you want to do, but it is not about you, it is about their pleasure and you should contribute in their pleasure in anyway you are asked to.

Cherish the moment, work hard to do your best for them, feel privileged that you are being allowed to take part, and ensure you do what you are being told to do.

Its nothing about being gay, it’s about ensuring you do your best for your wife and her lover to the very best of your ability. 

Your mind should not be on any other thought other than your wife and her lover, and if this is the case you will ensure he enjoys your work.

My wife used to see another guy, and we never openly discussed it. It was sort of accepted, but I didn’t like it. 

He turned up at a function once, and  he came over, saying he needed a quiet word with her, whisking her away to another room, to arrange their next fuck and no doubt groping her.

I just stoood there, on my own as this arrogant guy took my wife away, and you could just see the lust in her eyes and also the power the guy had over her.

She came back flustered, and not saying a word as if she hadn’t gone off with him, we sort of never discussed it.

He however would look at me, with an arrogant sneer, looking at me as if to say “I fuck your wife, I have her whenever I want, you are the loser in this”

The following Wednesday she informed me she was going out with a work colleague, but the vagueness told me it was him.

The feeling as she got ready, my heart was jumping out of my chest as I just knew she was preparing herself for him. She was quiet, didn’t want me around, she wanted space to prepare both her mind and body.

I went into the bedroom several times she stood there, in the underwear I knew this arrogant guy would be removing shortly. Her make up was perfect, her hair, her smell, her short dress, everything for her arrogant lover.

The mixture of her getting ready for her lover, but knowing I didn’t like him made the feeling much stronger. I couldn’t get his face out of my mind, this arrogant guy would be getting ready to fuck my wife.

She went out, was very quiet, and so was I, and just sat there for hours thinking of him having her. If the guy was decent then it’s easier, but I know him, he is a loud mouth and you know he would be bragging to his mates that he was out shagging my wife. He is such a big mouth, he would tell everyone, tell them how he did her, how she swallows and how she likes it bareback. I know him, I know what he is like, and knowing my wife likes him to fuck her makes the feeling all the much stronger in a painful way.

While she is out with him I can’t help but visualise him fucking her, I see him standing there with her on her knees sucking his cock. I imagine all of this and all the time him looking at me grinning. 

She returns home later, and goes straight to bed to hide her disheveled state. He has had her good, he has won again.

I feel pleased I have her back, a relief, but every time I see him, he looks at me as if to say I can fuck your wife whenever I choose. It’s horrible, but the feeling inside is so strong, so mixed, so confused. It’s so strong because I don’t like him, but my wife needs him every so often, and I am the loser, and he makes sure I know that. I am sure his dislike for me makes him fuck her better and more often and I know he tells everyone.

He isn’t around now, but this happened often some years ago

On 16/03/2018 at 3:56 AM, DomBull4U said:

moira....secretgirl,

Don't you bitches forget...a good Black Cock Slut takes care of her bulls balls...licking and sucking them...all in a slutty effort to coax a nice big load from her bull.

A nice big load she can take in her mouth...and all over her face!

This is a wonderful picture. You can just see the pleasure on her face, feel her desire to please. His stance and dominance above her. You just can’t help wondering how the guy is feeling who took the photo? If it is his wife and he is unsure of the situation, he is about to be in for a shock 

15 hours ago, DomBull4U said:

Once again RobJohnson makes some good points and provides some good insight into the mind of a cuck husband.

There is one thing I have to disagree with however...the idea that the cuck husband does not matter. In my opinion, the cuck husband definitely does matter. Now he may not have much control of the situation...once the wife and her bull have established a firm, solid relationship.

Using the phrase "I don't matter" may be a good technique for a husband to use when trying to come to grips with being in a cuckold relationship. It definitely seems to be working for RobJohnson...and I say...whatever works...go with it. To my way of thinking, a cuckold relationship...a good one...is like a three-legged stool. The wife, the bull, and the cuckold husband each being one of the legs. Obviously all three legs are needed for the stool to function properly. If any one leg is missing, the stool becomes useless and unusable.

The transformation of a marriage into a cuckold marriage is tricky to say the least. Tricky and confusing. The couple will be on a roller coaster ride of emotions that is hard to describe...hard to imagine. I think the wife especially will be experiencing this range of emotions and may be in for the wildest ride on that roller coaster. It may be just my opinion, but I think the transformation goes best when a husband provides a solid base from which his wife can venture out...and ease into the cuckold relationship. For the wife to become the totally free, sexual "slut" for her bull...it's important that she knows she has a loving, husband supporting her in this new lifestyle. So to me, the husband plays an important role.

It's really just a different way of looking at the points RobJohnson made.

He mentioned the husband....making sure the wife felt and looked good for her bull. Excellent point...from Rob's perspective that means "I don't matter".  But looked at from the wife's perspective and the bulls...that makes hubby's job important.

The point that Rob brings up that is especially notable and very worthwhile is the one he makes about the wife having a clear mind so she can focus on what she needs to. Yes, yes, yes. Definitely. The wife is really going to be living a double life. These two lives...these two worlds...are best kept apart...not bleeding into one another. When she becomes the plaything for her bull...she shouldn't be thinking of fixing dinner, or carpools, or PTA meeting, etc...those "real" word thoughts. Those thoughts and realities are what probably led to the exploration of the cuck lifestyle in the first place. She needs her mind to at ease....free and clear...thinking only of her pleasure...and pleasing her bull. Again, to me...it's important that she knows she has a loving, supportive husband that "has her back"...so she can completely relax and unwind.

Even sexually...I don't think we can say the cuckold husband doesn't matter. When a married woman crosses that line...it's important again that she have a loving and supportive husband at home....waiting for his wife to return. Waiting to welcome her back into her "real" world. Wait to tell her everything is ok in her real world. Waiting...not with a look of disgust...or a questioning "where have you been?" attitude. But waiting...waiting for her with maybe a nice warm hug...and what they share after that becomes personal preference. (just asRobJohnson mentions).

I'm not really disagreeing with RobJohnson...but just wanted to look at it from a different angle.

DomBull4U 

 

 

 

The strategy of “I don’t matter” just works for me, as sometimes if you are unsure of things going ahead, thinking that your wife is the important one and that I am not is how I play it in my head.

I also think being in the background completely makes it easier for the bull, as it ensures you are not a barrier.

Everyone has different situations, and I play it this way as often I get unsure of it all, so to use those words “I don’t matter” gives me comfort and ensures I take a back seat. 

Everyone is different, and everyone needs a different technique to get to that important goal of ensuring your wife gets fucked. 

I suppose also Dombull4u, and this would give you another insight into my mind, if you were to approach my wife, you would find me quiet, and submissive. I would not be wanting you to have her, but I understand how she is and how you can’t really stop her, so I would be quiet, let it take it’s cause and see where it ended up. 

I was taught that you can never stop these things happening if you have a wife who loves cock. So rather than fight it, just let it run its course and see how it develops. 

For me, my pleasure is the fact that I have helped her get ready, I have made her feel good and I haven’t suffered by trying to stop anything. I have been mentally strong in being submissive and helping things along.

Then when she is out with him, that wonderful mixed feeling kicks in that she maybe having him, and I have assisted in it in some small way to ensure they are both comfortable.

Intersting reading your thoughts Dombull4u, but if our paths crossed, you wouldn’t find me discussing anything with you, I would just leave you to her so you can both do as you please. 

1 hour ago, arrowheadwaterj said:

this is great. thannk u for the help. i have been buying panties and clothes. just have to sit back more and let it happenn like u said.

thankks

The big thing I was taught was the words “ I don’t matter”

You can sometimes get involved when really it is just nothing to do with you,, and nor should it be.

Your job is to help her feel good and look good in the first place, then after that it’s up to the bull and your wife to find their own path.

The important thing is that they are left alone, they are the important ones, and you are not important.

Your wife will then have a clear mind to focus on what she needs too. The last thing she wants is to be thinking of you, so the less you are involved the better.

Then once she has cemented the relationship with her bull, then she will decide what involvement (if any) that you have.

She may want you to be there, she may not? She may want to tell you everything, she may not? She may want you to clean her up afterwards, she may not?

But the important thing is you gave her the space to have her lovers, to focus on them without any worries from you, and if she can do that, you have done your job well.

This is just how I was taught, others will think differently, everyone has a different situation, but I understood this and mentally it helped me. I felt by being more submissive, it took pressure away from her thinking about me, and it helped her progress with lovers.  

A few things here, firstly its about her looking good and feeling good that will give her the confidence to be open and flirt. Buy her new clothes and underwear so she goes to the bars etc feeling a million dollars, just make sure she is feeling great and looks great and the guys will come.

Secondly, just make sure you are involved as little as possible when the guys come over. A good bull won’t want to talk to you, he will see your wife as a target, will want to lure her in, and you chipping in won’t help him.

You don’t need to say anything, be more submissive and both the potential bull and your wife will see they are in control of the situation and you are not and let it take it’s course.

Then if you go to the bar etc, they may have more deep conversations about what they want to do, and if you have been submissive they will see that the possibility of him having her is real.

If you are involved you will be a barrier, and if he wants her, you are the last person he wants to talk too, it’s your wife he wants not you.

So get her feeling confident, and play less of a role yourself. It’s not about you, this is about your wife so keep out of it as much as possible to let things happen.

Maybe also strong enough characters have not approached yet. A good strong bull will keep on after his target until he has her, and if your wife shows the right signals to him, there is no way he will not have her.

I have had loads of instances where strong guys have approached my wife. This was despite me not wanting anything to happen between them and her. But once they see the signs that she wants them, and they want her, they find a way. It may not be that night, but numbers might have been exchanged, or they have arranged to be in the same bar the next week etc. 

Once a bull has decided to have her, and she has given him the green light, I just knew I was unable to stop anything happening, despite me wanting too. 

On 17/03/2018 at 11:07 AM, DomBull4U said:

btw robjohnson...your naughty twist of drinking the bull's cum from the condom gives us all some insight into your own kinky fantasies! 

And I'm sure that you aren't the only cuck that finds your idea exciting and arousing. 

DomBull4U

It isn’t a fantasy of mine, my mentor told me that this was something I should be put through one day. 

Would I want to do it? No. Do I feel excited about the thought? No

But it is something that would make me a stronger person and it would firmly cement my position within the situation. 

I suppose it would be like taking a medicine. Maybe an uncomfortable feeling as you taste it in your mouth, but must all be swallowed down as it would be good for me (and my wife and lover)

Or if the bull has to use a condom, maybe it’s the cucks job to remove it and drink it’s contents. 

On 10/10/2017 at 7:54 PM, Lexi1992 said:

Charlotte, NC

I think you would look amazing in black jeans too :-)

I wouldn’t want her humiliated. She is a lovely young woman and feel you should just allow her to meet the lovers that she wants to meet. 

If anything, I would suggest it’s you humiliated as she leaves you for the weekend to spend it with other men who could give her something you can’t.

Lovely lady that needs treating well. Yes, treating well may involve her enjoying a large cock up her ass  and one in her mouth at the same time, but this lady is to be looked after, given what she wants but not humiliated.

Just my thoughts 

19 hours ago, dsmia2015 said:

Here are a couple of her sucking my cock that night while giving me the details 

You did very well. You could feel the unsureness in your post, but I thought you would regret it if you didn’t let it happen.

I feel very happy for you, you overcame your fears and you let nature take its course.

How did you feel at the time? How were you feeling afterwards and how do you feel now?

I am assuming you now have a feeling of fulfilment and feel relaxed it’s over and you  achieved.

Be proud, you stretched your mind further than your wives lover had her pussy stretched. You did well and must be a better person for it now

On 03/01/2018 at 6:23 PM, dsmia2015 said:

Well it happened today! He stopped by around 9 am this morning after talking her into it (she was getting cold feet). They kissed, he sucked on her it’s and she got on her knees and sucked his cock until he shot his cum all over her tits. I am happy i let it happen. I have been so fucking horny all day thinking about this. He even sent me a pic.

Congratulations

10 hours ago, subscott2 said:

some pic

I need to give two trophy’s for this post. Brilliant 

7 hours ago, Harmoni Kalifornia said:

Yes, I have a permament one, but I still like wearing the temporary ones in different places. 

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That is just perfect. The tattoo changes everything, it just says so much and I give so much respect to you.

I think the permanent one is more hard hitting, but would love to see any temporary ones to get an insight into those. 

Thank you for sharing and total respect 

I love them, both the tattoos and the anklets.

Imagine having a wife / girlfriend with the tattoo, that is strategically placed so you can see it when you fucked her. 

Just a constant reminder she has bigger and better.

I think if you pull out now you will regret it.You have done so well, you must see it through as you will always wonder what would have happened.

I can understand your nervousness though, and whenever your wife has lovers it’s just the natural process, which is sometimes so hard to deal with.

Try adding more positives in your mind when you feel unsure. These may help:

1. It’s so important to make your wife happy, so you are doing just that here. You are helping her.

2. It’s something you personally have worked hard to achieve. Many fail, be proud how hard you have worked and how successful you are to have pulled this off.

3. It’s not about you, you are not important. It’s only about your wife. She is the important one.

4. You will be a much stronger person afterwards, you will have coped with new feelings.

Good luck with it and be so proud of yourself on what you have done so far. It’s so hard to deal with all the feelings and you sir have done really well. Respect to you. 

I can understand and have had to deal with unfairness a great deal.

I recall us going to a works function together, and as soon as we were there she spotted him, and left me with her other colleagues as she went over to talk to him.

Her colleagues must have been aware of my wife’s affection for him, as they tried desperately to keep me talking, and so leaving the lovers alone together.

Across the room when I managed to look around her open body stance was a dead giveaway, her brushing her large breasts against his arm, the touches, the closeness.

We had been in the venue for an hour and a half and I hadn’t spoke to her from the moment we had walked in. She left me to be with him, and there was no way I would have ever been able to treat her that way.

She had spotted him, she was gone, she was his, and it was apparent she had discussed with her friends beforehand the plan to ensure I was kept away.

I did pop over a couple of times to renew the drinks, and she didn’t even flash me a look, just gazing up and down his body and in his eyes.

The smirk on his face, the look he gave me to say he knew he had won, and he took the drinks off me too.

Nothing happened that night, she came home with me, it would have been awkward any other way. But you just knew they spent good time together, reinforced their feelings and you knew whenever they would be able, he would be pumping his cock inside her.

I suppose them not being able to do it that night just made the build up to their next encounter much more valuable for them, much more intense.

When you question the unfairness of her leaving me all night, just excuses flowed from her mouth. I didn’t matter in all this, no thought for me, totally unfair, but their joint need to have each other was so much more important. 

1 hour ago, DomBull4U said:

RobJohnson...Rob, I have been meaning to tell you this for sometime now....I always enjoy reading your thoughts on the various forums. The input you provide always seems well thought out...and maybe most importantly...honest and real. I don't know how to say it exactly...but your input...your thoughts...coming from a cuckold's perspective is always a good read for me.

From the things I have read, it seems to me that you are fairly new to the "cuckold lifestyle"...and maybe even still in a transition phase. You don't seem bitter or angry about it...but maybe a bit confused by it all. Confused may not be a great word choice. Bewildered might be a better word for how you are feeling. If you are feeling confused at all...it's because you can't quite "explain" your cuckold feelings and desires. It seems like you have been thrust into this situation...and are surprised that you are finding it a turn on. You seem to be very accepting of being a cuckold...and are starting to enjoy it more and more. Other forums have brought up the idea of what is right...and what is wrong. My own philosophy is this...don't waste too much time trying to figure out WHY something turns you on...just be glad that something does....and go with it...and enjoy it. (as long as we are talking about consensual adults.)

With all of that said...I find your entry on this forum particularly interesting. If I read you correctly, it seems that this idea of the husband and wife wearing cuckold and hotwife T-shirts really intrigues you. Seems like this is something that you would find exciting...are very eager to do. Maybe I am wrong...but it's almost like you could be asking the questions you ask...into a mirror.

If it does excite you Rob...I think that it's great. I'm not trying to put you on the spot...or put you down in any way.  

Wish you the best on your journey...so please keep sharing your input and ideas!

DomBull4U

I am in transition, we all have a story don’t we, we are all different.

And yes, I wrote this as I would deal with it if I was in this persons shoes. If I was at that point.

For me, I think it would be great too if my wife went out in one of those shirts, but I think for both partners it would be ideal first if it was in a town that you both don’t frequent just so close friends do not see your wife in it. 

You are right, for my wife to go out in one of those shirts would be absolutely amazing for us both.

Anymore photos greatly appreciated 

How about her wearing the t shirt to a restaurant that you do not frequent often. Or one out of town? Maybe then she would feel more comfortable to start with?

I can understand her feeling strange to start with, so if it was a more comfortable situation where you are both not known?

Or underneath another top where only part of the t is on show? 

Or how about an anklet instead?

I think you could make this happen if it was not such a big thing for her to start with, then she can progress after an initial less intrusive start.

6 and 15 for me all day long. That arse, perfect, would love to be presented with that. 

Another good one this 

Great vid