Hello: My wife passed away about a year ago. We were involved in the lifestyle over 6 years. She developed a sexual preference for black men when we started swinging. She quickly grew unhappy with the impersonal nature of swinging, so we started finding endowed, in shape, black men for her on the internet. Through that process, she found two regulars she really enjoyed the company of. Unfortunately, they both left the state within a 3 month period for work reasons and she became very frustrated. I had a black workout partner at the time and we had been going out with him regularly to shoot pool, watch UFC and football. There was chemistry between them and they enjoyed flirting. When my wife's two regulars left, she asked me to tell him about the lifestyle to see if he was interested in joining in with us. I had not told him about us, because I didn't know how he would react and I didn't want to risk losing his friendship. My wife really cranked up the flirting and my friend was starting to wonder what was going on, so I asked him to meet me alone for a couple of beers one night. I explained things to him and he was shocked but interested. Long story short, we went dancing the next Friday night together and they got close. I drove home to our house about a half hour away. They were in the back seat and I was watching some in the rear view. I knew he was endowed, but never imagined he'd be almost 11" and very thick. He ended up spending the night at our house. Things continued for about 3 months and he eventually moved into the lower unit of our duplex, but spent most of his time upstairs with us. We essentially lived together for over 4 years and he became our Dom. As anyone reading this can imagine, it would be almost impossible for me to have a vanilla relationship with a woman now. I am hoping to find another woman to share in the lifestyle with. I am very in shape and would be happy to provide pics to any woman with an interest.