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I am brand new to all this, my husband and I are scared to death. Yet, I adore him and he adores me, hence WE are looking at it as addition, not anything else.
NO, we have not done anything yet, but thats why we are here, to test the waters and see its its even something we both want to pursue?
WE want to bring in someone to in-hence, as a friend first, then slowly work him into our world. Neither don nor I want to hop around and its not about me getting fucked. Its a very complex/complicated situation, which we both want to enjoy.
A new friend suggested swinging?
Its really not about clubs and all the social trappings.
Its far deeper, Don is a cuck, per say, but not bi, not into being demeaned, humiliated etc. The LOVER we bring in needs to understand our needs first, then see if he is willing to abide by OUR needs, then explain his.
This should be beneficial on all parties, if not, then it does not work! If a Dom/Bull whatever the term dejour is used, he should always ASK the couple what do they NEED.
Please don't assume.
COMMUNICATION is paramount. That's for ALL parties.
Just my opinion
Cathy and don
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Hello, very nervous about this but here goes... I am 45 and never ever done this before. Not sure yet however, maybe with some encouragement? We live in Tennessee, both professionals. Don is much older and has suggested this for some time. I AM HAPPILY MARRIED, but he thinks I might see a new side? I am open to discussions, please be nice, understand this is not a done deal and discretion is paramount. Don is a cuck, per say, however not into bi, demeaning, blah, blah..He suggested this as an addition to US.
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On 12/31/2018 at 9:49 AM, oderu8 said:
I like business on top, whore underneath
agree
Curious Cathy in Tennessee, NEW, but maybe?
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Good morning, and thank you for the note. Yes both Don and I are brand new to this, and yes we are both scared to death. I'm still not sold on the idea, just discussing it makes my stomach queasy . I won't lie there is a sense of excitement involved in even discussing it that is almost addictive, I'm not sure how to explain it? Something I want you to understand, I adore my husband. He loves me very much, and this is his idea and not mine . We are looking at this as an addition to our marriage not to take away.
I believe the term cuck is does not quite apply to Don. If anything it may even apply to me?
He is not bi, he is not into being humiliated and demeaned.
Its more about letting me experience something I have never done.
On face value, I'm a soccer mom and work as a nurse. NO one would have a clue I would even contemplate such actions, or such a character change.
Sorry this just seems so complex/convoluted, complicated, maybe with your experience you'll actually understand what I might need? Looking forward to hearing back from you. Cathy and don