So heres an update to the date night.
They met up in a fairly busy plaza here in Edmonton. After a bit of chit chat, they made out in the car. Then both their hands were all over each other. But didnt quiet go to the third base. Coz wife is pregnant and wasn’t comfortable going all the way.
After she came home, she was so wet. We made out and I asked her why she was being so aggressive, she said she was imagining kissing her bf instead of me.
I was rock hard throughout her date. Asked her if shed do it again, and her reply was ‘yes’ without any hesitation. Also if he was erect, she said obviously; and that he was much thicker than I. And if she wasnt currently pregnant (she stopped me rite there and didnt let me finish the sentence), she said ‘shed ask me and the kid to get the fuck out of the house coz she wanted to feel him inside her”. She was surprised how I was so chill after, she thought that I would be upset and that I would react differently. But her confidence was so high up when we made out like nothing has happened.
I think the journey has begun and that this continues after she delivers the baby too.
thanks to all of the folks that have helped me so far. And a word to anyone going down this path, its a long term game. Help calm her fears and her desires will be surprising. Enjoy the ride ;)