Cuck Marriage

[cuckmarriage]

Hi, introducing us a bit. Im 34, wife is 39, stay at home mom of 2, formely worked as a secretary. For us this cuckold thing it has being a long and very interesting process. We got married almost 8 years ago, have always had a very good relationship in general.

 

Im 5 years younger than my wife so there has always being that feeling of her sometimes treating me like an older son, although she always has said she doesnt. So, despite our very good relationship in general, the sex part was just "ok", before me she had only another guy. In the third year of marriage i started to think she wasnt being fully satisfied, or was just bored with our sexlife, so i started suggesting trying new things, maybe some soft swinger stuff, but she was not into it at all, saying she was not that kind of woman, that she could not be with another man besides me, even more, that she could not have sex with a man she does not love, so that was a big no, i tried bringing the subject back but the answer was always the same.

 

Eventually i stopped telling her about it, and like 3 months after that she asked me if i told her about that kind of experiences with some sort of knowlegde about it, i told her i just looked for some info and read about people experiences about it. She asked me to tell her what i have found, then i told her all i knew until that moment, about the different experiences some people and marriages have in private, that it doesnt have to be the big orgy porno thing, that most times it's quite simple but erotic stuff what brings people to that kind of experiences. She looked interested in all i was saying, until that point i didnt know if she was looking for general culture about that kind of stuff or if she was really interested in at least trying something. So, i asked her what she wanted to know, or more like why she wanted to know about that, and then it shocked me with some sincere words. She told me that our relationship was very fulfilling but the sex part was not as complete as she might wanted to be. She told me than in sex she has always being passive, and that she feels and thinks that i am the same way, so thats why our sexlife is literally like that "passive". After a while she told me that she was thinking about what i suggested to her, and that at first she just said no because she has always being quite conservative, catholic raised kind of thinking, but that eventually she started to think that maybe in the right way experiences like that could be a good complement to our marriage.

 

At that point we didnt know exactly where we were going, but we knew we were going to experience something more as a couple or try to at least. So, eventually we started contacting swinger couples that lived close enough thanx to a place we found initially online. Our first experiences were mostly "watching" other couples, that was very interested and we really got excited watching another couple get into it, but when everything changed was one day that we saw a couple in which the hub was quite dom and the wife was very sub, that day we were watching them and i noticed my wife was really surprised and captured by what she was looking. In those experiences we mostly did oral on each other while watching the other couple, not much of talking but after that day i asked her what happened, or why she looked different. She reminded me what she told me time before about us being passive, he told me, that guy ISNT at all, and he was even older than her, what she said next was hard but started the way of me taking my place in what it is our marriage now, she said, he is quite active, taking charge of things, making sure that woman had what she needed, he is very mature and at least 10 years older than me, he is NOTHING like you. I was really surprised with those words, and her being so sincere right to my eyes. In that moment i knew for the first time what we needed, for sure what my wife needed, so our next experience was with that couple, he dommed both, his wife and mine, that was the fist time she had sex with another man right in front of me, the experience was quite erotic because in some way his wife was showing her how to be sub to him, and in many ways he showed her what was her place.

 

Since that we have had many experiences for almost 4 years now, with different people in different places and situations. I hope you liked my words here being completely open about it, we keep in general a low profile. Please tell me what you think about it and if you want to chat or know more just ask, it is good to have a place where people can talk about this subjects in a mature and positive way.

 

Added a pic so you get an idea of us.

 

 

[Cougar Hunter]

Wow, this is awesome....

[DeeDee]

My husband is very submissive. We have been together for 8 yrs and in those 8 yrs I have had sex with more men than I can count. I love agressive men. I like men who take what they want. That is important to me, and women in general.

 

I like men who will make the first move. To me, a man who will approach a woman, knowing she is married, is a DOM. I prefer men like that. When a man wants my husband to watch as he takes me, even better.

 

To me and my husband, it has been the other men who have made our marriage as strong, and special, as it is today.

[brumbull]

Really interesting to read it from the cucks side and point of view.  I've got to honest i've never given it a second thought before, just relished in the fact that someone wants me to fuck his wife in front in of him.  What's going on in the mind of the wife who humiliates her husband?  I used to meet regularly with a couple where the wife really got off on humiliating her husband, telling how good i was or how much bigger than him i was and then would make him lick us both clean.  Whilst i've got to admit i enjoyed it i always wandered what their life was like out of the scene when they were living their everyday life.  I'd like to hear other peoples thoughts.

 

BB

[DeeDee]

brumbull,

 

I don't like to hhhhhhhhh my husband, but he asked me years ago to make mention to people, that he has a small penis. He has this pride thing with having the smallest penis I have ever had. My husband likes me to tell men that I need them because my husband is too small to satisfy me. When I am with men, and my husband is watching, I tell my husband how big the men's cocks are, although it is pretty obvious. He likes to hear me tell him that I love that they have such big cocks. It excits him.

 

We are very open about our lifestyle. Very few people who know us don't know about our lifestyle. Since my husband has never got me off, I usually tell him, when we have intercourse, to call someone who can, or I have him use my big dildo in me while I use my vibrator. When he uses the dildo in me, I tell my husband how good it feels to be filled and stretched, like all the other men do to me.

 

I have never called my husband a wimp or told him that he deosn't satsify me, although he is the only man I have never had an orgasm with. And I guess I do hhhhhhhhh my husband when I let other men DP me. My husband's penis is too small for him to be able to do that. I don't let other men DP me to hhhhhhhhh my husband. I do it with other men because I like how it feels.

 

My husband likes me to take pictures of him standing next to my lovers to see how much bigger their cocks are compared to his. And when I look at the pictures, I see that my husband really is very, very tiny compared to my lovers. Why he likes that I am not sure. We don't even have to be in a sexual situation for my husband to want me to tell others that he has a tiny penis. He just likes other people to know.

 

When I have sex with other men, I do tell my husband that I wish that he could cum as much as my lovers do. I like men who cum a lot, and my husband definitely deosn't cum much at all. Other men talk dirty to me when they have sex with me, and I like that. I have tried to get my husband to do that, too, but he has never been very good at it. I do tell him that I like it when other men talk dirty to me.

 

I guess I also hhhhhhhhh my husband when I tell my lovers, right in front of my husband, that I love it that they go deep, because my husband can't.

 

I have never called my husband a wimp, but I have told him that I like men who have a lot of muscles. Well, just the other day, when I was out with my husband at the grocery store, I saw a guy who filled out his pants really well, and was quite muscular. I told my husband that I wanted to be with him, and he said to go for it. So, I approached this guy. I told this other guy that I couldn't help but notice how well he filled out the front of his pants. This guy asked if my husband was my husband, and I told him yes. This guy asked me for my hand,  then he put my hand to his crotch. Once my hand was around this other guy's cock, he said, "It's all me, and it is ready for the taking."

 

This guy we met in the grocery store was very much an Alpha, which my husband isn't. The guy from the grocery store looked at my husband, and then kissed me. This Alpha knew what he was doing, and I liked it. This guy from the grocery store asked me what my husband's name was and I told him. He called my husband to us and asked my husband if he liked seeing his wife taken by a real man. My husband admitted that he did. Then the guy from the grocery store stated to my husband, "I bet you don't have much between your legs." I told the grocery store guy that my husband is 3 1/2" when he is fully erect.The grocery store guy laughed and said he was twice that when he is soft.

 

The grocery store guy took my husband's hand and put it to his crotch,  like he had done mine. He then asked my husband, "I have a feeling you want to see your wife take what I have. Am I right?" My husband nodded yes. Then the grocery store guy kissed me again and asked me if I wanted him to fuck me. I told him that I did. The grocery store guy asked me for our address and we gave it to him. We all stood in line. The line we got in was manned by the store manager, who we have known for yrs. As we were standing in line, the grocery store guy was fondling me and kissing me. The store manager knew that this guy wasn't my husband and just smiled.

 

When we got to paying for our groceries, the manager asked if we found everything alright. The grocery store guy told her that he had found more than he'd expected to. The grocery store guy told the manager that we were together, and so were our groceries. My husband looked at me and I just shrugged my shoulders. I figured that if this guy was going to fuck me, in front of my husband, the least we could do was pay for his groceries. And my husband paid for ours and the grocery store guy's groceries. I guess that was a bit humiliating for my husband, although I hadn't planned it.

 

When we got to our house, I asked the grocery store guy how often he played. He just told me to take off my clothes, which I did. The grocery store guy, for ease, we will call him , JIm. Jim had my husband put in our refridgerator and freezer the things of his that had to be put away. While my husband was putting away the groceries, Jim told me to get on my knees and suck him. Jim pulled out his very large, very fat cock. Immediately I called to my husband and told him he had to see Jim's cock. When my husband walked out of the kitchen and saw Jim's cock, all he could say was WOW! I told Jim that I wasn't sure I could get all of him in my mouth. Jim told me that he doubted I ever had that problem with my husband. I had to admit to him that I never had. There again, without meaning to, I humiliated my husband.

 

I did my best to get Jim's cock in my mouth, but to no avail. Jim told us that maybe we both needed to try, together. I knew then that Jim was experienced in this type of lifestyle. Jim told my husband to be a "good husband" and help his wife out. So, both me and my husband were sucking and licking Jim's cock. After a while, Jim asked where the bedroom was. We both led Jim to our bedroom, where Jim had my husband undress. When my husband was completely undressed, Jim looked at my husband's penis and told my husband that it was a good thing that I had approached him in the grocery store, or I may have had to pretend that I liked what my husband had. I didn't do the humiliating that time, but I didn't say anything either.

 

Jim had me get on the bed and he got between my legs. As he did, Jim instructed my husband to spread my pussy for him, and he did. As he put the head of his cock to my vaginal entrance, Jim told my husband to watch how much his cock was going to stretch my pussy. My husband watched as Jim worked his cock into me, and I will admit that he did stretch me, a lot. Once Jim was almost all inside of me, he asked me who's cock I preferred, his or my husband's. I told Jim that he was a lot bigger. Jim asked again who's cock I preferred. I admitted that he felt better in me than my husband did. I didn't say that to hhhhhhhhh my husband. I said so because it was the truth.

 

While Jim and I were going at it, my phone rang. My best friend was calling me, and my husband told me that it was her calling. Jim told my husband to answer the phone. and he did. My best friend, Michelle, asked if she could talk to me, and my husband told her that I was with someone and that she would have to call back. Jim told my husband to give me the phone, and he did. I tried to talk with Michelle, but it wasn't easy. Jim kept ramming his cock into me and making my scream and moan. Michelle knew what was going on. She asked if she should call back, but Jim told me to put the phone on speaker, and I did. That kind of humiliated me, but Michelle knowing that my husband was there while another man fucked me had to be humiliating for my husband, too No fault of mine.

 

While I was trying to talk to Michelle, Jim got me to cum harder than anyone had in some time. And Michelle got to hear it all. I dropped the phone and Jim told my husband to talk to Michelle. I heard Michelle ask if I was alright, and my husbsnd told her that the guy I was with had made me orgasm, big time. Michelle asked if she knew the guy, and my husband told Michelle that we had just met him at the grocery store. I heard Michelle say, "Damn, Ray! Isn't that your job?" My husband had to admit to Michelle that that was what we had other men to the house for. He also admitted to Michelle that he had never gotten me off. Michelle then asked if I could hear her. I said that I could. Then Michelle asked if we were home. I told her that we were. Michelle then told me not to go anywhere because she and I needed to talk. Then Michelle hung up.

 

Michelle lives 3 blocks from us and was at our house in just a couple minutes. When Michelle knocked on the door, Jim told my husband to answer it. And he did. I heard Michelle and my husband talking, and then Michelle was standing in my room saying that she had to meet this guy who did for me what my husband couldn't or wouldn't do. Jim got off the bed and put out his hand to Michelle. Michelle couldn't stop looking at Jim's cock. My husband was still naked as well. Michelle looked at Jim's cock, then at my husband's penis. Michelle had never seen my husband naked before that day, and she told my husband, "Now I can see why Dee likes other men. You don't have anything to offer her, in the sex department."

 

My husband had always been interested and had always wanted to fuck Michelle, but he knew that he would never get the chance, or even if he did if it would be worth her while. Now he knew. When Michelle looked back to Jim,  he pulled her top over her head and then her bra. All Michelle could say was. "Uh." Jim then had Michelle's shorts and panties off in seconds. Michelle looked at me and asked if I was alright with this. I was still exhausted and told her that I was exhausted, and that it was her turn. My husband got to watch Jim pound Michelle like he had done to and with me. Jim hadn't cum yet, but my husband had. I guess it had to be humiliating for my husband to desire Michelle, but instead of getting to be with her, he got to watch a complete stranger do both me and Michelle. And my husband got to see both me and Michelle orgasm, hard, with Jim. Michelle came twice with Jim. When Jim was ready to cum he called to my husband and came in my husband's mouth and all over his face.

 

As my husband was standing there with Jim's cum all over his face, Michelle asked me if my husband was bi. I told her that he was. Then Michelle said, "I guess we all got what we wanted." Jim ended up fucking me and Michelle again, and my husband having already cum couldn't get hard again. So, My husband watched as Jim got both me and Michelle off again before he left.

 

It wasn't until I started this reply that I realized how often I hhhhhhhhh my husband, or how often he is humiliated. When it is a part of your every day life, you don't seem to realize it. Now I have to think about how often I really do hhhhhhhhh my husband. He has never said anything about it. I know he likes me to tell other people that he has a small penis, but I have always done that.

 

Looking around our house, I can count 19 pitures we have hanging on our walls of me hugging other men and kissing them. My husband loves to take pictures of me with men, either before or after, or while I am having sex with them. I have always just thought of the pictures we have hanging up of me with hugging and kissing other men as just pictures of me with men I enjoyed being with. Now that I think about it, when other people see the pictures hanging on our walls, they must think  whatever about my husband, and they are probably right.

 

Wow! Now I have a lot to think about.

[brumbull]

Hi DeeDee,

nice story!  I'm guessing it's a 24/7 thing for you guys.  I haven't come across that before, most couples i have met are into the scene more for just the sex side so i imagine live "normal" when they're not meeting.  Maybe that's just what i imagine though and nothing like reality.  Can i ask another question, and this one is to everyone.  Are the majority of bulls arrogant twats who can't string a sentence together?  Obviously being from that side i don't get to talk to that many but reading through responses and posts on the site there seems to be a lot of, "I would fuck you in da ass" type statements and not much conversation.  Is this what cuck couples want or do you prefer a bull that can communicate on the same level as yourself before joining you both in the bedroom?

 

Hope i haven't upset the other bulls in the room. lol

 

BB

[DeeDee]

BB,

 

Our lifestyle is how we live. I have several regular lovers that I have sex with as often as I can. My husband loves that I am, what he calls, easy. I love sex more than most everything else. We have had men live with us, and I have two steady boyfriends that I have been dating for about 5 years now. For the last 8 years we have gone to the adult theater literally every Friday night. We also don't hide who we are, from anyone.

 

My mother-in-law, when I first started dating my husband, told me that my husband was a bit on the submissive side and had very little experience with women. She also told me that my husband had dated mostly guys growing up. She even warned me of his small penis, which I already knew about. My mother-in-law even told me that my husband's best friend, who I found out later had fathered my husband's second child, had sex with the few girls my husband dated in high school, while my husband was dating them.

 

Within a couple of weeks of dating my now husband, he had two of his co-workers over for me to have sex with, and one of them eventually lived with us for almost a year. When the weather permits, I dress very "slutty." I want men to know that although I am married, that I am still available, sexually.  Often times, when we go out, I wear one of my husband's tank tops as a dress, heels and nothing else. That way I am easily accessable. Both me and my husband like me to be that way.

 

I wouldn't say all, or many, bulls are arrogant. Some are, but most aren't. Most bulls are very appreciative and are happy to be able to be with me. And they often tell my husband that he is a very lucky man to have a wife who loves sex as much as I do. The arrogant men are rarely asked back, unless they are really, really good lovers. One of my lovers is very arrogant and thinks he is God's gift to women. I will say that he is an amazing lover, so much so that he has been with me, two of my best friends, my sister and two of her friends. He knows he is good looking, is an amazing lover, is well sized, and women want him. So, I guess he has the right to be a bit arrogant.

 

I do like lovers who can be more than just lovers. One of my lovers is our mechanic, another is our plumber, another is helping us build an addition to our house. I like lovers who can be lovers as well as good friends. Me and my husband have gone camping and invited some of my lovers to go with us. We have a huge tent and all of my lovers know that they can have me whenever they want me. A good majority of my lovers are well educated. There are the few lovers that I see that are not what I would consider smart, but they are great lovers. One lover that I very much enjoy being with, sexually, is as dumb as a box of rocks, but he has always made me orgasm and he is a very good lover. It took me a long time to be able to take all of this lover's cock, but once I was able to, sex with us was WOW!

 

The one thing about my not so smart lover is that he is a hard worker. He has helped us pull up stumps. He has also helped mine and my husband's daughters when they were stranded. He may not be very smart, but that not so smart lover has a heart of gold and would give the shirt off his back to help a friend. He has even gone hunting and brought us back enough food to fill our outdoor block freezer. We have gone to the mountains to find large rocks to use in our yard to decorate with. Some of these rocks are really heavy. My not so smart lover has never had a problem helping out and doing most of the lifting that me and my husband couldn't do. So, lovers don't always have to be college grads.

 

Many of my lovers have gone camping and boating with us. Some of them have also gone on vacation with us. Two of them went to Hawaii with us last summer. Earlier this summer me, my husband and four of my lovers went to Las Vegas together. We had a blast. The four lovers who went to Las Vegas with us are all very much Alpha men, but they have gang banged me together several times and see each other as equals. They also respect my husband, which is important.

The man I consider my "other husband" I have known for over 25 years. He is a country boy all the way. He and his wife have been very close friends of mine for years. My "other husband's" wife doesn't know that me and her husband are lovers, or boyfriend and girlfriend, but we keep it that way so not to hurt her. Every chance my "other husband" has, he either comes to our house or has me drive to his house. He lives an hour away from us, but he is worth the drive.

 

My "other husband's" best friend, who lives about amile away from my "other husband," is another lover of mine, but my "other husband" doesn't know that I have sex with his best friend. I have thought it best that he doesn't know. My "other husband" has bragged to his best friend that he has sex with me, with my husband's consent, but his best friend has kept our secret that he and I are also lovers. My "other husband's" best friend's wife is a very sweet lady. She gave me permission to have sex with her husband years ago. She has a medical condition that makes it impossible for her to please her husband like I can. So, she actually appreciates when her husband and I can get together and please each other. My "other husband" can have a bit of an ego at times, but I love him as much as I do my husband. Now that I think about it, my "other husband" is a cuckold, too, seeing as how his best friend has had sex with me for years without his knowledge.

 

I think that there are some "Bulls" have earned the right to be a bit arrogant. If a man has a nice sized cock, knows how to use it and has had a lot of experience pleasing women, and done so well, then he has kind of earned the right to be a bit big headed. I do see this one DOM. who is very aggressive. He is a very muscular Mexican man. When I get with him I know that he is going to get what he wants with me. He has that kind of personality. He knows that he makes me squirt every time we have intercourse, and he knows that I love how he makes me feel when I am with him. This DOM tells me what to do, and I like that. I really don't like men who ask if they can do something with me. I prefer men who take charge and take what they want because I am normally more than willing to give them what they want.

 

I get with this DOM a couple times a week. And we have gotten together a couple times a week for the last three years. When I get with this DOM, he tells me what he is going to do with me, and it usually includes deep, rough anal sex and me deepthroating him to the point that I gag and almost throw up. He likes to use me. And with him that is what I like and expect. With my husband's best friend, who is also the father of my husband's , and who is also a co-worker of my husband's, he likes to chew and suck really hard on my clit. I will admit that it is sometimes a bit painful, but I endure it because he is a very good lover. My husband's best friend still has sex with my husband's ex-wife as well as me. He has also been with several of my husband's and his ex-wife's friend's wives. He is very popular at the sex parties we go to and at the swinger motel we go to. So, I guess he has a right to be a bit arrogant as well.

 

I don't think that a new "Bull" has a right to be arrogant unless he is an amazing lover, or has been highly recomended by several other women who have been sexual with him and bragged about his abilities. I believe that a man who is given the opportunity to be with another man's wife should be appreciative. At least if they want to be invited back. All men are different. And not all men are created equally.  If a man can prove that he has made several women orgasm, has a nice size cock and can prove his abilities, then he has a right to feel that he has more to offer than some other men. And therefore has earned the right to be a bit arrogant, otherwise, no, that is not what I think most cuckold couples look for in a "Bull."

 

As a woman, I know there are times when I want men to be very aggressive and rough with me. Then there are other times when I want a man to make love to me slowly and for hours. There are times when I want to man to have a huge cock. Then there are other times that 8 inches is good enough.

 

What me and my husband look for in a "Bull" changes from time to time. When we have looked for men to live with us and be my lovers, we have looked for  Black Men. Over all though, what I look for in a lover is some intelligence, a sense of humor, the ability to be a friend as well as a lover and I prefer men who have a lot of sexual experience. I prefer to be sexual with men who have been sexual with several other women before me. I don't ever want to have to teach someone how to fuck me, or how to make me feel good.

[toolman2c]

Hi, introducing us a bit. Im 34, wife is 39, stay at home mom of 2, formely worked as a secretary. For us this cuckold thing it has being a long and very interesting process. We got married almost 8 years ago, have always had a very good relationship in general.

 

Im 5 years younger than my wife so there has always being that feeling of her sometimes treating me like an older son, although she always has said she doesnt. So, despite our very good relationship in general, the sex part was just "ok", before me she had only another guy. In the third year of marriage i started to think she wasnt being fully satisfied, or was just bored with our sexlife, so i started suggesting trying new things, maybe some soft swinger stuff, but she was not into it at all, saying she was not that kind of woman, that she could not be with another man besides me, even more, that she could not have sex with a man she does not love, so that was a big no, i tried bringing the subject back but the answer was always the same.

 

Eventually i stopped telling her about it, and like 3 months after that she asked me if i told her about that kind of experiences with some sort of knowlegde about it, i told her i just looked for some info and read about people experiences about it. She asked me to tell her what i have found, then i told her all i knew until that moment, about the different experiences some people and marriages have in private, that it doesnt have to be the big orgy porno thing, that most times it's quite simple but erotic stuff what brings people to that kind of experiences. She looked interested in all i was saying, until that point i didnt know if she was looking for general culture about that kind of stuff or if she was really interested in at least trying something. So, i asked her what she wanted to know, or more like why she wanted to know about that, and then it shocked me with some sincere words. She told me that our relationship was very fulfilling but the sex part was not as complete as she might wanted to be. She told me than in sex she has always being passive, and that she feels and thinks that i am the same way, so thats why our sexlife is literally like that "passive". After a while she told me that she was thinking about what i suggested to her, and that at first she just said no because she has always being quite conservative, catholic raised kind of thinking, but that eventually she started to think that maybe in the right way experiences like that could be a good complement to our marriage.

 

At that point we didnt know exactly where we were going, but we knew we were going to experience something more as a couple or try to at least. So, eventually we started contacting swinger couples that lived close enough thanx to a place we found initially online. Our first experiences were mostly "watching" other couples, that was very interested and we really got excited watching another couple get into it, but when everything changed was one day that we saw a couple in which the hub was quite dom and the wife was very sub, that day we were watching them and i noticed my wife was really surprised and captured by what she was looking. In those experiences we mostly did oral on each other while watching the other couple, not much of talking but after that day i asked her what happened, or why she looked different. She reminded me what she told me time before about us being passive, he told me, that guy ISNT at all, and he was even older than her, what she said next was hard but started the way of me taking my place in what it is our marriage now, she said, he is quite active, taking charge of things, making sure that woman had what she needed, he is very mature and at least 10 years older than me, he is NOTHING like you. I was really surprised with those words, and her being so sincere right to my eyes. In that moment i knew for the first time what we needed, for sure what my wife needed, so our next experience was with that couple, he dommed both, his wife and mine, that was the fist time she had sex with another man right in front of me, the experience was quite erotic because in some way his wife was showing her how to be sub to him, and in many ways he showed her what was her place.

 

Since that we have had many experiences for almost 4 years now, with different people in different places and situations. I hope you liked my words here being completely open about it, we keep in general a low profile. Please tell me what you think about it and if you want to chat or know more just ask, it is good to have a place where people can talk about this subjects in a mature and positive way.

 

Added a pic so you get an idea of us.

sexy looking wife, looks like a good fuck