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The exchanges involving SandL are very funny indeed. Thank you for taking the time to reply to my OP. Maybe I expressed myself poorly. When I said that stereotypes were driving me away from this world, I meant it's online version. I will always derive a great deal of fun from fucking anohter man's wife with his consent. And this kink is widespread much more than I orginially thought. So it is possible to get in touch with people that suit your tastes. What I'm advocating for is a greater online variety so that people can find each other more easily.

Thank you @DomBull4U for bringing the thread back on track. I do agree with you that the terminology "domme" relates more to bdsm than to cuckoldry. However, I also think that a hotwife must feel empowered over her man by the fact that she can sleep around while he can't. And let me state my point clearly here: everybody can do whatever they want and whatever gets them off, but - in my humble opinion - a couple where BOTH have parterns outside the marriage/engagement is NOT living a cuckold lifestyle but "simply" an open marriage/relationship. I have come across people that are not in agreement with me on this...and they sure have valid arguments. I still stand my ground, in any case. So, coming back to the topic at hand here, there is a sort of "femdom" inside the very conccept of cuckoldry, in my opinion. That's probably why I would and could never take on the role of the man who lets her woman sleep with others: I'm too dominant to accept it. As for the t-shirt... I've seen some similar in my country (I don't live in the USA). I disagree with that statement. Sure, if a man wants THAT pussy, the woman has almost illimited power. However: 1) if she's a woman bald enough to wear such a t-shirt, she wants a dick in that pussy just as much as the cock wants to be in her cunt; hence, the power is even. 2) if the man is simply looking for A pussy, not that specific one, the girl has no real power; sure, she can look for a different cock herself, but - once again - the power distrubition is even.

You gotta embrace the truth...you aren't a domme! At least, not YET! lol

Nope! No editing. I recall you doing it, too!

I guess this answers the domme thing too, @SandL! hahahahahahahaha

Yes, shou should explain! hahahahahaha

I loved this one.

We should ask your hubby lol

That's a pretty frequent dynamics I have noticed. Even the submissive cucks I've come across prefered to be subdued to their wives rather than to the bull. But the wives not always are dommes. So they act as "proxies", to use your words.

Thank you for replying and sharing your valuable experience(s). In a way, you're upholding my point....which is that real cuck couples and their bulls are much more variegated than what is portratyed online. What stuns me is that such a variety is not represented MORE in dedicated porn sites.

Lovely.

Surely possible. As I said, I have set data on which to base an opinion.

I doubt he will miss it.... 😜 Cuckqueaning is not for everybody...just like cuckolding is not for everybody. It's all about expressing one's real self, within the boundaries that the couple chooses. To me, this is the only rule that should be set in stone. All the rest should be as free as possible. Btw, before i mentioned my researches about the cuckquean phenomenon...but I forgot to mention something that might make people luagh (or angry...dunno). While doing those researches, I have come across a research where ti was stated that white women (especially in the USa) tend to look for black "bulls" because it is a cultural heritage of when Afroamericans were slave. I have lost my documentation but I remember this (female) sociologist asserting that, since it was customary to not consider black people as humans during the slavery era - and hence it was not truly considered cheating to sleep with them - , that mechanism remained ingraned in the society. Especially where black people obtained legal right not too long ago. I cannot stress that I have no set opinon on that. It was an article I read a long time ago, but I don't have sufficient data pro or contrary the thesis. However, @SandL, something more to think about as to why you choose black men!! hahahahahah (Kidding, obviously...)

It is sure possible. We have daily experience of how the "average joe" simply LOVES classifications and stereotypes. So, maybe the balance is still in favor of a cuckold world where there are definite roles. It is very possible I'm biased by my preferences.

I feel for the difficulty of finding specific, non stereotypical stuff online. I'll tell you an experience of mine. I am obviously i man, as stated in my profile, but I was doing some research on the cuckquean phenomenon, both because the idea intrigues me greatly and because I wanted to help a friend out (I cannot go into more details about this last aspect). In any case, reading some peer-reviewed articles on medicine and psychology magazines I've come across stunning figures concerning HOW MANY women fantasize about sharing their men WITHOUT taking part in the act. I would have never guessed it. Of course, it varies with the country but the average percentage I've found is around 15%, which is staggering if you consider what is normally thought of women and jelousy. However, if one goes online (even in cuckoldry dedicated forums and porn sites) you can barely find anything. In videos, a "cuckquean" is nothing more than a girlfriend that organizes a threesome for her man, where she is one of the girls fucking him. Hence, creating a lot of confusion. The cuckqueans I've talked to on Tumblr have told me that they have rarely come across other cuckqueans that enjoy being humiliated or shamed....because it would generate too much insecurity in them to go on with the relationship. Despite this, all the cuckquean videos I've found portray the quean in a humiliated position. Oh....i think I have found at most 5 videos and a couple threads on the subject....

Thank you very much for in depth analysis and for our reply in general. I love having a woman's perspective on the subject. I am also glad that my post got you thinking about your choices hahahahahah (Just kidding here...) I think it is very relevant what you said about stereotypes having been a big hurdle for you and your husband. As a matter of fact, I had never thought about it this way....but the chiches may dissuade new couples/cucks to approach this lifestyle because they don't like parts of it and they feel it's impossible to elude certain roles or labels. I'm not saying anything new but it obviously transpires from your and your husband's posts that you carry out a satisying, fulfilling cuckold life. I am very happy for you. I thank you again for your insight and wish you can continue having fun for a long time, without stereotypes getting in your way.

Thank you for sharing your point of view. It's nice to know I'm not alone in this crusade! lol