First time is important. To make sure she really enjoys it talk to her about how she wants it to unfold. Some women like to be seduced, some like to be taken. My wife likes a man to kiss her firmly and take control by caressing her pussy and boobs. Once this happens she just melts and becomes a cock hungry slut. A bit of oral both ways gets her wet and once he enters her she likes to be dominated and screwed hard. She loves dirty talk as well while being held down and screwed. Good luck we hope it works out well for you both.