Cathy I had the same problem but I was the one with it. I had affairs but had never been with anyone but me, she wanted to see what it was to be with another man and seeing that I have been with others it was not fair for me to object to her wishes to at least go to a swinging club to observe and mabe join in. Did, she enjoyed it and to my surprise I injoyed watching her, she enjoyed playing with other men and had satisfied, we have been happy ever since.