Molly J

Louise and UK guy - sounds like you guys have a good thing going. Wish you the best. Bob, James and I are headed for Puerto Rico tomorrow for about a week. Then we are back for the start of school for me on the 7th. James will meet us at the airport and we'll all fly to PR on the same flight. REALLY looking forward to the trip. Got a new bikini just for the trip. Actually got two, one red and one white. I modified the white one by removing the lining in both the bottoms and the top. Now when it is wet it sort of gets transparent. Can't wait to wear it on the beach and get it wet. M

Bryan (aka UK guy) is, imho, a genuinely nice guy. At least from what I know of him on here. He gave me probably more help and useful encouragement than anyone else when I was looking for information. So glad you have found each other and I really don't think you or Pete will ever reqret hooking up with him. Think he is a cuckold but obviously can play another roll. Just goes to show that we all have different boats to float. Quicky on my relationships - James is travelling, Bob has been here with me for a while, Mom and I will have Christmas together with a few friends here. Not a lot to tell about sexual activities for a while. We are thinkng about Bob, James and me going to the Carribbean after Christmas for a few days to sort of celebrate. James is from PR originally and knows the good places. Will let you know. M

I am really glad you and the UK guy have hit it off so well. And that Pete approves. You seem like the sort of the loving couple that can roll with any turn of events and I am so glad that this has turned out well for all three of you. UK guy IS one of the sweetest guys I've met on here and wish him and you all the best. Loving is part of it but so is, and perhaps equally so, loving to fuck someone who really knows how. Best wishes for the holidays and beyond! M

Hi UK guy, Will have to look up that thread about you and Louise. Sounds like you're gonna have fun. And thanks for the well wishes. And I hope you have a wonderful holiday season. You are a sweet guy. And thanks to Louise. Glad you and I agree about each being different and want different things from relationships. Wish everyone understood that sentiment. M

Wow - long time no contact. I'm at home with my Mom & no one else. Bob snd james are back where we usually are and I am home with my Mom. After finishing exams, we did party. Lots of very satisfying sex - for everyone and some interesting suggestions from James with agreement from Bob - maybe me too. More about that later - maybe. Anyway I owe Leone a reply. Black cocks vs white I think you were asking about. My experience is limited but James is a lot longer though not as thick or big around so doesn't spread me as much but, boy does he ever reach the depths. He is soooo long. I love to deep throat him. Once I learned to relax and let him just go down it was a real turn on - for both of us. But I can tell when he "bottoms out" in my pussy as he says. He hits the back of my vagina again and again and that just is sooooo erotic for me. Bob doesn't do that but he does spread me more and I feel his cock rubbing my clit more so it's exciting as well. Ptobably doesn't answer your question but that's it for now. Thanks guys for hanging in with me. M

Here's a quick update for those interested. Things are going pretty well considering my schedule which means not much time for playing. Spent most of last week studying and got two finals out of the way on Fri and Sat. Three more to go next week so not much more time to play until after Wednesday. Then Wooooooo Hooooooo – watch out world !!! Anyway, bob and I spent most nights in bed snuggling and actually sleeping. We did celebrate with James Saturday late by going out to a local spot for a while, then home where I could not not give in. James and I had some phenomenal sex – sort of a sexual release after the intense week of trying to get ready for the exams. Bob was with us and participated in a passive sort of way. That's all that I have time for now. More later. For the question from Leone on black -vs- white cocks - I'll have to address that question in some detail after I have time to think about it. Thanks for the well wishes of those in the Molly support group. They are appreciated a bunch! M

Dancer - NO - this is serious. I have banned all sex for the next two plus weeks in this household. The guys don't have to worry about grades but I do. And that means I study. I need to keep grades up to maintain my scholarship. So far so good. Thanks Tex - I think you understand. And I must resist getting back on here for more than a few minutes for the next while.. M

Thanks Upstart and UK guy. And Dancer (like that better than WD I think), I will admit that your advice and comments regarding the dom/sub, superior/inferior relationships were a help in my understanding of what different participants want from the cuckold lifestyle. They helped me understand where Bob is coming (no pun intended) from as well as the options available to the female; i.e. not necessarily dom or sub to any of the other participants but open to all possibilities. That is going to have to do it for me for a while. I've got finals coming up and lots of study time necessary. Thanks to all who have posted on my two threads and for the interesting comments, good advice, and well wishes. I will stay in touch, just not as often for a while. M

Not sure exactly who Desert Bull wants to fuck - but whatever floats your boat I guess. WD - thanks - knew you'd like the pic. And your advice and comments were right on. As to the anal thing - still a virgin there but thinking about it. Thanks for everything!! Bonofox and tex - thanks for the comments. I agree.

For those who may be interested in how the “newbie” is progressing in this new relationship, here's an update. If you're not familiar with the situation, after getting a lot of helpful advice on this forum, I recently agreed to cuck my BF, at his request. We sort of sealed the deal this long Thanksgiving weekend. I guess I'm beginning to see how the relationships work to raise the erotic thermometer for all participants. I resisted, at first, any suggestion that the one cucked, my BF, should be considered inferior or submissive but, basically, that was not the way I should have looked at it. More, it should have been more a “what does he want the relationship to be”. Having said that, he still is not inferior or submissive in any way except in the cuckold, sexual, relationships. And even then it is because that's his choice, not because it is being forced on him. And I am sure he knows I still love him just as much and I know he does me too. My relationship with James, our dominant male in this triangle, is one of just plain unadulterated fantastic sex. He is by far the best lover I've ever been with, not that there have been that many. He just knows what I want, when I want it, and does it sooooo well. I don't love James, I just love sex with him. He knows this and I'm sure the feeling is mutual. Over the long weekend, James stayed at our place until last night. Both he and Bob had to get up and go to work today. Bob has been present in the room for all of our sexual encounters and has participated in most of them, though he has not fucked me since early last week. I have no idea how many times I was fucked by James nor how many times I came over these four nights and days. I have had orgasms from Bob's mouth, James cock and mouth, as well as just from being touched in the right places at the right times. James and Bob have cum in my mouth, in my pussy, and over most of my body at one time or another. While I am not submissive in the least and do not normally like or want to “loose control”, there are times, in the heat of frantic sex, when I willingly do let go. It just feels soooo damn good. I've told both, Bob and James, that I am not responsible for anything I say, do, or agree to, when in the throws of fantastic sex. I apparently did agree to a couple of things when James was fucking me and egging me on and telling me what he was going to do to me and didn't I want him to and so on. Some of that I later had to renege on and they both know now that I may say anything during super good sex, but any thing I agree to is null and void in the aftermath. OK – that's enough for now. I think we three have it worked out pretty well. For those who were concerned about potential STD's, I think we are OK there as well. Both Bob and James have recently been tested and I haven't been with anyone else, without a condom, for a very long time. And to those who gave me so much help in the beginning, here's another pic. Hope you like this one. It's just a bit more revealing. M

Thanks, all, for the recent commments and advice. Especially like CB's pull no punches comments about anal and my other concern with it. Have always wondered abou the potential mess. I think this thread is becoming a bit tired so am gonna sign off of it now. The title is not completely applicable any longer. I'll start a new one for anyfuture updates. Probably won't happen until after this weekend at the soonest. I'm looking forward to an extremely long weekend and, as WD so delicately put it, to getting "stuffed" for the holidays. I do want to thank everyone who has commented on this thread for their extremely helpful advice and, I believe, genuine concern for my wellbeing and future in this lifestyle. WD, Pat, UK guy, and now CB, as well as several others have been more than generous in sharing their experiences and experience based advice with a Newbie. Still a Newbie, but no longer "not sure about it". Thanks guys. M

Thanks WD. Doubt we'd need any extra lubricant though.

Thanks Mike. Won't use WD again after Bob told me what WD40 is. Of course it is a lubricant. Sorry. And no - no one has fucked "that tempting ass" - yet anyway. Not into that but am told it can be rewarding. I just think it hurts. Crap - why am I on this thing now - I have other stuff that has to get done, But thanks for the comments. M

Positive feedback is much appreciated! Thanks Guys - and especially Pat.

Thanks for the interest and comments guys. For the record here's where this relationship is at the moment. Bob and I talked a good bit on Thursday after he got home about what's happened. He was glad that I had enjoyed my time with James and knew that we would get together at his place this weekend. We were both so tired Thursday night that all we did was snuggle together and fall asleep holding each other. Then Friday we talked more and Bob (I know he had been talking with James) was suggesting that, since I enjoyed James so much, maybe he should sort of stand aside and let James call the shots on what sort of sex we, Bob and I, had. I just said “Let me think about it.” Then that night I actually pretty much seduced him. He was all “don't you think we should slow this down and wait a while” and like that. I'm whispering how much I love him, want him, and like that. This with him on his back sort of pushing me away and me kissing & touching him all over, eventually taking him in my mouth and getting him REALLY hard. I've said he's not small and he's not, though definitely not as long as James, he fills me pretty well. So with him still on his back I straddle him and sit on his cock and just basically r******** him. He was, eventually, soooo turned on!! Me too for that matter. We fucked for about 10 minutes before we both came, then, with him still inside me, we rested for maybe 5 minutes and then I started started moving back and forth and we were off again. This time he flipped me over and really screwed me royally. No hesitation at all which is unusual for him. This time it took maybe 15 or 20 minutes before he came while I had several orgasims over the same period. When we'd finished we rolled over again with me on top, kissing him over and over and telling him how much I loved sex with him. It really was probably the best sex we've had together in a long time. Then I asked. “You sure you want to give this up for a while?” He just grinned, shook his head, no, and said - “lady, you are something else.” I was quite pleased with myself. Now I've spent all weekend with James and have a lot better idea of where he is coming from. He buys into the superior “bull” thing that is voiced by many on this site. Make the cuckold submit and be totally secondary to the “bull's” preferences, including when and where and with whom I have sex. I pretty well set him straight on where I was coming from – we three are partners in this, no superior, inferior relationships and for sure, I and only I decide who the hell I will fuck and when. Think I sort of shocked him with my intensity. Told him that sex with him was phenominal but I don't take orders from anyone and Bob is either a full partner in our relationship or there won't be any more. After lots of discussions he agreed to my terms. Bob will be present for all future get togethers. If he wants sex all he has to do is ask and, while the time must be agreeable to me and Bob, we'll do it. So – had a GREAT weekend and think we have a mutual understanding now. Enough for now. We'll see how things progress. James may come over again on Wednesday. Will update later. ps – we cleared up the posting of my pics as well. At the risk of sounding immodest, I think I look pretty good and don't mind posting my pictures. I get sort of a turn on from it. Anyway, made sure he understood that I did it because I wanted to, and because he asked, but not just because he wanted it. Enough! M