Hey everyone,
So how to start, I guess from the beginning.. When my wife and I started dating I instantly fell in love with her, her looks personality and everything in between. While we were dating we had a 4-some with a couple and I loved every second of it. What really intrigued me with the whole hotwife/cuck was seeing her take my buddys cock from behind. I was hooked, and we married maybe a year later. Long and short we have had some hotwife/cuck experiences.
Now I say hotwife/cuck for a few reasons, I don't really like to label what we have. I'm not 100% cuck and nor am I 100% hotwife there are aspects of both that I love and parts that I will not do. Any who, I feel like I'm more into the experiences and lifestyle than my wife. Granted we have 3 beautiful children that take up a majority of our time and I work two jobs to keep a roof over our heads. But I work hard and love to play a bit harder. With that said I feel like I'm more open to her having sex with others than she is, and she never seems to take me up on "opportunities". I would be A OK with her being with someone on the regular or at least more than our few experiences we have had.
So I guess on to my conundrum, how else can I express to my wife my desire to see her with a lover more frequently without sounds like a douche.