Thanks for the advice!
I joined Fab way back when, and found being a single guy in 20's/early 30's meant it was like shouting at the clouds! Maybe nearing 40 things might be a little different.
I can definitely see it not being to everyone's tastes, but my philosophy is that as long as everyone is comfortable, respectful, happy and enjoys themselves, then why not have fun with others.
I honestly can't remember how I found this site, so I've not seen your twitter/x/whatever it's called today!