If it happened for us, I'd like her to find her bull. I could find potentials and give suggestions, maybe make the initial contact but I'd like her to decide and initiate
Welcome Legendkiller, I second that question and trying to figure out myself .
What do you mean by "she went wild"? Wild with anger or wild sexually? I'm pretty much in the same situation as you but have discussed it with her for quite some time and she seems more positive to the idea