Zen83 Posted February 16, 2016 Report Share Posted February 16, 2016 Great so now that she knows at an intellectual level (aka words and the rational brain) your position, you must match it and back it up with feelings and emotions ( aka you are talking to the limbic system of her brain and actually let her understand what you mean with your words.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted February 16, 2016 Report Share Posted February 16, 2016 Men and women really are built and wired differently. We process information aka what we call the facts or reality totally differently. Cuckolding implies a huge emotional shift, and when it comes down to emotions, women's limbic brain is a lot more advanced in processing all this stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted February 16, 2016 Report Share Posted February 16, 2016 You must make her feel loved and fulfil her emotional cravings, only then she will be ready to accept another man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted February 16, 2016 Report Share Posted February 16, 2016 We live boring lives vanilla flavour...if you want her to taste the big black chocolate flavour of life stir up her emotions, make her feel excited, loved, sexy and wanted first even in the little things, what you say, how you say it, how you look at her, how you touch her... Wake her up emotionally and then you can take it further... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joys Posted February 17, 2016 Report Share Posted February 17, 2016 I think her "limbic brain" has already processed this. I guess the problem with her is to get rid of the subconscious inhibitions and the sense of taboo placed there her the upbringing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted February 21, 2016 Report Share Posted February 21, 2016 Hubbies and wannabes... if you want to be cuckolded you must first show her and act like a real alpha male. At least long enough for her to accept another man. Women are sexually attracted only to alpha males in her social network. It's a natural response and she will respond to multiple men at the same time until she will pick one to fuck and become emotionally attached (and breed). To stir up that genetic sexual response you must act like an alpha first and lead her back to the safe emotional program already installed in her. Once at that stage you can spark all sorts of situations as she feels safe and sexy. This is where you are playful. Become the alpha first and she will begin to respond to the idea of cuckolding you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted February 21, 2016 Report Share Posted February 21, 2016 Now here is something men really struggle to understand: Women know exactly what they want sexually. They know it very well. It's men that have to make the leap in reality to match their cognitive expectations. You don't need to suggest anything to a woman to make it happen...you just have to level with her emotionally by following her lead towards the cuckold. They know what they want and also how to get it. Women send off signals of attraction and interest towards other men all the time. It's a fact, and it's just natural. We ( men) are just blind to this. If you don't believe this ask any woman and they'll tell you. Women make us believe that they agree to cuckolding us when in reality they have been leading the situation all the way. If it wouldn't be true they would be going through a r********. As I said earlier women are genetically and emotionally a lot more advanced then men... All women are ready for a cuckold. We just have to catch up with the instructions first... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nj-cuckold Posted February 25, 2016 Report Share Posted February 25, 2016 Now here is something men really struggle to understand: Women know exactly what they want sexually. They know it very well. It's men that have to make the leap in reality to match their cognitive expectations. You don't need to suggest anything to a woman to make it happen...you just have to level with her emotionally by following her lead towards the cuckold. They know what they want and also how to get it. Women send off signals of attraction and interest towards other men all the time. It's a fact, and it's just natural. We ( men) are just blind to this. If you don't believe this ask any woman and they'll tell you. Women make us believe that they agree to cuckolding us when in reality they have been leading the situation all the way. If it wouldn't be true they would be going through a r********. As I said earlier women are genetically and emotionally a lot more advanced then men... All women are ready for a cuckold. We just have to catch up with the instructions first... When my wife start to cuckold me after I beg her for long time she use to tell me she is doing this as a favor. After a while I didn't have to beg her anymore. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calicolombia69 Posted April 6, 2016 Report Share Posted April 6, 2016 Zen: You are correct in saying that us Cucks first have to go against our own nature and act like Alpha males (not jerks). Simply act like one of the bulls we fantasize being with her. Then the magic starts working. She lurked around the adult sites with little success. mostly to get her rocks off. and one very bad experience whereby the geek hacked into her email and ruined other prospects she had going Best for us --> head to the local bars, especially hotel bars. She will pickup married men who also understand the needs of a married women. Eventually she will find one who is open to a perverted husband watching. but the probabilities are no lower than going thru the web sites. Guys who had been opened to fuck in my presence are usually the ones she has dated for a while and are so into her pussy that they come around Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zen83 Posted April 15, 2016 Report Share Posted April 15, 2016 Calicolombia69 thank you for the comment, I totally agree with you it is a lot easier to actually hit bars and hotel lobbies, casino's also work well... On a personal note I don't actually need to be there I just want to her to be picked up, taken somewhere private and used like a whore. Then watch her slowly changing her attitude and accept her new lifestyle week after week... Watching would be a privilege, though at first it's probably best for a clean wife to be initiated to the hotwife world privately with a new partner. He should train her to expand her serial boundaries. Teach her how to trust him as her master and help her dealing with the emotional roller-coaster by turning her into a his fuck slut. At that stage it would be easier to introduce the hubby during their cuckold sessions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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