See then I realize that I didn't read the whole thing here and probably should have known better then too add my two cents when I am usually a day late and a dollar short. There are other issues I did not read about and let me say this swinger lifestyle or cuckold has nothing to do with nor is a reason to be abused for actual cheating on your spouse. Love your wife or husband and enjoy your lifestyle you two choose to live. Honor it. That's all I'm going to leave you ladies alone and shut up. Lol