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canadianwittol

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  1. Yes, I do wear women's panties now any my wife loves it. I was certainly reluctant at first, fearing (quite rationally, I think) that people might notice, but my wife said that was a small sacrifice to make for the dual purpose she had in mind: first, to create a tangible symbol of my cuckolding and second to disincentivize me against any temptation I might have to cheat myself - my wife fearing that after 13 years of cuckolding that one day I might rationalize to myself that I have earned the right to enjoy a dalliance myself. I have never cheated on my wife, but I do work on a University campus full of young and attractive women so it is something she is always aware of. She has much better peace of mind knowing that I don't want to risk the humiliation of taking my pants off for anyone but her. I've been wearing women's panties exclusively for three years now and doubt very much if I will ever wear men's underwear again. After some initial trial and error I now own plenty of comfortable pairs which fit me properly and after three years I really don't think about it much anymore.
  2. At the risk of sounding like a total nerd, there *are* a tremendous wealth of great cuckold books out there depending on what sort of info you're looking for. Three of the best right of the top of my head: 1. The Ethical Slut - the word "cuckold" is not to be found in this book, but it does speak from a stand point of thinking about non-monogamy as a general concept and is a great way of getting a woman who might not otherwise consider a non-conventional relationship to challenge her thoughts and beliefs about it. This book was absolutely seminal in my wife's acceptance of non-monogamy. Without it, I'm certain I wouldn't be a cuckold. 2. Insatiable Wives - I think everyone in this community is now familiar with David Ley's thorough examination of cuckolds throughout the course of history. Most of this information is largely anecdotal rather than instructive but it will certainly assuage some of a cuckold's angst by realizing that you've got plenty of company. Since time began there have been many cuckolds: you are not the first and you will not be the last! 3. Cuckolding by Marisa Rudder - this is a newer book and is more of a "how to" get into cuckolding book but it is written from the women's perspective with plenty of advice for the cucks. Reading presents a lot of great opportunity for self-improvement whether you're reading about something pertaining to your career, your finances, your marriage or yourself. I try to read on all of these topics and I have read a number of books on cuckolding which I would absolutely credit with helping me to be a better cuckold.
  3. It took me a lot of time to realize it, but the fact is that humiliation is a central part of what being a cuckold is all about. While I did desire to become a cuckold, and urged my wife to do it (which she did) I never sought out humiliation. It didn't happen for us until my wife met a bull on Ashley Madison who was into humiliating cuckolds - that didn't happen until almost 7 years into our cuckolding marriage. When he came into the picture, I resisted at first for a long time, mainly on the grounds that I didn't feel it was "fair" (I still don't.) I was one of the cucks who would post that I'm not into humiliation and that not all cuckolds want/like humiliation. But the truth that I see now is that I was really in some state of denial and trying to make the world what I wanted it to be rather than seeing it for what it is. The simple fact is that you need only read hundreds of years' of literature to see that for whatever reason, from Chaucer's Canterbury Tales, to the many plays of Shakespeare and Moliere and even to more recent films and TV shows - everything from "You're the Worst" to "Along Came Polly" feature scenes where a man is made a cuckold to the comic delight of the audience. There are literally centuries worth of pop culture that prove that people love to laugh at the misfortune of a cuckold. Even if *you* do not consider it humiliating to be a cuckold, it really isn't your choice. Other people who hear that you are a cuckold (and they will - no matter how much you are keeping it secret, at a minimum, your wife's lovers are bragging to their friends) will take delight in it and wherever that conversation takes place, you are the laughingstock whether you wish to acknowledge that fact or not. The bible says that the wages of sin are death; and in the same vein I would say that the wages of being a cuckold are humiliation. It took me the better part of 5 years to accept that fact, but you are better off once you realize that this is merely the role that you play in order to not only get what you want (assuming you want to be cuckolded) but to make your wife happy and to maximize the enjoyment of the bull. A few years ago, when I was still struggling to understand our bull's motivation in humiliating me, I asked him point blank why he liked it so much? What did it do for him? He kind of shrugged his shoulders and said it's fun. Without it, he could just be banging single women but that for him, this is what made it so much better than just hooking up with single women. He also took that opportunity to assure me that it wasn't anything personal and that he quite liked me, but that essentially he liked putting me in patently absurd situations that most would assume that no husband would ever accept. That answer squared up with another story from history regarding the British King Edward VII whose favourite mistress, Alice Keppel, was married to her husband George Keppel for 56 years. Even in private situations, King Edward almost always referred to his Mistress as "Mrs. George" or "Mrs. Keppel" even in situations where she was obviously his Mistress. Many found it somewhat odd that he would be so boldly open about having a married Mistress, where most would expect him to be more discreet to protect her marriage if nothing else. One day, the King's trusted aide asked him directly why he referred to her so formally. The King replied to his young aide that he loved to remind everyone including himself that his Mistress was married because: "Cuckolding George is all part of the fun."
  4. I'm surprised this thread hasn't garnered more responses, but wondering if some of that is perhaps cultural. There isn't much reference to the old terminology of "horns" as it relates to cuckolding in the English world as its' become quite outdated. In other cultures however the word "cuckold" often translates directly to terms like "horned one". Cuckolding expressed as a verb in Russian translates literally to "putting the horns on him". My wife is from Bulgaria and is fluent in Bulgarian and Russian and she loves references to horns, which are replete in both languages. A few years ago she bought a silly little plastic set of halloween horns and every once in a while if she were to return home from a date she will get those horns out of her closet and come and put them on my head before she sits with me and tells me about her date. In some ways I find this small act probably one of the most humiliating my wife subjects me to, but it absolutely drives her wild.
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