Its Hard to find a Hard Man!!!

[FunCpl355]

We're new here. The cuckold dynamic works for us. We consider ourselves in the soft cuckolding side of the kink. He loves to watch me fuck and suck dick and with the right guy I'll gladly make that happen every day if I could. 

On to the topic: We've been in this lifestyle over a year now. Her preference is older men 50+. The problem we find is many of these older men have ed problems. Met a guy yesterday for drinks. He is 52. The trio ended up back at our place for some fun. When dude flipped out his dick I was like FUCK YEAH we finally found a nice cock for the wife. He was maybe 8" and thick. She worked her magic on it and soon he was hard and fucking her....but....that didn't last long at all. Within minutes he started to struggle keeping hard. I thought well maybe it's just performance anxiety. So, I excused myself into the bedroom to give him some space. After 5min or so I peeked in on them. Obviously he was still having problems and the wife was sucking him to try and help. Then he blew a nut in her mouth..lol. Can't blame him. She is excellent with BJ's. Anyway, in the long run she never really got fucked the way she wanted it. She can go for hours and still want more. Hence the reason were in the lifestyle. Hell, I can't keep up with her sexual appetite. 

In our adventures we have only found one guy that satisfied her. He could stay hard, blow a nut and keep on going. Even then she wanted more. So hey, if your in the Cleveland ohio area and can stay in the game for more than 10mins lol feel free to drop us a line. My baby deserves some satisfaction.

[allindp]

So hot you two enjoy playing this way...

[Peter C]

They do say that 40% of men over 40 experience some erectile dysfunction to varying degrees so your wife may find this happens with older men, but surely that guy should have been prepared with a little blue viagra tablet to assist?

I'm similar. At 64, I can get an erection, though perhaps not as firm as when I was younger, but maintaining it was becoming a problem. 50mg of sildenafil provides that extra help for me and also boosts your confidence because if  you half expect it to go soft, it more than likely will.

As long as your wife doesn't take it personally and think the guys don't fancy her cos their dick won't stay hard.

[FunCpl355]

13 hours ago, Peter C said:

They do say that 40% of men over 40 experience some erectile dysfunction to varying degrees so your wife may find this happens with older men, but surely that guy should have been prepared with a little blue viagra tablet to assist?

I'm similar. At 64, I can get an erection, though perhaps not as firm as when I was younger, but maintaining it was becoming a problem. 50mg of sildenafil provides that extra help for me and also boosts your confidence because if  you half expect it to go soft, it more than likely will.

As long as your wife doesn't take it personally and think the guys don't fancy her cos their dick won't stay hard.

I am almost 59 and have struggled with ed issues. I've found a compound injection that works better than any blue pill for me. I think we may drop our older guy thing and start entertaining younger men. We entered this lifestyle for her pleasure. I've found it all turns me on too so win win for us. 

[FunCpl355]

@Peter CHey I've visited your profile and noticed some interracial stuff. Ya know we were at a swing club in Cleveland Saturday night and we met this handsome black man. Things led to things and she ended up fucking the guy in the outdoor area of the club as I sat back in a easy chair and watched. It was hot as fuck watching him pound her missionary position but what I found the most appealing is the contrast of her pale white skin on his. The site of seeing her wrap her red lips around his cock was mesmerizing. She loved it and I was super turned on. Now I'm looking forward to her hooking up with more black men. What appeals to you?

[Peter C]

On 9/6/2022 at 11:02 PM, FunCpl355 said:

What appeals to you?

I don't rightly know, but the contrast between the woman's pale white skin and the black man's is certainly a big part of it. Maybe the now old-fashioned taboo aspect of it too. Even the reparations angle arouses me.

Inter-racial never really raised its head back in the day when my now ex-wife Debbie was cuckolding me, though late on in our marriage she did come home from a girls's night out and told me she'd been chatted up in a club by a black guy. She accepted his offer to buy her a drink and steered her away from her friends to a quieter corner of the bar. With her perched on a bar stool in her short black dress, within minutes they were kissing passionately, tongues in each other's mouths with his hand on her knee. He applied a little pressure between her knees and she parted her legs for him. Encouraged by this, his hand was soon up her skirt, massaging her bare thigh, even brushing the front of her panties at one point.

Unfortunately, they were disturbed by one of her friends with news that one of the girls had passed out drunk on the floor and as she lived near us, Debbie was tasked with getting her home in a taxi. I've thought since, "Why didn't the black guy offer to help get Debbie's mate home?" Then he could have carried on where they left off, no doubt getting those damp panties off and treating my wife to what would have been her first ever black cock.

Even after that episode, black wasn't a particular target for Debbie and I. She was more into much younger men, early-mid 20s when she was mid-30s, even into her mid-40s and she was eagerly fucked by at least 3 young lads that I know of. There was one other dalliance with a black guy though, a prisoner she met on jail visits with a friend of hers. He worked in the cafeteria and took a shine to Debbie and her to him. They wrote to each other with the intention of meeting up when he was released, but insists to this day that they never did. However, two of her friends have both told me on separate occasions that yes, she did, several times. When I mentioned him awhile back though, she still denied it.

[Peter C]

My interest in inter-racial has very much increased over the past 2 years or so, since my girlfriend by chance discovered an online garage and hip hop virtual clubbing site at the beginning of lock-down here in the UK. That music scene is of course heavily black-orientated and Becky revealed that when she was a lot younger and first split from her long-term partner, her and her younger sister used to go clubbing together. I was a little surprised to learn that her sister Tanya, very much the plainer of the two, had dated one of the DJs for awhile, Becky saying, "so yes, Tanya went black, but I never did".

She made friends with some of the other participants on that site, mostly women but also at least two black guys. Soon they, and the women, were added as friends on Becky's Instagram account. I don't have Instagram, so that gave her a certain amount of freedom. One name started coming up in conversation I noticed, one of the black guys, now a DJ but a former member of a band Becky had liked back in the day. I remember her saying she'd direct messaged him about something he'd posted and was too scared to open his reply for a day or two, but soon they were exchanging messages fairly regularly.

I found this quite arousing, her openness about messaging a new guy helped by me not showing any possessiveness or jealousy about it, even subtly encouraging her to continue. He seems quite respectful - I think he's married with a family so doesn't come on too heavy to Becky. Soon though, another black guy started being mentioned more too, another DJ, from London like the first guy, but working in Ibiza. He seems a bit more forward - "cheeky" Becky calls it - and as she's told them both that I approve of her having these black "boyfriends", he was the one that suggested she call me "white boy", presumably to gauge my reaction. No doubt she's now told him that I liked my new nickname, which may well encourage him to pursue my girlfriend more seriously and attempt to get her into bed. I'm okay with that too!

Unlike my ex though, Becky is quite shy and inexperienced, and loyal too. Whether she'd ever take things further - even with my encouragement - I actually rather doubt, but in the meantime I'm happy to play with this idea, scenario, fantasy - call it what you will - and it's boosted her ego and self-confidence too.

I would be seriously pissed off though if she were to go with another white guy after me. If there is a next boyfriend or lover I'm pretty sure he'll be black and the thought of that pale, petite body underneath a big, muscular black guy really turns me on. And her hopefully.

[FunCpl355]

Thank you for the detailed response. Isn't it funny how our kinks seem to evolve over time. We always seem to bump into something else that arouses us inside. I'd imagine with patience she will come around to the idea but those things take time and rightly so. There's usually a lot to sort out. My only regret for Saturday night is I couldn't take any pics or video being in a swing club. She has expressed a few times how well she enjoyed him and I can tell she would like more. I'm definitely open to more too. 

[allindp]

29 minutes ago, FunCpl355 said:

Thank you for the detailed response. Isn't it funny how our kinks seem to evolve over time. We always seem to bump into something else that arouses us inside. I'd imagine with patience she will come around to the idea but those things take time and rightly so. There's usually a lot to sort out. My only regret for Saturday night is I couldn't take any pics or video being in a swing club. She has expressed a few times how well she enjoyed him and I can tell she would like more. I'm definitely open to more too. 

Our kinks do evolve over time as you stated, I started doing some swinging later in life, and now I find that vanilla sex is not all it's cracked up to be. Started as a foursome, but quickly realized that I prefer the MFM threesome dynamic more more, so hot sharing a woman that really enjoys taking on two me, and wet, well used, freshly fucked pussy feels amazing...

[Peter C]

On 9/7/2022 at 3:10 PM, FunCpl355 said:

Isn't it funny how our kinks seem to evolve over time? We always seem to bump into something else that arouses us inside.

Indeed. There was a time when I'd have been mortified by the prospect of my wife having sex with someone else. That was certainly the case when I was with my first wife and the woman I lived with for a time after my divorce. With my second wife however I became aware that I enjoyed catching other men checking out her legs when she wore a short skirt or her cleavage in a low-cut top and was aroused when she confessed to having been chatted up whilst she was out with her mates. How this developed to me encouraging and persuading her that I'd be okay with it if she took things further I really don't know. I don't regret iy though, despite her eventually leaving me for a neighbour. We'd been together for 26 years, married for a large part of that time and with her being allowed extra-marital sex for the last 12 years. I loved seeing her with that contented smile on her face and a spring in her step, knowing it was all thanks to the extra cock - usually young cock - she'd had the night before. We never called it "being unfaithful" or "cheating", seeing as it had been my idea. Debbie was just "naughty".

[Peter C]

15 hours ago, FunCpl355 said:

I'd imagine with patience she will come around to the idea but those things take time and rightly so. There's usually a lot to sort out.

Compared to my more confident wife, my girlfriend Becky is quite shy and very inexperienced. They are like chalk and cheese, but I am enjoying slowly bringing her out of her shell. She's only ever been with 3 guys, all of us white and one long, traumatic relationship with her son's dad from the age of 15 for 5/6 years. She went long periods - years - without a man in her life and no sex whatsoever, so it's been a slow, patient exercise to get her interested again. When i look at her, I think what a waste and how much cock she's missed out on.

Her interest in black men surfaced during lock-down here in the UK and somewhat shocked me, but really turned me on. In turn I think she was surprised by my reaction, maybe even relieved that I'm okay with it. I told her I totally approve of her having black boyfriends and she said that she was pleased that I approve and was going to tell them. I'm not going to push her though. If either of the black guys she chats to online really want to take things further I'm sure she'll tell me and I'll do my best to encourage her to make it happen. As before, I can't say I ever really fantasised about either of my wives going black, but now with Becky I want it to happen so bad.

[FunCpl355]

10 hours ago, Peter C said:

Compared to my more confident wife, my girlfriend Becky is quite shy and very inexperienced. They are like chalk and cheese, but I am enjoying slowly bringing her out of her shell. She's only ever been with 3 guys, all of us white and one long, traumatic relationship with her son's dad from the age of 15 for 5/6 years. She went long periods - years - without a man in her life and no sex whatsoever, so it's been a slow, patient exercise to get her interested again. When i look at her, I think what a waste and how much cock she's missed out on.

Her interest in black men surfaced during lock-down here in the UK and somewhat shocked me, but really turned me on. In turn I think she was surprised by my reaction, maybe even relieved that I'm okay with it. I told her I totally approve of her having black boyfriends and she said that she was pleased that I approve and was going to tell them. I'm not going to push her though. If either of the black guys she chats to online really want to take things further I'm sure she'll tell me and I'll do my best to encourage her to make it happen. As before, I can't say I ever really fantasised about either of my wives going black, but now with Becky I want it to happen so bad.

I can't say it came on suddenly with the wife. The opportunity just presented itself at the club and we jumped on it. The experience was good and positive for both of us. I have no hangups on races nor does she. All we see is a nice cock..lol. It was great to finally find a cock that could preform and that he did. Pulling her hair, smacking that ass, pounding her into orgasm. Holy fuck it was hot. She typically goes for the older men but like the thread title says it's hard to find a hard older man. I'm hoping soon she will lower her age limit and start engaging cocks that will stay hard for her. She deserves the best..lol.

[FunCpl355]

On 9/7/2022 at 10:43 AM, allindp said:

Our kinks do evolve over time as you stated, I started doing some swinging later in life, and now I find that vanilla sex is not all it's cracked up to be. Started as a foursome, but quickly realized that I prefer the MFM threesome dynamic more more, so hot sharing a woman that really enjoys taking on two me, and wet, well used, freshly fucked pussy feels amazing...

Weve not ventured into the mfmf world yet. She has approached me many times asking if I'd like to sample other women but honestly I prefer watching her above all things. I do join in on her sometimes and fucking her after someone else has pounded her is just as you described...amazing. Another thin I love to watch her do is suck dick. Love watching her bring a man to climax as he blows a huge nut in her mouth...so fucking hot. My foot fetish plays into all this too. I love watching her feet dangle over the back of a man as he fucks her. Much like the gif I posted above. Damn that's hot..lol.

[captainblack]

I have not read the entire thread, but I have to say start by putting your location in your profile.  If I knew you were in my general area of operation I would volunteer to be your wife's bull as I am blessed with having stamina. 

Last summer I went for 4 hours with one girl.  She eventually begged me to stop and let her suck me off to finish as her pussy was just too tired.  Not man for a 60+ guy.  I can still go for a long time and have no trouble getting hard.