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[WillFuckYourWifeSore]

I was recently contacted by a wanna be cuckold.

he told me he wanted me to have his wife.. the problem is, he never told her he wants to be a cuckold nor she is the cheating type.

while I told him he have to talk to her, and introduce some seeds of the idea into her mind, or slowly try to talk her into a three some (where he would back off after the initial stage and watch me fuck her), he told me he cant do it because he fears his wife would be hurt and think he doesn't love her anymore.

My question is it even worth my while? they are not ready at all at the moment, nor I see an indication they will be any time soon.

And I should I advice him to approach the subject and combat his fears?

thanks for reading and replaying.

 

-K

[KennyG]

I agree it is going to take time. Whether it is worth your time or not only you know.

He may find my suggestions useful in achieving his goal of sharing wife. 

 

You do need to keep in mind that moving your wife into acceptance of a lifestyle where she shares herself with other men will take time.

Always remember that she is your wife first and you need to progress at her pace. It will certainly be worth it in the long run and you would rather have a slut that takes years to develop than blowing it the first week you try and then she will not try it again.  .  Remember to never move to quickly or push.

Most men that desire to share their wife fail, because they use the wrong approach and move to quickly and just jump into the subject and telling their wife they find it sexually simulating at the thought of her having sex with other men and watching.

Include yourself in your wife's life. If you take a real interest in things that interest her, she will more than likely take an interest in things you like as well. It's that give and take thing! Who knows by even learning some crocheting with your wife you may get a better idea of how to tie a fishing lure on!

You should go slow with each step.

You need to be prepared with answers for any questions she may ask you during the process. If she suddenly asks you if you want her to be a slut or act like a slut, don’t say yes, consider staying “ I just want you to have fun,”  and then follow it with a question, “ Don’t you find it fun being adventurous?  

1. You can start off by telling her how sexy she is and how much you desire her and back it up with flowers, dinners, romantic evenings and of course fuck her all the time. Sometimes you may even want to fuck her kind of hard, talk dirty to her, get her to talk dirty to you.  Now one of biggest problems you will face in the beginning is that your wife may feel that she is only sexy to you.
2. Next, start by buying her sexy street clothes. No, not street walker clothes but stuff she can wear out in public. If she objects or say they reveal too much, say that they are often worn by women in your office or around your work. Consider starting with silk blouses that can be worn with a jacket, pleated skirts, and halter tops for summer or thin sun dresses.  Actually go with her to pick out some sexy clothes.  You need to really get into picking out the clothes with her and not just walk around complaining like we guys usually do.  This new outfit will be your so called "favorite outfit" to see her in. Every time you are going somewhere that you will not run into someone you know and she asks what should she wear your reply, my favorite outfit!  After a while this outfit will get old to her, so what do you do? You buy her something even sexier to wear, and now this is your favorite outfit. You keep doing this until her closet is full of really hot clothes and secretly you get rid of some of those outfits that she says she likes but you hate.

Now is the time you need to be doing more things to help her.You should start helping her more around the house doing simple things, like helping with laundry, putting dirty dishes in the dish washer and putting them away after washing them. Making sure her car is serviced and clean.This not only is a hidden reward for her accepting the clothes you choose, but gives you more time with her.Eventually she will have all of these sexy clothes and she will have some outfits that are so hot she will only be willing to wear them to certain places. Also have her wear some of these clothes when you are just sitting around the house. Just every now and then ask her to get dolled up for you and be sure to fuck the hell out of her every time she wears these outfits. Don't forget that if you ask her to get dolled up, you should get cleaned up too and put on some clothes that she likes for you to wear.

1. Now here is the secret to proving to her that she is sexy and desirable in the eyes of other men.

Get her to wear one of her less slutty outfits, but a bit revealing just the same and take her to a restaurant. Here you will point out that a nice looking guy there keeps checking her out and turns away every time she looks his way. He does not actual have to be looking at her, but she will get use to the idea she is desirable to other men.

1.   After a few months of this routine, it is time to get her to wear one of her more slutty outfits and take her to a guy place. Not a family restaurant or anything like that but some place like a pool hall, sports bar, racetrack, casino, golf tournament, poker game or any place where the guys far outnumber the girls.  Make sure this is a place way across town if you live in a major city or another city if you live in a small town. You should have already visited these places beforehand and developed some friends with the people there. These places will become your special places.  You do not want her running into someone she knows and ruin your plans or set them back.    You know your wife better than I do but I would also suggest not abandoning her either.   Don’t just sit there and watch the game, or go play pool and leave her standing alone. Include her in all the guy stuff you do while you are at these places. She may even start to ask you questions like, "Why do you guys do (or whatever it is)?"  Simply reply, "It’s a guy thing." It’s similar to when we try to talk to women and they get emotional and we have no clue why, except in reverse.
2. Next introduce her to some of your out of town friends and drinking buddies, in particular the guys that you can trust while you go to the bathroom and you don’t have to worry about them pissing off your wife while you are gone.

When she needs to go to the rest room don’t just send her off by herself especially in some of the more seedy places. After all your wife looks hot and you don’t want other guys to fuck up what you have been working on by making some stupid comment as she walks by. Most guys don’t have the balls to say anything about a woman very loudly if the husband/boyfriend is walking right there with her.

There is also a flip side to taking your wife to places like this. You need to do things with her that she wants to do. This transformation cannot be all about you and there is a "give and take" here. For example; she may want you to accompany her to a flea market, go to garage sales on the same day of the big game or go see a chick flick movie or worse, take her to some fern bar for a Sunday brunch but that is the tradeoff you make for having a sexy wife.If she likes the beach and vacations, you may even consider special vacation locations, where the normal dress attire is wearing revealing swim suits.At these special vacation locations you may consider packing a sheer when wet suit (iloveswimwear.com or ujena.com or uilanoo.com). You may want to start off with a few week-ends at a hotel pool or hot tube to get her use to the ideal.

You are going to have to do things with her that makes her feel like a lady too. You may even want to occasionally buy her a very pretty dress that makes her look innocent and sweet for these events!Very few (if any) women want to dress a bit on the slutty side 24 hours 7 days a week and you must respect that.

 

6.It is now time to role-play that she is a different girl and that you are a different guy while you are having sex.Make it fun; call yourself Cowboy Bill, Jock Jack, Construction Joe, Super Horny Salesman, and etc.Remember to have nights of sex where you are you, and if she wants to role play, let her make the move.

After she starts making the move first in the role play quite often, it is time for the next step in the role-play.

During one of the role plays consider saying Cowboy Bill or whoever you are playing to be-- had to go home and now you are one of the guys she is friendly with dancing or at the special places.Use his name and get her to call you by his name, while having sex.You want to get to the point in these role play sexual sessions, that she uses his name and tell him by name how much she loves him fucking her.And you should start telling her how hot it is to fuck a hot married woman.Remember not to call her a slut or whore, because it will probably end the role play and set you back for months.

Don’t move to the next step until she welcomes the role playing or starts the role playing. Remember to mix it up, have nights of just being you, especially if it a stormy night or night when it is snowing.

7.The next step is when the two of you are out dancing or at one of those testosterone filled establishments is after a few drinks to ask her to remove her bra. The best time is when she is enjoying herself dancing with you and other guys. You may consider staying; “It would be real hot if you go to the ladies room and throw your bra in the trash before dancing with anyone again”.Don’t push it; just let the thought set in her mind for a while. Even if she does not do it that night, she will in time.If she asks if you want everyone to see her tits, consider saying, “It is something many women now do and I thought it would be a lots of fun for you to be so hot.When she disposes of her bra, it may be best to keep the dancing rather limited until men at the special place gets use to her not wearing a bra. So the first few times take her home early and fuck her as soon as possible. Tell her she was so hot you could not wait any longer. You may even consider adding it into the role playing having the special guy enjoying seeing her tits. Consider staying the special friends name likes it when she is bra less and is ready to fuck her.Ask her if she enjoyed the special friend looking at her titties. If you get a positive response; ask her if she wants to show her titties to more horny men.

Wait at least 6 weeks before moving to next step. you want her to go without a bra own her own accord, and you want your special out of town friends to get use to her not wearing a bra. Then follow a similar process to get her to stop wearing panties.

8.The next time at the special place dancing, find a dark corner booth and let her dance awhile before the next step.

After she is rather exhausted from dancing and she is taking a break… start playing with her tits or fingering her while kissing her or telling her how sexy she is.Be somewhat discreet the first few times out, when become bolder allowing others to see you.She may say that someone is watching, because someone is staring at you. Stop and say, “You are making their day; they wish their wife was so sexy.”

If she gets mad and wants to leave, say “I thought we were having fun, but you are right it is getting late.”

If she is madder than hell during the drive home, leave her alone, don’t try and reason with her and answer her questions.And do not try and hug her or give in.

Leave her alone and don’t discuss the event again, if she brings it up as often women will, consider saying, “It is in the past; it is time to move pass it’. Do not apologize. But over the next few days or weeks continue to tell her how much you love her and how sexy she is.

Do not role play during sex unless she wants to.Leave the ball in her park; let her make the next step, let her ask to go out to the special place with you.Continue doing things for her and being the loving husband. Continue to take her out at the regular restaurants.

If she has not asked to go out to one of the special places after a few weeks, announce one week-end you are going to one of the special places and will be home afterwards. Don’t ask her to go.If she does not ask to go, go alone. After a few hours if she has not shown up, go home.Women cannot stand to be ignored or left out of having a good time.When she asks if you had a good time say it was not as much fun at first without her being there, but the name of someone she knows had a new girlfriend with him and she made the evening more pleasant. But, you hope she decides to go with you the next time.

At this point she will happily go with you the next time and allow you openly play with her tits and finger fuck her to a climax or in a rare case this may be her stopping point. Just don’t force her to openly allow you to play with her tits and finger fuck her.

9.If your wife is one of the women that relish flirting and texting, you may consider sharing her email and cell phone number with other males on the internet that desire to chat with mature females.Just be careful on how you release her information, you may consider releasing it as a female friend of your wife that states she knows your wife would desire a secret admirer to chat and flirt with, but your wife is to bashful to seek out a male on her own.

If she starts texting more often and spend more time on computer, consider saying, “Hey, sweetheart, you seem to be really having fun texting and being on the computer, have you found yourself an internet flirt buddy, because if you have I found it really hot.”Don’t say anything else; just wait for her to offer information.

10.If she has opened up to you about her secret admirer and flirt friend. Tell her, if he desires a nude or topless pic of her and she wants to you will take one for her to send to him, because almost all women do it now. And it will make his day.Let her do the posing, if she asks you to take the pictures.Like most men, he will ask for something more revealing. At this time you can role play with her while taking pictures of her with a trimmed or shaved bald pussy.

[karkow]

KennyG gives one of the best advice (if not the best) that I have ever seen.

[slutwifeshare]

I could've answered in 2 , Do her

[UK_EX]

Kenny G - that is the best advice I have seen.

 

Hope that K gets somewhere now .......... let us know.