1st wife had 5 after we married. She fucked one of the guys for over 15 years of our marriage, and another for 2 years.
(By the way, I got her to admit she liked bigger cocks by asking her who her favorite lovers where not counting me. She said Ernie and Bruce. Then I asked her who her biggest lovers where. She said Ernie and Bruce. So I asked her if size doesn't matter, why is it she liked the two biggest guys. She thought about it a moment and then said..."I guess I do like big cocks." Earlier she had told me I was the smallest she had been with.)
2nd wife had about 30 before we married. 1 while we were dating, and after we married she saw an old boyfriend several times. (But that doesn't really up the count.) And I think at least 2 more after we married. I'm looking forward to her taking more lovers, but I like her having 1 or 2 steady long term lovers.