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  1. Most husbands start out trying to get their wives to cuckold them by putting the emphasis on "fucking other men." This is a critical mistake. Just because this idea turns you on, doesn't mean it is going to turn your wife on. Women think differently than men, especially married women---and the key word here is married. Women learn very early as little girls that being a good wife means being faithful to our husbands. Women also have some pre-conceived ideas about marriage that makes the idea of cuckolding seem anti-marriage. Women are taught to nurture the relationship, not destroy it by fucking other men. Just because the husband says he wants it, it still does not make it right in our minds. Men have to understand that in order for a wife to become a Cuckoldress. It is a process in her mind and during that process many hurdles have to be overcome mentally. The first hurdle for most women is "if I fuck someone else, what will happen to my marriage?" So take the focus off of "fucking other men" and put it on "enhancing the marriage." Remember, women think in terms of relationships and men think in terms of sex. Men are so stupid in how they approach their wives. You’re going to have to talk about re-defining the marriage and how it’s going to work as a cuckold marriage. Believe me, your marriage will change, cuckyboy, once your wife gets more than that pathetic 4 inches you can offer her. I suggest doing some of the cuckold exercises. Let her know you’re serious and this is not some perverted whim that you're going through and will change your mind in two weeks. You must start communicating and a cuckold relationship takes more work then a normal one. If you are not willing to work at it then give it up!!!! Most of the cuck wannabes really do not want to work at it. If she cuckolds you, there will be plenty of work to do, cuckyboy! So get used to it. You will not be giving her the cock she needs anymore, so you will have give her other things in the marriage, cuckyboy. The next hurdle is to make her feel sexy. After a few kids and 10 years of marriage most women do not feel very sexy. Take her shopping; buy her some sexy clothes and lingerie. If you do not have a dildo, purchase one from our store---and not one that is 12 inches. If the only cock that she has had is your little dick then I suggest something around 8 inches. Tease her with sex toys and include little role plays in your bedroom to spice up the relationship. Share your darkest fantasies with her, let her share hers. Let it go slow!!! Real slow!! No need to rush take your time, give your time and above all hold patience. She needs to feel sexy again. She needs to feel desired and wanted by other men. Have her wear the clothes and fantasize about other men while using the dildo. Get used to spending money on her, cuckyboy. When she takes a lover you will spend plenty---on hotel rooms, clothes, etc. Let her get confident by allowing her to flirt with other men. Just talking with strangers, allowing to attend some pubs, discos, music fests, music hunts with her woman friends will get her confidence back again. Caution for women too!! Need to really know a man better before allowing him to enter your bedroom. Its an ongoing process and there is hardly any formula or process depicted in books to do it that way or this way. Every woman has different mindset and every man too. So needs to focus and discuss a lot. Discussions can solve little problems at the very beginning rather than getting into serious troubles. Discretion is most important. Buy some movies; let her see how other sluts enjoy bigger cocks. If your wife has been conservative all her life, she will need to learn how to be the proper Cuckoldress Slut. Get a digital camera and start taking pictures of her all dressed up. Take her out to bars; take her dancing; get her used to going out and maybe some day she will go out and find some cock. Encourage her to go out on her own or with some girlfriends and come back and fantasize with you that she got picked up by another man. Encourage her to flirt with other men. Take the fantasy a step further. Ask her if you can create a yahoo or msn profile with some picture of her and her email address. Place the profile under married but looking. See if you get any responses from other men. Fantasize about those men fucking her and you serving them. My last bit of advice is to BE PATIENT. Even though she says she won’t do it, it doesn’t mean she is not thinking about it. Women are devious and it takes a while for us to tell our husbands what we really are thinking. If you engage her in the activities that I have suggested, then she is thinking about it. And above all respect is most important in any cuckolding relationship. Hotwives must keep in mind that just because her cucky is allowing or she is sleeping with other men doesn't make her cuck a whimp or pimp or her a slut. I mean in a family quarrels will happen, but during such a quarrel the husband shouting at the wife as WHORE or the wife calling the husband WHIMP/PIMP is a big big no. Besides cucks/hotwives need respect too, whatever the role plays, acts etc happens that must not be stretched beyond something which is truely unbearable or unacceptable. Thanks HAPPY CUCKOLDING
  2. I think, frustration is a part and parcel of cuckolding lifestyle. In fact, amount the frustration for the cuckold is the coupled pleasure for the Hotwife. An ideal Hotwife eats, wears, drinks and shits on her cuck's money but there is no physical relationship between the two. Even if there is physical relationship, that is limited to the Hotwife's pleasure and BDSM, role play etc. So in a way more the cuckold is humiliated, the greater the pleasure of the Hotwife and greater the frustration of the cuckold. It is totally dependent on the mental strength of the Hotwife and obviously understanding between the Cuckold and the Hotwife. Simple example like caging, cock-ball- torture, devastated orgasms are the tools by which the Hotwife frustrates the cuckold and gets more pleasure. But yes, not all Hotwives plan or improvise the same. I am lucky to experience these frustrating moments many a times. On one occasion, my wife was continuously in a physical relationship with my tenants. We lived in a large duplex house and a part of the ground floor was given to two post graduate doing students. When I was at office, the two students took complete care of my wife's needs and in turn they also got some pocket money from my wife. I was unknown of the fact. My wife did not tell me then. Whenever I would ask for rent from my tenant, they would neglect the schedules and went on keeping the dues after dues. They would also mock me and hhhhhhhhh me saying all sorts of ill words. Then one day, I heard the boys discussing in their room about the physical relationship with my wife and that is when I came to know the truth. When I inquired my wife she showed all the neglects towards me and grinned at me like I was some son of a devil. But the statement she said was that its her choice and wish whether she would let me know about her bulls and discuss it with me. She also persuaded me to let the tenants stay for free. So in the end it was the tenants stayed in my home, enjoyed my wife, ate on my money and left. I think its quite a frustration and humiliation for me as a cuckold. In another case, she was in physical relationship with her car driving instructor. In the name of drive learning she would take my car and do all sorts of shopping, hangouts, movie watching etc etc with her instructor. It was not that she did not learn driving but she was more interested in learning physical relationship rather than driving. In fact on one occasion to show me how better the instructor was in driving, she allowed him to drive my car while she was giving him a blowjob. I must admit with all respect and honesty the guy was hell of a driver, his concentration never shifted from the road and we were safe. Later on she came forward and kissed me with utmost devil in her and I tasted her instructors cum. Quite a humiliation and frustration for me. Another case, my boss had a huge crush on my wife, she would throw parties in his home in mostly under the pretext of meeting my wife. He would organize these parties whenever his own wife was out of town. When I was busy attending the guest, he was busy pleasuring my wife. It seemed to me that I was some kind of a butler in those parties since it was very hard to attend to all guest's requests. Somedays he allowed me to watch how he pleasured my wife and I was not only to clean him and my wife from the pleasure juices but also the reeking bed sheets of his bedroom and return it to him, before his wife returned, It was suggested by by own wife. If I was late, he said to his wife I took the sheets to clean since there was a mess in the party because of me and I did not return it in time. This was too quite a frustration and humiliation for me. So in conclusion, I will just say that in a female lead marriage relationship, there is always humiliation and frustration involved, depends on the Hotwife to which extent she can improvise and extend. She can even bed with her husband's worst enemies and best friends and even let the cuck's parents know how she treats him. Its all part and parcel of the game.
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    We live in Kolkata, West Bengal, India. Our first time was well planned. My wife already had physical relationship with other men before I was married to her. I was still a virgin during the time of our marriage. When our kid started to come of age and was admitted to the boarding school, we decided to implement cuckolding in our relationship. Its not that we started the very first by inviting another man into our bedroom but we were extremely slow and calculative in our progress. After marriage everything changes and we were not an exception and so we were very calculative in taking risks and steeping our foot on the stones. I started to accept "SHE" before "HE" in almost every matters of our life. Sometime doing household chores was also a part of my daily routine. We decided not to indulge in any sort of sexual intercourse and all our sexual pleasures will be limited to sucking, biting, teething, licking and orgasms through these acts only. My wife stared to attend parties, parent teacher meetings with our kid, and doing yoga. The more she was social the more she grew in confidence, and then being and exhibitionist, flirting with other men and dirty talking with other men was a piece of cake for her. This went on for almost 2-2.5 years before we were confident enough to have a third person in our bedroom. We started to follow all sorts of cuckold sites and social networking sites looking for mature and experience bulls certified or appreciated by other couples and who knew the pros and cons of the game. Luckily after much finding we did find our match and he was an amazing person. He was a senior cop, I would not say that he possessed extremely muscular physique but yes he was very healthy and his endowment was really awesome. We had regular net meetings on skype, twitter and by this process we started to vibe with each other, especially my wife was growing in confidence but I was growing in panic. First time it was not easy for me. Both of them started to spend quite a long time on Internet and this was helpful. I shared my thoughts with the bull master, and though I was assured by him, we could never neglect the panic and threats in my mind. He suggested me that the best option for me would be to leave my wife in his hands and go somewhere else while he spends time with her that way both me and my wife would be free from any sorts of panic and tension. My wife also started to date him regularly and it was very essential to keep the flow in the relationship. We booked a hotel in a Sea side tourist place at Goa, India and on the vacation when we met we really enjoyed a lot during the 5 day long vacation. I loved every moment when he introduced my wife as his girlfriend and every night I was just outside the villa when he was with my wife. Every day my wife was by life partner and every night she was a sex partner for the cop. Every day she was housewife and every night she was a hotwife. On one occasion, there was a party on the beech for all honeymoon couples specially and they attended it. When my wife was explaining to me that she was banged by her bull master right in open (like other honeymoon couples engaging in soft core sex acts) I was leaking like hell. It was later when I got to Washroom for a bath I realized I ejaculated by the fact that my wife was banged in public. We really enjoyed that vacation and after that he also came to our home quite a few number of times and my wife was incredibly satisfied by his sexual potent services. Sometimes he also used to bring his partners for a gangbang party and it was even better for us.
  4. Hello friends, I read a lot of books on cuckolding, female dominance, female lead marriage and relationships. I have shared some of my favorite book names here. I will appreciate if you share your fav books, authors etc on the topic.
  5. It's absolutely normal for wives having a boyfriend. But its also to be seen that in a cuckold relationship or a female led marriage, the cuckold needs respect too. It takes huge courage, homework, intelligence and patience for any couple to invite another man in their bedroom or private life. Similarly it takes a lot of courage, love and respect for any woman to reserve a place for her husband in her heart and then open her legs for her lover. I am not saying everything will tend to go to bedroom discussions if a wife has a boyfriend in all cases, but if that has to go then it must be planned and discussed thoroughly. In any cuckolding relationship the HOTWIFE acts as the pivot around whom the relation revolves and grows, if that pivot is not strong enough then its not worth the effort. It is also the duty of a wife to put her husband's love to test and cuckolding can be the best option. A wife living on husband's money and inviting others in between her legs except her husband, can put the husband's love, respect, honor and vitality to a great test. Lastly, I saw a man saying in this post about some female hormones and all. Let me also say that women who had or have a variety of male partners are less prone to mensuration-al problems rather than women with stable partners. Of course safety measures are important.
  6. My wife has 15 cocks including mine. 13 were after we were married and she started cuckolding. I always love to see her in actions with her bulls.
  7. We are from Kolkata, West Bengal, India. And we have been in this lifestyle for around 7 years.
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  10. Cuckolding is the way of asserting PUSSY Dominance over the Balls. Every woman should try it. Its the Wife's duty to put husband's love to test.
  11. Thank you friend
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  13. My Indian Hotwife. I love to see her in actions with her bull MASTER.
  14. Hi, I like this post and discussion. But cuckolding is very different from cheating. In cuckolding the game is played in front and not behind back. Advantages of cuckold lifestyle:- 1. Builds confidence for the lady that she can be in charge of a relationship. 2. Build trust in the relationship since the man is aware of his woman's desires and adventures. So saves him form the pain of jealousy, cheating and infidelity. 3. Improved intimacy between the husband and wife. 4. If carried out carefully, it can increase attention of the wife in husband's eyes and vice versa. 5. Closer friendship and say no "SECRETS". Our cuckoldry started little bit differently. I was 36 and my wife was 22 when we got married. She had an affair with one of her college friends when she was in her post graduation, she got knocked up eventually and I had to give the baby my name. Her lover was a careerist and never married her and left her. Later on when our boy came of age and was admitted in the boardings it was a win win situation for us and we are enjoying our lifestyle to the core with no looking back. We have been in this lifestyle for a about 7 years and it is excellent.