Hi
we have had a similar situation. My gorgeous wife and I have discussed at great length inviting another man to our sex life. We signed up to Fab Swingers, put a great profile with pictures together and commenced our search. After weeks of message and pic swapping we have two men lined up but they were both no shows.....
very disappointing and completely baffled as to the difficulty of achieving such a task. She’s a great looking woman.....