All the great advice paid off. After over a year of looking, we met a bull this weekend for drinks to judge for compatability. It couldn't have gone better. The conversation flowed, and everyone was getting along great. I had her wear a dress with no underwear and we came up with a code word that if said gave him the thumbs up to touch him. After about an hour of talking, she said it and for the last hour he took full advantage of the opportunity.