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[secondjag]

So, saw this elsewhere and found it mildly interesting.  What do you think?:

 

Other Couples Share Information

Quotes from other couples who tried hotwifing:

One wife: "I thought it would be like risking my marriage. What if the other guy and I fell in love? But I learned that there is a big difference between fucking and living with someone. So for newbies, the rush and excitment can trick a person into thinking they're in love, but its just new relationship energy like when you and your hsuband first started. It fades.. so tell yourself that it won't be long before you and the new guy would be just another couple watching TV and not having sex...and he wouldnt share you!"

Another wife: "We prefer dominant men to add into our bed, because its different than our normal lovemaking together. A dominant man is a fun fuck for a night, but most are an overbearing asshole to live with, no matter how good he fucks me. I'd much rather have both- and live with my husband as a partner. I mean, how lucky am I to have a guy who isnt an asshole, and lets me fuck other people too?!"

Another wife: "I realized that my husband wasnt requiring me to make a choice, between him and someone else. He was saying I could have both! Unbelieveable but GREAT."

Another wife: "when I understood that this was an addition to our married sex life together, not a replacement for it, I was much more ready to try it and am glad I did"

Another wife: "I have learned that the sluttier I am, the more my husband loves me. He wants to be with me more, talk with me more, is more attentive, and he treats me like a queen. When I was the model wife, we lived like roommates in routines. I wish someone had told me this 25 years ago."

A husband: " Of course the fear of losing your marriage to another guy if she fucks him is there- so our agreement is that intercourse is something we save for one another. But we do everything else. I love when she lets loose on another guy and then we go home and fuck together"

Another husband: "Don't I get jealous? Sure, sometimes I did, and it occasionally rears its head. But as we hotwifed more, the jealousy issue gets less and less to where its rare. Its just part of the deal, something to get through- not a reason to not do it. I looked at it like its better than being completely comfortable but completely bored."

A professional sex counselor:
Its natural and normal to be fearful. We all fear the unknown. But, this is also the best fuel to make sex better. Mystery, adventure, newness, taboo are the stimulants for our sex hormones to kick in. Thats what happened when your relationship was new and you thought about sex all the time. Your brain was bathed in the biochemicals for sex. They made your motor run. Unfortunately, the enemy of this stimulation is familiarity and security. Our biochemicals go dormant. There's nothing sexy about looking at our partner as the mommy or the daddy..and for good reason."Another sex counselor:

Another professional sex counselor
"Lots of people out here are not sexually "mature". They have reached a point where they do what they do, and they dont do what they are afraid of doing. But, the process of becoming a sexually mature adult is about learning to enjoy the sexual activities that we were once afraid of. Think about when you were young- and first heard of oral sex. "Gross!" "I'm not doing that!" But you worked your way through the unknown and the fear, you tried it, and you liked it. It was once a NO, and became an I LOVE IT. That's an example of how sexually maturing works."

 

 

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[Bimarried001]

Very interesting. I’ve never ever been jealous but I did experience fear the first time I brought a man home to my wife. The fear was of the unknown. 
What if she was doing just because I was begging her but she is grossed out by the idea. What if she hated me for bringing a man to fuck her. And so on. 
But not once did I ever feel jealous. I was born to be a cuck. 

[2miklspacer]

Very good to get the views of others inc the Cuckold lifestyle. Their fears expectations and sense of adventure. The fear comes from the unknown....and thankfully in most cases it's unfounded..