What Is A Bull A Confusion Eradicated

[Hungbull123]

Hello everyone

I have been into bull lifestyle for nearly 6 years now and have experienced that the term is not fully understood. People tend to think of bulls as people who are sexually charged men ready to thrust their cocks into hotwife pussy.

I believe from my experience that bull is an individual who fulfills the psychologocal and physical needs of wife and husband. He is not a sex machine rather a man who fills the gap in husband and wife relationship making it stronger and far reaching.

Your views and comments please you can disagree ofcourse

[Louise]

Yes

 

Hello everyone
I have been into bull lifestyle for nearly 6 years now and have experienced that the term is not fully understood. People tend to think of bulls as people who are sexually charged men ready to thrust their cocks into hotwife pussy.
I believe from my experience that bull is an individual who fulfills the psychologocal and physical needs of wife and husband. He is not a sex machine rather a man who fills the gap in husband and wife relationship making it stronger and far reaching.
Your views and comments please you can disagree ofcourse

Well put there HungBull,

 

My lover Bryan definitely fits the definition of someone providing my husband and me with both our physical and psychological needs.  

 

He really does make us stronger together, we are more open together, we talk more, we have a much better relationship.

 

I have discovered things that he likes, and he has found new ways to pleasure me.

 

It's a win-win-win situation for the three of us.

[Hungbull123]

Yes exactly I have felt the same from my experience. Thanks louise

[bellaazz]

I agree Hungbull. My wife's bull fulfills both of our psychological and physical needs as well of those of his own. We have a true win-win-win situation

[BigCockedBull]

I agree and yet disagree A Bull fulfills the psychological needs of his couple, but he does this by being a sexual machine. Somemen are good fathers and husbands others good lovers and breeders. We provide a completeness through excelling in pur abilities to fuck. God blessed me with a big cock that stays rock hard through shooting multiple loads. It's through those gifts that give me the ability to fulfill my role in the relationship. Of course just having sexual skills isn't enough, one must also have the right psychological disposition and understanding.

[Joys]

physical needs and some out-of-sex companionship is fine but "psychological needs" is a very wide concept. Psychological backup through sex and being a psychologically "right" person "clicking" with the wife and husband is one thing but too much psychological interference can cross the red borders of intimacy between the wife & husband. A delicate case...

[Hungbull123]

Thank you for your replies. My point was sex is an element in the overall relations not the dominant part as percieved widely. It is more than sex it is a physical and mental need. Bull emphasis sexual pros but fail to appreciate the psychological fulfillment that they provide to husband and wife. That is why most bulls are into one night stands

[rusty75]

Thank you for your replies. My point was sex is an element in the overall relations not the dominant part as percieved widely. It is more than sex it is a physical and mental need. Bull emphasis sexual pros but fail to appreciate the psychological fulfillment that they provide to husband and wife. That is why most bulls are into one night stands

You are quite right Hungbull.  The only way this really works, especially long term, is if there is a bond between all participants that is more than the actual physical sexual side.  The two guys my partner sees regularly are also great friends of mine and we've kind of all gone on this journey together learning as we go.  Everyone knows the part they play and enjoying each other's company is just as important as the sex.

 

The kind of bull you see in a lot of cuck porn is misleading I think.  A domineering guy with little regard for either the woman or her husband and just in to it to get their rocks off doesn't really happen too often.  Certainly isn't what we'd ever be into and is just fantasy stuff I think.

[Joys]

Thank you for your replies. My point was sex is an element in the overall relations not the dominant part as percieved widely. It is more than sex it is a physical and mental need. Bull emphasis sexual pros but fail to appreciate the psychological fulfillment that they provide to husband and wife. That is why most bulls are into one night stands

Now yes, I can second that. And I believe the dominant role is misperceived

[BigCockedBull]

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[BigCockedBull]

Now yes, I can second that. And I believe the dominant role is misperceived

I 100% agree with the statements above regarding the misperception cuckolding is given in today's porn. I would argue simply fucking another man's wife does not make one a Bull. It may make you a swinger, but not a Bull. This misperception is furthered especially in American porn that any time a black dick goes in a white pussy it somehow gets labeled as "cuckold" porn.

But while part of me is frustrated by these misperceptions part of me is like "whatever". I just shrug it off and shake my head. And in some way it has helped with meeting true cuckold couples, for when we meet they seem almost well grateful to find someone who gets what true cuckolding is is about. And this line of discussion in a way emboldens my heart. I truly believe cuckolding is a natural and healthy lifestyle choice. It seems right that small prick non sexually talented husbands are humiliated in the bedroom, but also respected and praised for their talents as husband s and child raisers. It all seems reasonable that wives shouldn't have to suffer a lifetime of sexual dissatisfaction because they are married to such men. And it seems reasonable and right that my talents and gifts in the bedroom help fulfill and create a perfect life within this relationship. Cuckolding can have a pure sexual element, the occasional one night stand a gangbang, but if that is all it ever is it seems so far less rewarding.

[Hungbull123]

Thank you. I shared my mind and experience. For I have felt that what truly is has been taken on the face value rather than understanding the true meaning why a husband cuckolds or wife becomes a hotwife. You people cleared my thoughts more.

[UK_EX]

You are quite right Hungbull.  The only way this really works, especially long term, is if there is a bond between all participants that is more than the actual physical sexual side.  The two guys my partner sees regularly are also great friends of mine and we've kind of all gone on this journey together learning as we go.  Everyone knows the part they play and enjoying each other's company is just as important as the sex.

 

The kind of bull you see in a lot of cuck porn is misleading I think.  A domineering guy with little regard for either the woman or her husband and just in to it to get their rocks off doesn't really happen too often.  Certainly isn't what we'd ever be into and is just fantasy stuff I think.

Rusty,

 

You are so lucky that your lady lets you in to the bedroom with her - my wife never ever let me close when she was seeing her man.

 

He never ever knew that I was aware of what he was doing with her, which was horny for me when we met socially at weekends, I'd shake his hand, knowing that he had been exploring my wife with those hands.  I would 'let slip' in conversation when I expected to be working away from home so he could arrange with her to come over to our place for the nights I was away to spend some quality time fucking and sleeping with her, safe in the knowledge (as far as he was concerned) that I would not disturb them.

[Oldercock]

I agree completely - if a bull sees himself as purely a hard cock then he is missing both the point and lots of the fun! He will also be desappointing to his couple - I think it is important that the bull forms one corner of a triangular relationship, he is providing  sex for the wife AND a complex, deeply satisfying relationship between himself and the wife, himself and the cucked husband AND an extra dimension to the relationship between husband and wife...

[rusty75]

I agree completely - if a bull sees himself as purely a hard cock then he is missing both the point and lots of the fun! He will also be desappointing to his couple - I think it is important that the bull forms one corner of a triangular relationship, he is providing  sex for the wife AND a complex, deeply satisfying relationship between himself and the wife, himself and the cucked husband AND an extra dimension to the relationship between husband and wife...

Nail.On.Head.  Excellent post Oldercock and sums up perfectly just how this should work.

 

My partner and I have a great life, we're very happy, do everything together.  I like to think I'm a good provider as we don't want for money, have a nice house, foreign holidays, etc and we stimulate each other intellectually as we enjoy the same interests and culture.  

 

But I've never satisfied her sexually.  This wasn't a real problem, she never complained but I knew deep down I couldn't give her the pleasure she gave me.  Now do I act like a typical arrogant bloke and ignore that or do I swallow my pride and accept that there are guys out there who can give her the best sex around?  We've now made bonds for life with the 2 men my partner has taken as lovers and we're all very close.  Everyone knows the role they play and everyone gets something from it - including me!