Why is your wife having sex with others so important to you?

[DeeDee]

I have been with my husband for 8 yrs, married to him for 3. My husband loves watching me have sex with other men much more than having sex with me, himself. My husband is 3 1/2" long when he is erect and as thick as an old silver dollar. My husband has a small penis and is bi. I know part of what turns him on about me having sex with other men is being able to see the other men's much bigger cocks. I also know that he likes seeing other men take control.

 

We go to an adult theater on Friday nights where we let any guy who wants to do what they want with me, sexually. I think it is the fact that I give up any control that turns him on at the theater. My husband also spends countless hours on craigslist looking for men to come to the house and play with me. He spends a lot of time trying to make sure I have a lot of sex, and so he can watch.

 

My husband prefers to see me gang bangeded, and for men to cum in me. I admit that I like that, too, but my husband wants that more often than I do. My husband also says that he prefers to see me with Black Men. I admit that I do very much enjoy sex with Black Men, but when I want rough sex, I want Mexican men.

 

When we go to the adult theater I usually have sex with Mexican and white men, and sometimes with Black Men, if they are there. At the swinger motel we go to, I usually have sex with Black Men first, then white men. When we have men to the house it is usually Black Men and Mexican men.

 

My husband likes seeing me do anal with Black Men, and I like that, too. My husband says he doesn't know why it turns him on so much. It just does. White men are usually more cautious and gentle, where as Black Men and Mexican men are more rough with me, which I like sometimes. My husband also likes going down on me after other men have cum in me. As a matter of fact, after other men cum in me is when he enjoys intercourse with me the most.

 

My husband is a complete gentleman. He is white and has a very small penis. So, I can understand why he feels that I need other men for sex, and I will agree with that. I have also never orgasmed with my husband, whereas I have with most other men. So, I can see why my husband wants me to have sex with other men, and I like that they do get me off when he can't. I also like being DP'd. Because my husband's penis is so small, he can never be part of a DP, and that makes sense to me why he wants me to do so with other men.

 

My husband is submissive, has a small penis and doesn't cum very much at all. I think that is why he loves seeing me with other men, and wants me to do so as often as possible. I love sex. So, having sex with other men is something that I enjoy and desire often. I just want to know what motivates other men to want their wives to have sex with other men, and why it is so important for your wife to have sex with other men.

[captainblack]

I enjoy having sex with other men's wives because they are responsive and appreciative.  I am somewhat rougher than most cucked husbands, and totally take charge when it comes to sex. I think that a woman gets more excited when a man takes charge and shows her that he has great passion and the great desire to take her.  Most sub-cucks seem to not provide their wives with that sense of passionate controling desire.

 

So Dee Dee do you enjoy this fucking other men because of the passion and control they bring that your husband does not?

 

If you are ever in New York City feel free to contact me.  I will be happy to act as local guide, while also making sure you know the depth of agressive passion an alpha male has for women.

 

CB

[Guest godoflove]

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[DeeDee]

Captainblack . . .

 

as far as how to answer, "So Dee Dee do you enjoy this fucking other men because of the passion and control they bring that your husband does not?" I have to say that I like men who are take charge and take me and do what they want with me. On occasion I do like very rough sex, and other men can provide this where my husband can't.

 

I like that other men are aggressive and will make the first move. If I want sex with my husband, I have to bring it up and practically beg for it. With other men I don't have to get them hard. My husband takes forever to get hard, and even then, he rarely gets completely hard.  I like sex with other men because it is always exciting. My husband is very limited in experience and is very predictable. I also like that other men get me to orgasm, whereas my husband never has.

 

I enjoy sex with other men because I love men. I love men who are muscular and dominant. I like men who have a lot of experience. I like men who are willing to do for and with me what my husband can't. I love my husband with all my heart, but he and I both know that my body is made for sex and other men.

 

My husband and I go to an adult theater on Friday nights, and sometimes, on other nights, if we don't have men to the house, we go to a swinger motel about 5 minutes from our house. My husband knows and likes that I like a lot of variety, sexually. And I do!

 

I guess the biggest reason I like fucking other men is because they are what I wish my husband was or could be, sexually. I often find myself fantasizing that the other men are my husband, and that it is my husband who is pleasing me the way they do. Since my husband has such a small penis and is not an alpha in any way, I am glad he likes me to have sex with other men. And I like having other men almost as often as my husband wants me to.

[pats69]

Boy. Does this all sound so very familiar. My husband felt and acted exactly the same way. 

[DeeDee]

When you say, "felt and acted" does that mean you are no longer with him?

[cuddles lover]

Your husband sounds so similar to me.

[shadnaster]

I love watching my wife put on a porn show for me.  I like knowing that she gets satisficed in ways that I really can't.  Not that I can't but, it's not the same. For example, she likes to be spanked. Some guys really leave marks but, i can't.  She came home after a date once and needed a spanking because "He made cummies where he wasn't supposed to". I started out spanking but, we both just ended up laughing.  It's things like that.

She's entitled to as many orgasms as she can get.  When we have sex, I cum once and that's it.  She has a regular that can cum 3 or 4 times. She really likes that.

I like to help her get ready for a date.  Picking out her outfit. Brushing her hair, shaving her.  Giving her the "Lick test" to make sure she's nice and smooth.  It's like I'm wrapping my most precious gift and giving it to someone. When she comes home a mess, I know he appreciated it.

[athlete951]

19 hours ago, shadnaster said:

I love watching my wife put on a porn show for me.  I like knowing that she gets satisficed in ways that I really can't.  Not that I can't but, it's not the same. For example, she likes to be spanked. Some guys really leave marks but, i can't.  She came home after a date once and needed a spanking because "He made cummies where he wasn't supposed to". I started out spanking but, we both just ended up laughing.  It's things like that.

She's entitled to as many orgasms as she can get.  When we have sex, I cum once and that's it.  She has a regular that can cum 3 or 4 times. She really likes that.

I like to help her get ready for a date.  Picking out her outfit. Brushing her hair, shaving her.  Giving her the "Lick test" to make sure she's nice and smooth.  It's like I'm wrapping my most precious gift and giving it to someone. When she comes home a mess, I know he appreciated it.

Do you find that the experiences rub off on other parts of your marriage as well?  For example, when she's been with a good partner, is she in a good mood for the next couple of days?  Less stressed?  Etc?

[shadnaster]

On 6/14/2021 at 8:58 AM, athlete951 said:

Do you find that the experiences rub off on other parts of your marriage as well?  For example, when she's been with a good partner, is she in a good mood for the next couple of days?  Less stressed?  Etc?

Of course.  She's glowing for the next few days.

[athlete951]

On 6/16/2021 at 8:59 AM, shadnaster said:

Of course.  She's glowing for the next few days.

That's great to hear.  What a lot of outsiders will not understand is how bedroom fun can have such a positive impact on the rest of a marriage.  I think the biggest is actually improved communication.  If a couple is going to successfully enjoy the lifestyle, they have to learn how to express their own feelings and desires to their partner's, while also learning to listen and accept their partner's in return.  It's wonderful.

You mentioned that your wife has a regular lover. Have you two generally preferred regulars since joining the lifestyle or has it been a mix of short and long-term?

My first two experiences with couples were long-term, so they certainly biased me.  While one night stands can be fun, there's really no comparison for me.  Long-term allows you to build trust and comfort, which allows you to explore so much more.  The sex just keeps getting better with time.

[shadnaster]

On 6/18/2021 at 4:54 AM, athlete951 said:

That's great to hear.  What a lot of outsiders will not understand is how bedroom fun can have such a positive impact on the rest of a marriage.  I think the biggest is actually improved communication.  If a couple is going to successfully enjoy the lifestyle, they have to learn how to express their own feelings and desires to their partner's, while also learning to listen and accept their partner's in return.  It's wonderful.

You mentioned that your wife has a regular lover. Have you two generally preferred regulars since joining the lifestyle or has it been a mix of short and long-term?

My first two experiences with couples were long-term, so they certainly biased me.  While one night stands can be fun, there's really no comparison for me.  Long-term allows you to build trust and comfort, which allows you to explore so much more.  The sex just keeps getting better with time.

My wife has 3 guys she sees fairly regularly. She does like the familiarity of it.  There's not of that initial awkwardness. She does still like the one and done guys too.  Because, even with the regulars, you can fall into a routine. there's just something really exciting about meeting a new guy for sex.  For both of us really. 

[athlete951]

14 minutes ago, shadnaster said:

My wife has 3 guys she sees fairly regularly. She does like the familiarity of it.  There's not of that initial awkwardness. She does still like the one and done guys too.  Because, even with the regulars, you can fall into a routine. there's just something really exciting about meeting a new guy for sex.  For both of us really. 

Three regulars.  That's pretty impressive.  I am sure she doesn't lack for attention, let alone when the one night stands are added.

I am curious what you two look for when meeting guys.  Are their certain physical attributes?  Personality aspects?  Do you prefer guys with experience with couples?

[shadnaster]

11 minutes ago, athlete951 said:

Three regulars.  That's pretty impressive.  I am sure she doesn't lack for attention, let alone when the one night stands are added.

I am curious what you two look for when meeting guys.  Are their certain physical attributes?  Personality aspects?  Do you prefer guys with experience with couples?

Nothing specific. a sense of humor. Somebody not too pushy and hung up on themselves. She's a nurse so the "I have this nurse fantasy" is right out.