Situation of a Cuckoldhusband.....

[kissmehard]

Cuckold husbands, Whats your situation..?

1) afraid to talk with wife about this.

2) talked with wife but she is not interested.

3) we both are ready but not able to find good bull.

4) I m not interested on real , only fantasy.

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[hunc]

talked with wife but she is not interested.

[James fredrick]

2 hours ago, kissmehard said:

Cuckold husbands, Whats your situation..?

1) afraid to talk with wife about this.

2) talked with wife but she is not interested.

3) we both are ready but not able to find good bull.

4) I m not interested on real , only fantasy.

Comment/Reply your answers

Wife claims she's not interested. But plays into it from time to time.

[funcple74]

When I first approached the subject with the wife she dismissed it , I tried a few more times but although I saw a glimmer of hope she wouldn't try it , then one day months later she asked if I had been serious about what I'd said , I told her I had been very serious.

it was then she confessed to recently cheating and she had enjoyed it but hated the sneaking around, so a few days later I'm watching the best live porn show ever . 

So to the guys out there who's wives aren't interested initially...........be patient 

[Joys]

2) talked with wife but she is not interested.

OR

3) we both are ready but not able to find good bull.

I mean, either she seems interested and waiting for a good bull to appease me or she is really ready for it and looking to find a good one and right circumstance

[UK_EX]

On 12/17/2016 at 2:41 PM, Joys said:

2) talked with wife but she is not interested.

OR

3) we both are ready but not able to find good bull.

I mean, either she seems interested and waiting for a good bull to appease me or she is really ready for it and looking to find a good one and right circumstance

Very similar here ...  My wife did cuckold me ages ago - for 7 years with our best friend - but after they split up I have talked about how much I love her and how I want her to do it again, but she is not interested, always dismissing it out-of-hand.   More recently, she seems to be softening to the idea of having someone else again (must keep telling her how much I love her, and I want her to have someone else so she can experience great sex), but I guess she is not able to find good bull who fits the bill.

[Naughty Nicki]

Somewhat #3

 we've been swinging for thirteen yrs and have just recently started migrating to cuckolding but have yet to find a good bull to be a regular till here recently which we have been talking a lot about.  He is well mannered and respectful outside the bedroom but a very dominant BBC in the bedroom and only live 10mins away. She has played with him a few times but nothing regular so far

[UK_EX]

3 hours ago, Hotwife/cuck luvR said:

Somewhat #3

 we've been swinging for thirteen yrs and have just recently started migrating to cuckolding but have yet to find a good bull to be a regular till here recently which we have been talking a lot about.  He is well mannered and respectful outside the bedroom but a very dominant BBC in the bedroom and only live 10mins away. She has played with him a few times but nothing regular so far

It's not easy finding a good bull who can please both the hotwife and the cuckold.   You want her to like him, but you don't want to lose her to him.  You want someone not too far away that can be reasonably regular for her.  You want someone respectful and well mannered but also slightly dominant and forceful.

[funcple74]

8 hours ago, UK_EX said:

It's not easy finding a good bull who can please both the hotwife and the cuckold.   You want her to like him, but you don't want to lose her to him.  You want someone not too far away that can be reasonably regular for her.  You want someone respectful and well mannered but also slightly dominant and forceful.

Well said , couldn't agree more , that balance of wife and bull having chemistry to make it fun but not so much as to lose her is very very difficult but personally I feel you need to accept the risk for the full experience, just my experience but I make her feel special all the time and show her the love and support this kind of lifestyle needs 

[UK_EX]

19 hours ago, funcple74 said:

Well said , couldn't agree more , that balance of wife and bull having chemistry to make it fun but not so much as to lose her is very very difficult but personally I feel you need to accept the risk for the full experience, just my experience but I make her feel special all the time and show her the love and support this kind of lifestyle needs 

Exactly, there is always risk in allowing your wife to have another man or men, that has to be accepted.  Just show her love and attention whilst she is with you, let him provide for her purely sexual needs.

[Naughty Nicki]

We have had our ups and downs with swinging and ins and outs of it. I think with all the good and bad experiences we had had over the years has made it a lot easier to make the transition. We are not a fully cuckold cpl as she allows me to stay play some times at the club and still with her but as for now it's working for us. 

[UK_EX]

That's the main thing luvR ... as long as you are all happy doing whatever you do.   I do think that setting limits is a good idea, particularly at the start, I know it helped me to come to terms with sharing my wife.  We always knew that either of us could call a halt to it (we never ever did), and that we could then talk through any difficulties we had.  Sure I had the occasional jealous moment, but that was outweighed by the sheer joy of sloppy seconds in a well stretched pussy when she came back from his place.

[Naughty Nicki]

Exactly, we ended up getting into swinging by accident, lol, we were out bar hopping when we were younger and ended up going into an adult book store, they had a sex swing but was asking like $500 and me being young and somewhat of a smart ass, I was like I can find the way cheaper online so we ended up getting home around 3:30 in the morning and  quite drunk so I looked up sex swing and all these sites about swinging came up. It took us about a year of talking about, even though we were both game for it, to get up the courage to agree to go to a club. And even then another three years before we actually played because of both of us be nervous and not knowing what to expect . She broke the ice by having one of her friends come over and having "every guys fantasy" a threesome, then I returned the favor and set one up with her with another guy. Then we agreed  to try cpls, we both enjoyed watching each other so we agreed we wanted to full swap but in the same room, but some how we both ended up getting caught up in it all and ended up in separate rooms. After I'd had finished I stood in the hall way watching and from that night on I knew I absolutely loved watching her be fucked.

[UK_EX]

Our entry was accidental too - when our best friend who was divorced started getting 'friendly' with my wife, when he came around at weekends socially he started to fondle her whenever I was out of the room.   She liked the attention, and we were going through a 'lean' patch sexually at the time.  She kept telling me what he was doing, and I kept getting erections whenever she told me.  I soon realised that I actually wanted him to have her, but it took her a long while to pluck up the courage to go the extra mile.   I knew I could not push her into it, but it was such a relief to me when she finally told me that she wanted to go to bed with him.  The following day, I became a Cuckold.

[Naughty Nicki]

We have friends that has basically got into swinging with pretty much that same  scenario, are you allowed to join, or have her after or was she exclusively his to play with? 

[UK_EX]

She was exclusively his - in fact he was never aware that I knew every time he was fucking her - that was something she demanded right from the start.   I was only allowed to join her in bed when he had gone, then I was allowed to lick her very wet stretched pussy.  I loved letting him know "accidentally" when I was going away on work so he could arrange with her to come and stay.  I loved knowing they were in bed fucking together all night long.

[Naughty Nicki]

Nice, I'm not sure we will ever get to that but like I said, I am enjoying where we are now and who knows.  We might progress to there in the future, lord knows we've came a long way already and no where close to when we started out. 

[UK_EX]

Just enjoy whatever you have - as you say, it's a long way from where we started out.

Best wishes for a great 2017.

Bryan