Vera

Hello All. I'm Vera and recently widowed almost a year ago. My husband (Charles) and I were married for 39 years. WE had what we used to call an open marriage from the beginning. We practiced a form of Cuckolding in our sex play at times. Charles never "Cleaned up" in the strict sense but one of his favorite things was to watch me with other partners , even during our Club Play which was most of our activity. We were members of many Swing Clubs across mostly the Western part of the country and a few in other locations. To the point though, We employed the use of Condoms to most of our solo playing and once in a while in our Club Activities. We practiced the safest activity that we could and as we were primarily "Club Players" , with other couples and had many contacts that we have known for decades in some cases. It was pretty much "Bareback" in these instances. In my solo playing , I have contacts that I have known for years and with my regular players I also do Bareback Sex. It takes time and patience to cultivate long term partners and to be able to have that "Trust" that is necessary. Just an observation, I have found that my younger partners are insisting on Condom use more than in years past which is a great sign. Thank you, Vera