Cuckold Coach

[longrun]

Hey guys just wondering have any you guys used the cuckold coach online book and have you had any positive results from using the techniques?

[KennyG]

Waste of time and money. I can direct you into steps that will work.

[Zen83]

I totally agree,  If anybody wants a copy i can email you a pdf copy,  though it's a total waste of time. 

[Zen83]

14 hours ago, KennyG said:

Waste of time and money. I can direct you into steps that will work.

Kenny, would like to talk more about your approach?  

Would you mind sharing some of your insight if is not too much to ask? 

[longrun]

On 2017-5-30 at 3:59 AM, KennyG said:

Waste of time and money. I can direct you into steps that will work.

Hey can you direct me please

[Naughty Nicki]

I honestly don't think there is one good way, everyone is different and what works for one might not for another and vice versa. If this was ever brought up to me before I can honestly say I'd been completely against it, and as it is we kind of slowly progressed to this point.

[KennyG]

Reply One

You do need to keep in mind that moving your wife into acceptance of a lifestyle where she shares herself with other men will take time.

Always remember that she is your wife first and you need to progress at her pace.Remember to never move to quickly or push.  .  It will certainly be worth it in the long run and you would rather have a slut that takes years to develop than blowing it the first week you try and then she will not try it again.

Most men that desire to share their wife fail, because they use the wrong approach and move to quickly and just jump into the subject and telling their wife they find it sexually simulating at the thought of her having sex with other men and watching.

Include yourself in your wife's life. If you take a real interest in things that interest her, she will more than likely take an interest in things you like as well. It's that give and take thing! Who knows by even learning some crocheting with your wife you may get a better idea of how to tie a fishing lure on!

You should go slowly with each step.

   and then follow it with a question, “ Don’t you find it fun being adventurous?  You need to be prepared with answers for any questions she may ask you during the process. If she suddenly asks you if you want her to be a slut or act like a slut, don’t say yes, consider staying “ I just want you to have fun,”

1.       Now one of biggest problems you will face in the beginning is that your wife may feel that she is only sexy to you.  You can start off by telling her how sexy she is and how much you desire her and back it up with flowers, dinners, romantic evenings and of course fuck her all the time. Sometimes you may even want to fuck her kind of hard, talk dirty to her, get her to talk dirty to you.

Start by buying her sexy street clothes. No, not street walker clothes but stuff she can wear out in public. If she objects or say they reveal too much, say that they are often worn by women in your office or around your work. You thought she would find it fun to be a bit naughty at times. Consider starting with silk blouses that can be worn with a jacket, pleated skirts, and halter tops for summer or thin sun dresses.  Actually go with her to pick out some sexy clothes.  You need to really get into picking out the clothes with her and not just walk around complaining like we guys usually do.  This new outfit will be your so called "favorite outfit" to see her in. Every time you are going somewhere that you will not run into someone you know and she asks what should she wear your reply, my favorite outfit!  After a while this outfit will get old to her, so what do you do? You buy her something even sexier to wear, and now this is your favorite outfit. You keep doing this until her closet is full of really hot clothes and secretly you get rid of some of those outfits that she says she likes but you hate. Don’t throw them away, but store in box or plastic container in attic or storage building.  She will get madder than hell, if she found out you threw them away. If she questions where they are, you boxed them away for when she may want to wear them again.  Don’t forget to leave the conservative clothes she wears to work, church, and family events.

these outfits. Don't forget that if you ask her to get dolled up, you should get cleaned up too and put on some clothes that she likes for you to wear.Eventually she will have all of these sexy clothes and she will have some outfits that are so hot she will only be willing to wear them to certain places. Also have her wear some of these clothes when you are just sitting around the house. Just every now and then ask her to get dolled up for you and be sure to fuck the hell out of her every time she wears    This not only is a hidden reward for her accepting the clothes you choose, but gives you more time with her.  You should start helping her more around the house doing simple things, like helping with laundry, putting dirty dishes in the dish washer and putting them away after washing them. Making sure her car is serviced and clean.   Now is the time you need to be doing more things to help her.

2.       The secret to proving to her that she is sexy and desirable in the eyes of other men.

Get her to wear one of her less slutty outfits, but a bit revealing just the same and take her to a restaurant. Here you will point out that a nice looking guy there keeps checking her out and turns away every time she looks his way. He does not actual have to be looking at her, but she will get use to the idea she is desirable to other men.

3.        Simply reply, "It’s a guy thing." It’s similar to when we try to talk to women and they get emotional and we have no clue why, except in reverse. Don’t just sit there and watch the game, or go play pool and leave her standing alone. Include her in all the guy stuff you do while you are at these places. She may even start to ask you questions like, "Why do you guys do (or whatever it is)?"    You know your wife better than I do but I would also suggest not abandoning her either.    You do not want her running into someone she knows and ruin your plans or set them back.  Make sure this is a place way across town if you live in a major city or another city if you live in a small town. You should have already visited these places beforehand and developed some friends with the people there. These places will become your special places.  Not a family restaurant or anything like that but some place like a pool hall, sports bar, racetrack, casino, golf tournament, poker game or any place where the guys far outnumber the women.After a few months of this routine, it is time to get her to wear one of her more slutty outfits in public by taking her to a guy place.  

4.        Next introduce her to some of your out of town friends and drinking buddies, in particular the guys that you can trust while you go to the bathroom and you don’t have to worry about them pissing off your wife while you are gone.

When she needs to go to the rest room don’t just send her off by herself especially in some of the more seedy places. After all your wife looks hot and you don’t want other guys to fuck up what you have been working on by making some stupid comment as she walks by. Most guys don’t have the balls to say anything about a woman very loudly if the husband/boyfriend is walking right there with her.

At these special vacation locations you may consider packing a sheer when wet suit (ujena.com). You may want to start off with a few week-ends at a hotel pool or hot tub to get her use to the ideal.    If she likes the beach and vacations, you may even consider special vacation locations, where the normal dress attire is wearing revealing swim suits.  There is also a flip side to taking your wife to places like this. You need to do things with her that she wants to do. This transformation cannot be all about you and there is a "give and take" here. For example; she may want you to accompany her to a flea market, go to garage sales on the same day of the big game or go see a chick flick movie or worse, take her to some fern bar for a Sunday brunch but that is the tradeoff you make for having a sexy wife.

Very few (if any) women want to dress a bit on the slutty side 24 hours 7 days a week and you must respect that.  You are going to have to do things with her that makes her feel like a lady too. You may even want to occasionally buy her a very pretty dress that makes her look innocent and sweet for these events

[KennyG]

Reply 2

5.     Attention she gets from other men while she is there.     Your shared wife to be is going to start feeling more comfortable dressed like a slut out in public and she will love the looks and attention.

 When she ask you, "Why are all these guys looking at me?" Simply reply, "Because you look hot as hell, they probably want to have sex with you, and I am sure all of them wish they had a wife as cool as you!"  The last part of that statement will thrill your wife. Women often love the thought that they are "one upping" another woman.

Don’t forget to change your mind about a topic on occasion, and then thanking her for being so smart to not only see things different than you, but to share her thoughts.   You also have changed; you are more helpful around the house and listen more often to what she is saying.  Your wife has already starting redefining herself, and is feeling more like she can discuss anything with you; she is feeling closer to you. 

6.    Flirting.  She is feeling more desirable to you and other men. She is wearing sexier clothes now without you asking her to, she has redefined herself as a sexy desirable woman.    

Most women enjoy flirting, but some stopped when they felt no longer desirable by other men. Once again, she needs your help to transform into a shameless flirt.    

Providing positive comments when she flirts shamelessly with handsome men can also work. You may consider saying when she flirts, “I am so flattered when you flirt with other men”. “Your eyes seem to sparkle and remind me how sexy you are.”     

Also, her discovering that she has a secret, or not-so-secret, admirer who longs for her will work in you achieving this goal. She may still not believe that such a situation is possible, as she feels that she has lost all her fizz or is too old or to overweight too be desired by other men.     

Just be careful on how you release her information, you may consider releasing it as a female friend of your wife that states she knows your wife would desire a secret admirer to chat and flirt with, but your wife is to bashful to seek out a male on her own.  If your wife is one of the women that relish flirting and texting, you may consider sharing her email and cell phone number with other males on the internet that desire to chat with mature females.     

After a couple of drinks, ask if she would like to share anything with you. In most cases she will reveal her new friend or friends  Don’t say anything else; just wait for her to offer information. In a few days if she has not said anything, and is still texting/chatting like mad, offer her a few alcoholic drinks.  If she starts texting more often and spend more time on computer, consider saying, “Hey, sweetheart, you seem to be really having fun texting and being on the computer, have you found yourself an internet flirt buddy, because if you have I found it really hot.”    

 Even if things seem to be moving along rather nicely.it is way too early for this; Don’t say you want men to have sex with her  . At this point you are about ready to start moving your wife into other aspects of sexual freedom. By now she is wearing really hot clothes for you and going to places where the testosterone is thick enough to cut with a knife. During your own sex with her, you should already be talking dirty to each other and you may have even mentioned how much of a turn on it is for you thinking men want to have her.    7. Role Playing

Remember to have nights of sex where you are you, and if she wants to role play, let her make the move.   Make it fun; call yourself Cowboy Bill, Jock Jack, Construction Joe, Super Horny Salesman, and etc.  that she is a different girl and that you are a different guy while you are having sex.It is now time to role-play     

After she starts making the move first in the role play quite often, it is time for the next step in the role-play.    

. Remember to mix it up, have nights of just being you, especially if it a stormy night or night when it is snowing.Don’t move to the next step until she welcomes the role playing or starts the role playing   Remember not to call her a slut or whore, because it will probably end the role play and set you back for months.   And you should start telling her how hot it is to fuck a hot married woman.  You want to get to the point in these role play sexual sessions, that she uses his name and tell him by name how much she loves him fucking her.   Use his name and get her to call you by his name, while having sex.  During one of the role plays consider saying Cowboy Bill or whoever you are playing to be-- had to go home and now you are one of the guys she is friendly with at the special places.    

  Tossing the Underwear. The next step is when the two of you are out dancing or at one of those testosterone filled establishments (sports bar, casino, racetrack) is after a few drinks to ask her to remove her bra. You may consider staying; “It would be real hot if you go to the ladies room and throw your bra in the trash before dancing with anyone again Don’t push it  ”The best time is when she is enjoying herself dancing with you and other guys. If she asks if you want everyone to see her tits, consider saying, “It is something many women now do and I thought it would be a lots of fun for you to be so hot. ; just let the thought set in her mind for a while. Even if she does not do it that night, she will in time.  

  When she disposes of her bra, it may be best to keep the dancing rather limited until men at the special place gets use to her not wearing a bra. So the first few times take her home early and fuck her as soon as possible. Tell her she was so hot you could not wait any longer. You may even consider adding it into the role playing having the special guy enjoying seeing her tits. Ask her if she enjoyed the special friend looking at her titties. If you get a positive response; ask her if she wants to show her titties to more horny men.  Consider staying the special friends name likes it when she is bra less and is ready to fuck her.

Wait at least six to eight times when the two of you are out before moving to the next step, you want her to go without a bra on her own accord, and you want your special out of town friends to get use to her not wearing a bra. Then follow a similar process to get her to stop wearing panties.    

Edited July 19, 2017 by KennyG
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[KennyG]

Repy 3

9.  Time to Review Progress.  Re-read the steps this far, not glance over them but really read them.

 Have you moved too far too fast? 

Have you continued to tell her how sexy she is? 

Have you continued to help her out around the house? 

Have you taken any breaks to let the progress made to become habit and normal? 

Have you mixed up things, going to the special places and doing regular things with her?  You don’t want her to start believing that you love the thought of the slut more than her.

Think back, have you ever said the wrong thing when she felt uncomfortable in a particular situation or answering questions?

Consider making no changes for a month; let her ask to go to the special place.

10.  The First Public Touch .    The next time at the special place dancing, find a dark corner booth and let her dance awhile before the next step.

     After she is rather exhausted from dancing and she is taking a break… start playing with her tits or fingering her while kissing her or telling her how sexy she is.   Be somewhat discreet the first few times out, when become bolder allowing others to see you.  She may say that someone is watching, because someone is staring at you. Stop and say, “You are making their day; they wish their wife was so sexy.”

     If she gets mad and wants to leave, say “I thought we were having fun, but you are right it is getting late.”

     If she is madder than hell during the drive home, leave her alone, don’t try and reason with her and answer her questions.  And do not try and hug her or give in. 

     Leave her alone and don’t discuss the event again, if she brings it up as often women will, consider saying, “It is in the past; it is time to move pass it’. Do not apologize. But over the next few days or weeks continue to tell her how much you love her and how sexy she is.

     Do not role play during sex unless she wants to.  Leave the ball in her park; let her make the next step, let her ask to go out to the special place with you.  Continue doing things for her and being the loving husband. Continue to take her out at the regular restaurants.

      If she has not asked to go out to one of the special places after a few weeks, announce one week-end you are going to one of the special places and will be home afterwards. Don’t ask her to go.  If she does not ask to go, go alone. After a few hours if she has not shown up, go home.  Women cannot stand to be ignored or left out of having a good time.  When she asks if you had a good time say it was not as much fun at first without her being there, but the name of someone she knows had a new girlfriend with him and she made the evening more pleasant. But, you hope she decides to go with you the next time.

     At this point she will happily go with you the next time and allow you openly play with her tits and finger fuck her to a climax or in a rare case this may be her stopping point.   Just don’t force her to openly allow you to play with her tits and finger fuck her.

If she allows you to openly play with her tits, she will get use to her tits being played with and being finger fucked in front of people. Do not try the next step for at least three months.

If she has opened up to you about her secret admirer and flirt friend. Tell her, if he desires a nude or topless pic of her and she wants to you will take one for her to send to him, because almost all women do it now. And it will make his day.  Let her do the posing, if she asks you to take the pictures.  Like most men, he will ask for something more revealing. At this time you can role play with her while taking pictures of her with a vibe in her pussy, and being spread eagle.

 

[KennyG]

Part 4

11. The Stranger’s Touch.       Once you have gotten this far you are ready for the next most difficult step of all and it may take some time to complete; getting her use to allowing a stranger touch her and her touching him.

     This is a good time to take a break and do some regular things with her.   The stranger’s touch will be a lot easier, if she likes to dance, and she now enjoys having her tits played with in public.    You actually need to talk to her about how much fun it would be for her to tease guys and allow them to touch her.

     During one of the role play moments consider saying: “Don’t hate me, but the thought of you letting someone finger fuck you and play with your titties while you are rubbing his cock sounds so sexy to me it is making me harder than hell.”

     Go ahead and do this privately and then in one of these testosterone filled bars or clubs, after she has had a least three drinks.  In that setting she may be receptive to the idea but if she isn’t or if she is, don’t push it that night. That could make her feel like you are trying to do it that very night and that would make anyone feel uncomfortable.  Just tell her that you have been thinking about it and you wanted to talk to her about it. Let her look around the club and ask her, "If she were to want another guy, what kind of guy would it be?" This will give you an indication of the type of guy she will want.

 You need to do this over and over on different nights, but break it up some, don’t do it two nights in a row. Just often enough that she gets use to accepting the idea (Manipulative isn't it?) Eventually she will want to try it out, if nothing else out of curiosity and because you have asked her to do it but never forced it. Consider asking her one night while she is close to a climax from finger fucking her if it; “I going to invite her favorite name special person over so he can get a closer look, unless you want to stop me.”  Unless she objects, order her another drink and go ask him if he would like to join your wife and you in a bit of fun. 

Don’t just jump into anything at first, but talk. Ask him if he is having a good time tonight. Talk about how much fun your wife (call her by name) and you enjoy going to the special place. Ask her, that is right honey, isn’t it? This will be her first yes, for the evening. Her yes, will make it easier to continue to say yes.  If he did not bring a drink with him to the table, consider ordering drinks for the two of you and maybe another for your wife if she is not getting polluted. Then go to the bar to order the drinks giving them some alone time. If nothing has happen when you return, consider saying, wife by name you are so sexy tonight. Then start playing with her titty that is closest to you.  If she does not get up and leave, consider saying, “The special friends name, we need some help here, I cannot play with both of my wife’s name titties at the same time.  You may consider a passionate kiss to limit her chance to object.  Let her take the lead from this point on. This first time she may start opposing any attempts to allow the special friend to finger fuck her.  Just remember to not push it.  However, if you can manage to start finger fucking her while he is playing with her titty, she will probably kiss him and start playing with his cock. Just don’t get her to climax to soon. You want her to take the imitative and give him a hand job. Kiss your wife often and whisper how hot and sexy she is. Once she and the special friend climaxed, make sure you gently kiss her telling her you really love her. And it is time to go home.  Don’t forget to fuck her when you get home.   Role playing is not needed this night, but if she wants to role play -follow her lead.  It is now time to take a break before repeating this scene. Be prepared to answer the question, do you want me to fuck special friend? This question will probably be asked over the next few days

[Nj-cuckold]

KennyG, I like you advice. 

It took me many years to convince my wife.

Till About 2 years ago she got very upset when I used the word "cuckold" now she used it Olmos every day. The first time she agreed to try a new men she did it as a favor for me, now she love it.

 

 

[Naughty Nicki]

even tho I did say everyone is different kennyG, your advice does sound very good in that it does and will take time to progress. 

[tinyone04102]

great advice!!!! Thanks hope I can get my conservative wife show here  to accept the idea. Will try out Your suggestions.

[Modelwife]

Kenny g ...great stuff

[RobJohnson]

I think we can all learn from others. I personally was taught from scratch from a Dominant Mistress. 

Everyone has a different situation, but listening to others and seeing if your situation matches theirs is a positive way forward.

 

[staffans1]

Wow! Great advice! I will read it over again and work for it, not only wish for it.