Tips for husbands to get cuckolded:

[sultanCucky]

Tips for husbands to get cuckolded:

 

 

Guys mostly start out trying to get their wives to cuckold them by putting the emphasis on "fucking other men." This is a critical mistake. Just because this idea turns you on, doesn't mean it is going to turn your wife on.

Women think differently than men, especially married women, and the key word here is married. Women learn very early as little girls that being a good wife means being faithful to her husband. They also have some pre-conceived ideas about marriage that makes the idea of cuckolding seem anti-marriage. Women are taught to nurture the relationship, not destroy it by fucking other men. Just because the husband says he wants it, it still does not make it right in her mind.

Men have to understand that in order for a wife to become a Cuckoldress. It is a process in her mind and during that process many hurdles have to be overcome mentally.

The first hurdle for most women is "if I fuck someone else, what will happen to my marriage?" So take the focus off of "fucking other men" and put it on "enhancing the marriage." Remember, women think in terms of relationships and men think in terms of sex. Men are so stupid in how they approach their wives.

You’re going to have to talk about re-defining the marriage and how it’s going to work as a cuckold marriage. Believe me, your marriage will change, once your wife gets more than that pathetic 4 inches you can offer her.

Let her know you’re serious and this is not some perverted whim that you're going through and will change your mind in two weeks. You must start communicating and a cuckold relationship takes more work then a normal one. If you are not willing to work at it then give it up. Most of the cuck wannabes really do not want to work at it. If she cuckolds you, there will be plenty of work to do. So get used to it. You will not be giving her the cock she needs anymore, so you will have to give her other things in the marriage.

The next hurdle is to make her feel sexy. After a few kids and 10 years of marriage most women do not feel very sexy. Take her shopping; buy her some sexy clothes and lingerie. If you do not have a dildo, purchase one, not one that is 12 inches. If the only cock that she has had is your little dick then I suggest something around 8 inches. A word of caution, do not shove the dildo all the way into her pussy the first time you use it. Your wife needs stretched properly and prepared for a bigger lover slowly, and I repeat, "Slowly".

She needs to feel sexy again. She needs to feel desired and wanted by other men. Have her wear the clothes and fantasize about other men while using the dildo. Get used to spending money on her. When she takes a lover you will spend plenty on hotel rooms, clothes, etc.

Buy some movies; let her see how other sluts enjoy bigger cocks. If your wife has been conservative all her life, she will need to learn how to be the proper Cuckoldress Slut. Get a digital camera and start taking pictures of her all dressed up. Take her out to bars; take her dancing; get her used to going out and maybe some day she will go out and find some cock. Encourage her to go out on her own or with some girlfriends and come back and fantasize with you that she got picked up by another man. Encourage her to flirt with other men.

Take the fantasy a step further. Ask her if you can create a yahoo or msn profile with some picture of her and her email address. Place the profile under married but looking. See if you get any responses from other men. Fantasize about those men fucking her and you serving them.

My last bit of advice is to BE PATIENT. Even though she says she won’t do it, it doesn’t mean she is not thinking about it. Women are devious and it takes a while to tell husband what they really are thinking. If you engage her in the activities that I have suggested, then she is thinking about it.

[1stexhub]

If she doesnt want you to be a cuck fo not force it if she believes you are a man who she cannot respect will pack up and leave need to understand that what you want may not be what she wants.

[Guest DocFev]

Wholeheartedly agree. NEVER force the issue, it will only destroy your relationship and or marriage. One of the main things I like to stress is being open and honest about each other's views on sex, sexual relationships.  Going behind the other's back is just going to lead to disaster.  With some couples, it's more about 'swinging' than being in a Cuckold relationship that excites the both of them.  A good Cuckold relationship is based upon openness, honesty, and support for each other.  Bad one's become abusive, dominant, demeaning, and in the end, break the bonds of a couple.  Make sure you're seperating fantasy from reality as well.  Sometimes, it just good enough for a couple to fantasize, role play rather than living it out to the real thing.  Again, be open, honest, and supportive.

[justloveit050]

nice

[PamelaAnne]

perfect!

[ronsocal]

very nice

[michelle_cd]

this is some extremely insightful and well understood insight..  For those of us who really care about our wives and want to ensure they really are happy in life, this coaching and mentoring has been very valuable.   i cant thank you enough for sharing !

[bellaazz]

VERY good insight. I know my wife's first fears were "what will this do to our marriage" and does this mean I am not satisfied with her and want someone else. You need to convince her that you will not let it affect your marriage in any negative way but enhance it and that you are totally satisfied with her but you want her to be better satisfied than you can give her and that you will not ever seek to be with anyone else. You only want her. When my wife realized how much more attentive and loving I was toward her, she started to see this as a win-win and it was something we could enjoy together.

[MaxMarieUK]

I agree with everything but have found adult clubs a helpful way of easing them into being fucked by other guys.

 

I explained it was a sexy ambience, she could dress up extra sexy but would not have to do anythinbg she didn't want to do. No means no so she can say no when a guy approaches her and there are security guys around to keep people safe.

 

This gave her peace of mind to try it - our first visit I told her to just look around and see how it worked - she chatted to girls to get their take on it and found it was more "normal" than she imagined and she enjoyed the ambience.

 

It took quite a few visits before my present wife went to the sex room with a guy but patience worked, letting her go at her own pace but putting her in a sexy but safe environment helped move her on.

[alex47]

Its some kind of the matter of being involved or still being involved. her going out, her having lovers, bulls, relationships, her being preg maybe, but not being left outside the

building she gonna build. 

[Shobhan]

Well,  luckily my wife had affairs outside marriage and made up her mind to cuck me. I just had to understand the situation and get myself ready for the new life. Easy one.

[DomBull4U]

Some really good tips and advice for those who are cuck wannabes. 

Interesting to note that sultanCucky originally posted this way back in 2014. But the points presented are still very much valid. 

DomBull4U

[RobJohnson]

Everyone has a different situation going on, but I personally think there are two points everyone can work on, which although won’t see the end result, it will ensure you have a good starting point.

1. Treat your wife with the utmost respect, tell her how stunning and sexy she is. Basically give her confidence in herself. Continue to do this ALWAYS, so she feels great about herself. There is absolutely no risk to the relationship here and neither will it appear a big step. But confidence will breed opportunity for her. Take her clothes shopping, encourage her to look good constantly, be proud of her. This will at the very least lead to her believing she has something to offer other men, but may want her to flirt, or react to flirting she receives. Basically help her to be more desirable to others.

2. In conjunction with point 1 you need to relax personally, don’t put any pressure on her, don’t ask questions, just be submissive so she starts to take control more. Then if any incident happens, she will worry less about what you will think and say. If you appear relaxed and easy going about it, there is every chance she will feel comfortable talking to you about anything that may happen with other men, flirting etc. She won’t tell you anything if she believes you will react negatively, so you need to give her the confidence that you will be relaxed if any conversations need to take place.

There are obviously more steps to enable the situation to move on, but I wouldn’t worry about those until you have set the above two situations up. By doing this you have a sexy and confident wife, and a relaxed husband.

Just think about that, a sexy confident wife and a relaxed husband. You can just see then where this may go.

You just watch her open up. Once she feels good about herself and she feels you have helped her by supporting her and being relaxed, you listen to the things she starts to do, the places she wants to go etc.

You can’t do one with out the other, you need to be relaxed to give her the space to grow. You can’t just be relaxed and not encourage her, you need both situations going on.