I am new here. I am 35 years old and my wife is 34. We have been married for 5 years. Anyway, From the beginning f our relationship my wife wanted to wait to have sex until we were married. So I agreed. Flash forward to our wedding night and I lasted about 20 seconds when we fucked. She was understanding and believed it was due to our having sex with eachother for the first time. Well, when I kept blowing my load within seconds of penetrating her she began to get frustrated but not truly angry. Well over the next year I noticed her texting someone an awful lot. I was snooping one day and noticed she was texting a guy named Matt. the texts were pretty sexual. Lots of flirting etc and stuff like Matt saying "I miss your ass" and things klike that. Well I confronted my wife about him and she said it was just innocent fun and he was her ex boyfriend before she met me. So months went by and our sex life continued to suck for her. She got even more frustrated and I felt so bad. Out of my own frustration one night I said "What do you want to do then, see another guy for sex?" well, at first she was shocked and said no way. But I could see the wheels turning in her head. So after a while I brought it up again. I love her, I want to make her happy and I dont want to lose her. But she needs sex that is good and from her texts to him the sex between she and Matt was amazing. She confided he was hung like a horse and had amazing stamina. So after A while I went to her and said you can fuck him if you want. She actually agreed. That was like 3 years ago and he is still her steady Bull. She fucks him 3 days a week or more. We have dabbled in some humiliation and chastity as well.