Personally disagree a lot of what you’ve put there.
if the couple have had the communication with each other and decided they want to write up boundaries and things that are off limits etc to protect their individual feelings and their relationship then that is their choice.
A bull isn’t there to dictate how they approach it, they’re doing it in their way. As a bull we should be respecting how they want to approach what is a very delicate stage of the whole lifestyle, the first experiences are for a lot of people a make or break part.
At the end of the day a bull isn’t part of their marriage or relationship. We’re an added extra so maybe don’t criticise their marriage or how the husband carries himself, looks or behaves and just appreciate everyone goes in to this differently, if you personally don’t want to deal with contracts then don’t, but maybe don’t slate those that do.