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Very emotional and quite a gut-wrenching feeling I expect, but I'd love to experience seeing her embracing and kissing with another guy, then see him feeling her all over with his hands, stripping her naked

Likewise - as a cuckold, my wife and I set up restrictions before she started having her bull - she wanted me out of the way, the bull (our best friend) was to be uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu that I knew exactly when and what they were doing together. I stipulated it was for one time only, but to be extended if we both liked what happened - we did so I agreed she could have him wherever and whenever she wanted, and boy did she carry on with him - they fucked themselves silly for the first month or so, and carried on seeing each other daily (usually when I was at work) for seven years. Best part of our entire marriage, just wish she'd do it all again. I would have liked to have been 'out' at least with him, to be able to share conversations in public if possible with him about his sexual conquest of her and to just occasionally be allowed to see him slipping his naked cock inside her tight little pussy.

Damn yes ! I'd jump at the chance to see a big naked black cock slipping inside my wife's tight little white under-used pussy.

Wow - what an exciting list. For me it's A - bedroom role-playing, have her text, chat, flirt when we’re out together. B C (any colour she likes) D (I am certain she did get truly intimate with her lover with lots of continuous and deeply passionate french-kissing) E G H (also like to be spanked by them both - belt, paddle or cane) I (Anything my woman really wanted to witness me doing, or having done to me) K (I loved knowing when she spent the entire night with her lover. Would also like to give them my blessing to go on a holiday away together) L I’d love to publicly ‘out’ myself, or be ‘outed’ as a cuckold, with her best friends) But not .... F denying me all access to her or J for my woman to fall in love with her lover. Bryan

That's just how I feel about it - the jealousy emotion is all mixed up with the sexy-horny emotions. For me, before the age of the internet, it was difficult to come to terms with these new-found feelings - but I allowed her to have someone else, and found the sheer feeling of having her pleasured by another man was intoxicating. Knowing my wife was daily having an intense relationship with this man was such a huge turn-on to me.

Wow, she's a stunner - where in UK are you?

No idea - please explain SeeMyUkWife.

What's that link ............ I cannot get to it using that

Deadpig, Dombull is absolutely right there - it all depends on you, your wife and her lover, but the dynamic can change in the future. I don't think my wife could handle the humiliation aspect that I would have suffered - something that I would have suffered gladly just for a glimpse of her in bed with her bull. The safety aspect is interesting, she had me hide in the spare room the first time she took him to bed so that if she shrieked out, I was to open the front door loudly and announce my prescence to scare him off. Thankfully I was not required to do that, she enjoyed her first fuck with him in our marital bed. As mentioned, do not get too demanding, it will probably frighten her off, let her progress at her pace with her new man. It was a surprise for me to find her full of his cum, but when I did I also used to lick her lover's cum from her pussy afterwards, and loved it. The advent of digital cameras has opened up the possibility of her bull taking her photo, and you seeing it afterwards - I wish they had been around when my wife was cuckolding me. Best of luck mate, enjoy the ride, and the complex emotions you feel when you know she is in bed with someone else. Bryan

So why doesn't everyone put their location in their personal information so we don't have to keep asking?

We set boundaries as I needed the rules to govern how often and where my wife was going to have sex with our friend. As for kissing, this was never an issue, I was happy for her to French kiss him, I just wish I could have seen them kissing. As for when and where, again I had no problems with this, they started in our marital bed and she graduated to going to see him at his place. He also used to come and stay with her at our place when I was away on work, so they slept together in our bed many times. I was never ever allowed to be present, this was her rule. I had to agree on this before she had him the first time. I expected them to use a condom, but I soon found they hadn't. In the heat of the moment and with a raging hard-on pointing right at my wife’s soaking pussy, she dismissed all thoughts of a condom. I found the taste of his cum was so addictive, I just wanted them to carry on without them. They set up all their encounters together when I was out of earshot, or they chatted over the phone when I was next to her. At weekends I would 'accidentally' let him know when I was going to be late back or away on business. How many times did I allow him to play with her? Whenever they wanted sex, which was just about every day. We all had a great time. Bryan

It's all a matter of personal choice - it's her body, so she has the right to choose who she lets inside her pussy. The cuckold on the other hand should have no choice who she fucks with. Personally, I wouldn't mind the colour of anyone's skin, I just want to see someone to pleasuring my wife.

What a super idea - not sure I could get my wife along to it though - but i'd sure try.

Who doesn't ? Yep, I'd have loved to watch my wife get fucked whilst she sucked my cock.

Wow, what a thought,, your wife being seen naked by around a thousand guys It's like the thought that I had about how much cock my wife took from our best friend. She had him daily for 7 years, so 365 x 7 = 2555 times that they fucked and he dumped his load inside her. Sure they missed out some days, but other times when they slept together, they had multiple fucks in one day/night. How many miles of cock has she had inside her? How many gallons of cum would that be?

Similar to me then - my wife also excluded me from the bedroom when she was with our best friend. I also would be prepared to prepare someone else's cock for her by sucking it if she would only let me do it. I used to love licking her pussy full of cum after he had left, but would have liked to do it whilst it was still fresh and he was still there. The humiliation of him seeing me avidly licking his cum from inside her, where his naked cock had just been.

This is my ultimate cuckold fantasy too. I know it will never ever happen ...... but ......... Just to imagine her taking absolutely anyone that comes along to bed and fucking with them is such a powerful thought. Yep, I'd love to see it too.

Do as I say, don't do what I do Why are we like that - I would not recommend it for our kids, but I know it was right for us. Why shouldn't they enjoy themselves in bed whatever way they want to .... I sure wouldn't tell them off for it if I discovered that was what they wanted.

Very good progress there Cflake. Keep us up to date with more progress.

I have to agree there - but if you do trust the bull (my wife had our newly divorced best friend), then it is absolutely wonderful. It's a super lubricant for your cock to swim inside her, and a tasty treat to lick out of her pussy.

Let's hear the story please ..........

This was originally from From : http://cuckoldtales.fannypress.com/?p=148The big question is, what makes such a relationship work? How does a married couple find balance in such a lifestyle? What must each spouse be prepared for or be willing to sacrifice? These questions and more is what this post is all about. The quintessential aspect of such a relationship is security in the marriage to begin with. A relationship that is already rocky will falter. The next area for success is non-jealousy. This is a big one. The husband must like the idea of seeing or knowing that his beloved is with another guy. It has to turn him on and not make him upset. We as men are programmed to be competitive and want to be better that the guy next to us. To have your wife in the arms of a better lover, a guy who makes her wild in bed and satisfies her more than you is a huge thing to deal with on an emotional level. You may think it’s going to be great, but you may find that it hurts way too much. You can’t sacrifice your spirit for the sake of a sexual thrill. The swinging open marriage let your wife play lifestyle is and has to be all about strengthening your marriage and making both partners excited and thrilled to be so adventurous and open minded. If it makes your marriage better, it works. If it hurts is stop immediately and move on. The hotwife must desire extra sex. There is no need to put emotions on the line if sex is not desired. In this case the husband realizes he is not the lover that can completely satisfy his wife. He may have issues or she may have issues. Either way, the idea of an extra lover who is a stud and very capable of bringing the wife to greater heights is desired. The issues could be age difference, the husband’s impotence, or perhaps premature ejaculation. He could be small in penile size compared to his wife, and or he could be injured, ill, or incapable of the energy needed to make his bride get wild in bed. This does not mean they are not in love or that they can’t have a sexual relationship; it only means he or she or both desire more for her. Sex is a primal instinct. Why not make it reach it’s fullest potential? She may just love more sex than the husband can offer or give. She may be multi-orgasmic through long rounds of intercourse, or by other means able to get off many times in one evening. She may be larger in organ size, and her husband’s smaller member may not be able to fulfill her carnal cravings. She may just want more sex than the man she loves can deliver. All the above can lead to a great cuckold and hotwife relationship and to the seeking of a bull or stud to bring it all to a crescendo. However boundaries must be set. Each and every relationship in this regard needs certain rules. For example, kissing becomes an issue. Should the wife be allowed to French kiss her lovers? This may seem trivial, but it’s one of the biggest issues a couple will face. French kissing is extremely intimate and evokes strong emotions. Another huge issue is when and where, and is the cuckold allowed to always be present? The answer to this varies from couple to couple. The spouse must agree on this wholeheartedly. The next issue is condom or no condom. We all know guys hate condoms. It again may seem like something that will work itself out, but in the heat of the moment and with a raging hard-on pointing right at your wife’s soaking pussy, she may forgo all thoughts of a condom, as will her bull. There are more issues. Who does the setting up of the encounters, the phone calls, the emails? The husband and wife should make all this very clear prior to embarking on the hotwife lifestyle. Couples have different views again on these subjects. Another big one is how many times will the couple allow a bull to play with the wife? The more they fuck, the more they bond, and the more emotionally complicated things get. I have met with bulls that tell me stories that would scare the crap out of all prospective cuckolds wanting to give out their beautiful sexy wives for more nights of erotica with a more advanced sexual stud. One told me this, “I have had so many wives and girlfriends tell me they would leave their man in a minute to be with me.” They ask to have secret meetings, just us two.” If this doesn’t scare my fellow cuckold husbands I can’t think of what would. My point is, be firm and be very detailed about all these issues. If the relationship is strong and ground rules are set, the experiences can be amazing. There’s nothing quite like seeing the woman you love sexual charged. Seeing her brought to heights unimaginable is beyond words. You will fall in love with her all over again. You will cherish her so much. The bond you share will grow leaps and bounds. The two of you will shop more together and laugh more together. You will go on trips and grand adventures like never before. It will bring you much closer as a couple. A hotwife in such a setting usually will feel as though it makes her feel very feminine and adored. She will get the best of both worlds – the stability of a loving traditional relationship with a husband and kids, plus the uninhibited sexual freedom and exploration that is always available whenever she wants it. Here’s what every good couple in the lifestyle should have in what I call “The Adventure Bag.” 1. Condoms of all sizes – for us magnum XL was the brand we preferred. 2. Breathe mints- great for during or after oral sex for your bull to use. 3. Lubrication. Astroglide is the most natural. 4. Rolaids in case of an upset tummy. 5. Small wine bottles- great liquid courage and a little ice on hand. 6. Small hard liquor to mix with soda from vending machines. 7. Music via an pod and a small speaker playing system. 8. Digital camera and or video player- charge your batteries ahead. 9. Small vials of perfume for the hotwife to freshen up and or have on hand. 10. Viagra on hand never hurts, true bulls rarely use it. 11. Aleve for tension headaches. 12. Snacks like pretzels and always a chocolate bar for the hotwife afterward. 13. Bottled Water- very important to have on hand. 14. A lint roller to brush clothing up. 15. Bottle opener. 16. A Lighter. 17. Listerine Pocket Paks. 18. A Pen for contact information just in case someone new comes along. 19. A GPS, this tool helps any traveling to meet your stud much easier. 20. Your hotwife’s favorite toy- just in case things go wrong! In closing the lifestyle of cuck and hotwife is an amazing journey of emotions and sexual freedom. The adventures within our lasting memories that can bring a married couple closer and enhance a marriage in many many ways. The biggest issue is that your relationship must already be strong to begin on such a journey. As a couple always be patient. Be VERY patient, but don’t ever lower your standards. I hope above all else –you enjoy the ride.

Robert, Who doesn't !!! You are such a lucky guy to have such an obliging wife - I am so jealous -Just wish my wife was so sexually free.

Pregnancy is just one hazard of allowing your wife to have sex with someone else. Perhaps the risk is something that we secretly like, just like some who like jumping out of planes with a parachute, or climbing mountains. For me, the risk was certainly present, but the reward of knowing she was having the pleasures of regular bareback sex was worth the small risk.

I just wish my wife had allowed me to be present when she fucked our best friend, I would have loved the sheer humiliation of him knowing that I was knowingly allowing him to fuck her. Just to see his big bareback cock sliding deep inside her, to hear her moaning in orgasm, to see him deposit his bucket-loads of seed inside her would have been wonderful.